The past three people I have dated haven't been able to kiss very well. I have ended up telling them that I don't like kissing on the lips just to avoid the whole dilemma. I really miss good quality kissing. Like, I could do without everything else, just to have a good kiss every now and then. I haven't had one in so many years

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Why didn't you simply teach them to kiss the way you like it?

Two of the people I was with for a very short time and the most recent guy that I told you about before (the abusive one who called me bad names and stuff) was a fruitless effort. If you told him to do something differently or tried to take the lead he would get mad

Some people just don't get it.
:(

I know, isn't it sad? it's not that hard.

What do you not like about the way they kiss?

They are just messy, and think that the more tongue and spit swopping the better. It's gross, and its just wrong.

i agree, girls use waaaay too much tounge.

I made out with this guy and his girlfriend at this rave once... It was amazing.
Its a great story as well.
First time something like that had ever happened.
I'm one hell of a good kisser anyways.

I'm one hell of a good kisser anyways.

Lol, how do you know that?

And speaking of which, maybe the OP is deluded too into thinking they're a good kisser.

It's been said that i'm an excellent kisser. Look me up if you think you're worth it.

Because bro... Every person I've kissed has told me how good of a kisser I am.
I can't stand a sloppy kisser or someone who just doesn't know how too.
I can't eat pussy though, thats one thing I never learned.

I can't eat pussy though, thats one thing I never learned.

Meh, same here.

Yeah i can't stand people being sloppy. I don't want to exchange spit, I want to kiss. And I'm not saying I am the best kisser because I know I'm not, but I know that I am not the worst either.

This is what I have to do with a lot of the girls I kiss...

"No I don't want your tongue licking the back of my throat...Just follow and enjoy, love!"

God damn...Is there some rule I'm not aware of that states every girl between the ages of 16 and 30 have to put their tongue so far down my throat they can taste what I had for lunch?!

All you need is the lips and a some light finger work! ;)

This is what I have to do with a lot of the girls I kiss...

"No I don't want your tongue licking the back of my throat...Just follow and enjoy, love!"

God damn...Is there some rule I'm not aware of that states every girl between the ages of 16 and 30 have to put their tongue so far down my throat they can taste what I had for lunch?!

All you need is the lips and a some light finger work! ;)

Omg perfect! You have it down! Finally, at least one other person that sees it the way I do

I like sucking on the tongue and biting the lips.
Always hot. Seeing as how my lips are pierced three times I like the same back.

I like to bite into the tongue as hard as I can.

Mmmm... blood...

*drools*

Omg perfect! You have it down! Finally, at least one other person that sees it the way I do

Fuckin' aye! :D

This is why they love kissing me!

Getting mad???
I think the kissing problems were probably the least of your troubles with those guys.
Good riddance.

You can be sure that when you stumble upon someone who's not an asshole they'll either already be a good kisser (which is likely) or they'll be happy to try whatever you'd like them to.

Coincidentally, just before posting here I finished a documentary called Pucker.

only it was about whistling...

if anything i LIKE sloppy!

my current gf is ok, sometimes i try to give it some tongue, she plays along but always reverts back to the norm. BORING

Lol whistling, that was cute. Thanks for the laugh. Anyways, the the poster above me, sloppy is disgusting, what are you, twelve?

I barely use any tongue at all when kisses, unless it's very lightly to flick their lips/tip of their tongue. Very....Hollywood-esque style kissing.

I like tongue. Biting lips, nips/kisses to the neck. I've been told I'm a good kisser.

Is it customary to compliment people on their kissing or something? Because I've never done it.

Yeah, me either but I haven't found anyone TO compliment so I guess I'm in the good.

I don't like when girl start off with tongue for the first time. It's just.....unexpected.

I am an awesome kisser, that's a fact. Every single girl I've kissed agrees.

I don't mind some tongue, but it depends on when and how it is used.

what? do you kiss like a fucking parrot or something? like a chipmunk? human beings should use some tongue in a passionate kiss.