My girlfriend doesn't trust me. i have a good friend that is a girl. At one point i thought i wanted to date her but then i realized she was better as a friend. I talk to her often. My girlfriend thinks i am going to cheat on her with this girl. i care only about my girlfriend, but for some reason we get into fight about this friend of mine everyday because my girlfriend cannot trust me. She makes me feel like having a friend that is a girl is wrong. i have hooked up with this friend before. i don't know what to do. that might have been a little confusing let me know if i need to clear it up. thanks

oh man I am in the same situation. I think its cuz both of our girlfriends are too insecure with themselves, that they can't realize that we are not going to cheat on them, specially since this person is just your friend.

Don't have sex or otherwise abuse the girl's potential trust in your other friend and you won't have any trouble. Most guys are assholes so, if you're not, she'll need a little time to recover from the surprise and adjust the way she thinks about you. Just give it time.

You could even throw it out there with the other friend too. You can tell her that your girlfriend worries a bit about you two and see if, as a girl, she could offer any advice. Saying this will also establish your position on any potential "hookups" with that secondary girl, as she may not know what your feelings are exactly either.

Just give it a while.

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You're incoherency borders on illiteracy.

That girl might be just a friend now, but at one time she was someone you hooked up with and wanted to date. How is your girlfriend supposed to know that that's any different now hm? Your girlfriend is totally reasonable in expressing her concerns, as long as she's not doing anything crazy you need to get over it. If you're not doing anything wrong then it will blow over. Behave yourself.

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We should ban together to expose glaring interpersonal injustices as they are presented to the internet.

OP, she's jealous and afraid. Give her time, make sure she knows that you want her and only her. If her paranoia doesn't decrease, then you may have a problem.

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It's because guys and girls can't be "just friends" and that's the truth.

The only way to build a bond of trust that will sort this is to have a foursome. The friend, the girlfriend, you and a dolphin.

Trust me on this.

I didn't think of that,,,but you're right.

We should ban together to expose glaring interpersonal injustices as they are presented to the internet.

If you come up with a badass name for our squad then I'm totally in.

no.
it's not.

I wouldn't trust you either, lul.

i have hooked up with this friend before.

BAM! Right there. That should answer everything.

BAM! Right there. That should answer everything.

i hook up with a lot of girls that have become just friends.i realize nothing is there and dont hook up anymore. Also to the person that said guys and girls cant be friends is a horny loser. girl friends are a great thing to have to better chances of hooking up with their friends. plus if a girl doesnt attract you does that mean you cant be friends with her. too many people think that guys and girls are a different species and that is why most guys have no social skills with women.

Also to the person that said guys and girls cant be friends is a horny loser. girl friends are a great thing to have to better chances of hooking up with their friends.

That's one of the stupidest things I have ever read.

A person who you use for their connections is not a friend.

The point the other person was probably getting at is that there will always be sexual/romantic tension between two people of the opposite sex.

plus if a girl doesnt attract you does that mean you cant be friends with her.

Then maybe she's attracted to you?

too many people think that guys and girls are a different species and that is why most guys have no social skills with women.

False. On both accounts.

Men and women are completely different. And it's usually the people who realize this who have better social skills with women, as they obviously have a much better understanding of how they think and function.

Bullshit. Cause they'll always be sexual tension? Every time I hear that argument I just think, so what? I don't get it. So bisexual people can't have friends at all?

Some of my friend I can rightly say I have no tension with and am not attracted to in the least, others I've slept with. What is it about sexual tension that cancels out a friendship?

Bullshit. Cause they'll always be sexual tension? Every time I hear that argument I just think, so what? I don't get it. So bisexual people can't have friends at all?

Some of my friend I can rightly say I have no tension with and am not attracted to in the least, others I've slept with. What is it about sexual tension that cancels out a friendship?

exactly

Bullshit. Cause they'll always be sexual tension? Every time I hear that argument I just think, so what? I don't get it. So bisexual people can't have friends at all?

Some of my friend I can rightly say I have no tension with and am not attracted to in the least, others I've slept with. What is it about sexual tension that cancels out a friendship?

It's the fact that when you're in a relationship and you're spending all kinds of time alone with these other friends with whom there is sexual tension, it can be a bit concerning for the other person in the relationship.

exactly

STFU. You're annoying and deluded.

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Ill take your cookie