Last friday night went out with the boys.

Ended up in some club and meeting a really nice girl whos a year older than me.

Anyway so she says i look a lot like laurence or whatever his name is on Prison break.

I ask to take her out some time...She rings me on sunday so i take her out.

She has surfed (standup) since the age of 10, ive been surfing since i was 18.
She snowboards, she plays soccer, she has finished studying physics and science at uni..

Im an electrician who bails out of work as soon as i can to go surfing, or quit my job to go for a surf trip overseas.

Anyway maybe im reading to much into this but do i really have a chance with this girl or should i just let her go?

Its up to me to call her but i sort of promised myself i wouldnt get oine so i could save to go overseas for 6 months.

What do you think?

I feel like my life is too boring to have someone involved right now.

All i want to do is surf and save coin.

How do i know if shes cool with just being fuckbuddies?

hey dude dont get down on yourself so far so good!

she is obviously interested in you although you may think your boring.....

If i was you i would use the surfing thing as something you two can bond with.....

my advice is be cocky/funny with her and bust on her and just play along as if it were a cute game with your little sister....then when the time is right give her the kiss test(play with her hair and she how she reacts....compliment her hair while playing with it.....if she doesnt object to that than you can go in for the kiss)

then just try to move up the latter physically at least each time you see each other.

then you have yourself a nice physical relationship and you can choose whether or not to keep it that way or to actually become a couple. ITS ALL UP TO YOU BUDDY!!!

but you cant be boring...just do regular things with her like grocery shopping, coffee, invite her over to cook her dinner, ummmmm GO SURFING?!?!?!?

then maybe in a couple months you all can go on that trip TOGETHER!!!!

but just start small and remember that she really does want you. you just gotta be a man about it.

My man you guys sound like a perfect match...
But is there anything BESIDES surfing you have in common?

Also, just remember, your life will stop being boring once you have a woman involved...

Then it might get TOO interesting.

GO FOR IT!
Make yourself seem unavailable. Not too unavailable, but like you have things to do.

Make her feel like you are making time for her, even if you have to lie and say you are out and about when you are jerking it on the computer.

DON'T MAKE IT EASY.

Threads like this make me smile. You are smart, and don't choose to get with girls who would cheat on you and get pregnant with a fat black dude....

Not that I am gonna mention any names, but...

agreed with the guy above me.

dont throw yourself at her.....

and dont call her everyday.

and when you do call, just do it one time.

but the guy above me says it very well.

This +1

Also, something you will find that always works, is let a girl call you, and DON'T pick up. Wait 5 minutes or so, just to get her thinking "I wonder what he is doing/where he is."

THEN give her a call, and say something about how you are sorry you missed it, but couldn't get to the phone. When she asks why, either make up some bullshit, or tell her "it's a secret".

Girls like that stuff...

Get a shirt printed that says "Eletricians give the best sex. Enquire within my pants"

Should get the ball rolling.

that'll get both of them rolling.

that'll get both of them rolling.

Stupidest fucking pun ever. Unsay it, now.

This +1

Also, something you will find that always works, is let a girl call you, and DON'T pick up. Wait 5 minutes or so, just to get her thinking "I wonder what he is doing/where he is."

THEN give her a call, and say something about how you are sorry you missed it, but couldn't get to the phone. When she asks why, either make up some bullshit, or tell her "it's a secret".

Girls like that stuff...

i absolutely hate shit like that. guys who play stupid games like that to try to get girls are just immature.

if you're interested in her, show it. but like someone else said, don't throw yourself at her. if you call and she doesn't answer, leave her a message. if she doesn't call you back, wait a few days and try again. repeat one more time. if you call her 3 times in a row without her calling you back in between, give it up.

i wouldn't not go out with a guy i like just because he's an electrician. the only way i could see your career interfering is the fact that she's in college, so you guys probably have different schedules and won't get to see each other that much. she's probably in class early in the day and free in the afternoons, while you work until around 5, right?

Thanks for the feedback.

No she actually works now, she probably finishes later than i do.
I fisnish around 3pm most days, some days earlier.

Im not really into the playing games i think im past that, it does seem a bit immature.

And actually i think shes worth more than just fuckbuddies too.

I hadnt called her all week, gave her a call, her phones off so i left a message asking if she wants to come down the coast this weekend.

Anyway if i dont get an sms or something ill just leave it a few days i guess.

Thanks.

By the way i look uglier in daylight than when its a bit darker...Maybe shes not as keen seeing me in daylight???

Hahaha

She's only out of your league if you think she's out of your league...

On the other hand, she might be out of your league.

I ahve never understood the thing about leagues. If someone likes you and you like her, what is the problem?

ah, i thought you said she was in college. that's what i get for reading and posting on totse while trying to look like i'm paying attention in class. ;)

if you don't hear from her, call her next wednesday or thursday and see if she wants to do something next weekend. i'm horrible at calling people back, and she could be like me and just forget to do it.

Dude if she likes you, don't worry about a thing, i spent too long worrying that whatever girl i liked at the time was too good to go out with me. if she likes you then you must be doing something right. its way better for a girl to like you for who you are instead of someone you aren't.

i absolutely hate shit like that. guys who play stupid games like that to try to get girls are just immature.

if you're interested in her, show it. but like someone else said, don't throw yourself at her. if you call and she doesn't answer, leave her a message. if she doesn't call you back, wait a few days and try again. repeat one more time. if you call her 3 times in a row without her calling you back in between, give it up.

i wouldn't not go out with a guy i like just because he's an electrician. the only way i could see your career interfering is the fact that she's in college, so you guys probably have different schedules and won't get to see each other that much. she's probably in class early in the day and free in the afternoons, while you work until around 5, right?

Ah fuck, I can't believe you've said this.

Obviously your taste in men is EXTREMELY twisted, because ANY girl just flips over a guy who plays real hard to get, only giving a girl a taste of what he has to offer.

If you make her FEEL wanted, she will take that as a sign of weakness, and probably get bored really quick.

Don't IGNORE her, but don't make her feel like a queen UNTIL you guys are together...

Girls like to be treated like shit. It's common knowledge.

UNTIL they hit about 30. Then you can try the attention giving approach.

Just find her, whip it out, and put it in her butt.

Question: are you Australian?

Also, leagues are bullshit. Really.

Ah fuck, I can't believe you've said this.

Obviously your taste in men is EXTREMELY twisted, because ANY girl just flips over a guy who plays real hard to get, only giving a girl a taste of what he has to offer.

If you make her FEEL wanted, she will take that as a sign of weakness, and probably get bored really quick.

Don't IGNORE her, but don't make her feel like a queen UNTIL you guys are together...

Girls like to be treated like shit. It's common knowledge.

UNTIL they hit about 30. Then you can try the attention giving approach.

says the 16 year old...

Fuck you. David DeAngelo is a lying douche. I'm sick of hearing all his lame ass advice recycled like it's the magic cure all.

Fuck you. David DeAngelo is a lying douche. I'm sick of hearing all his lame ass advice recycled like it's the magic cure all.

Hey, his shit works. But it's still a little irritating to see it rehashed almost word for word. Jesus :\

says the 16 year old...

Says the girl whose boyfriend cheated and knocked up a whale...

You REALLY know how to pick em eh?

Hey, his shit works. But it's still a little irritating to see it rehashed almost word for word. Jesus :\

It may work to a certain extent, but there is so much better shit out there. Which is why it irritates me so much to have some douche regurgitate it.

DYD is so outdated. David himself has admitted that he can't get a date at the moment.

Says the girl whose boyfriend cheated and knocked up a whale...

You REALLY know how to pick em eh?

This post made me chuckle. Out Loud. I COL'd

OP: I didn't bother to read the second or third page, but my opinion is that, for the most part, girls are only "out of your league" if you believe them to be.

Of course, if you still aren't sure of yourself, I've found beer, pot, and good music never hurt the situation. :)

I am a dumb nigger who is bitter about my inability to get laid


fixed it for ya you fuckin cock sucker.

i absolutely hate shit like that. guys who play stupid games like that to try to get girls are just immature.

if you're interested in her, show it. but like someone else said, don't throw yourself at her. if you call and she doesn't answer, leave her a message. if she doesn't call you back, wait a few days and try again. repeat one more time. if you call her 3 times in a row without her calling you back in between, give it up.

i wouldn't not go out with a guy i like just because he's an electrician. the only way i could see your career interfering is the fact that she's in college, so you guys probably have different schedules and won't get to see each other that much. she's probably in class early in the day and free in the afternoons, while you work until around 5, right?

Lol, girls do that shit all the fucking time.

Lol, girls do that shit all the fucking time.

Agreed (now that doesn't happen very often...),
people in general are dumbasses about this sort of thing.

If you've got a social complication that you can see is going to come up in a developing relationship you'd rather keep, at least for the moment, you've got to talk about it. It could be that she's cool with you wanting to concentrate on being a bit of a surf bum for a while and it might even be that she'd be up for a little of the same. If anyone would understand that sort of apparent anti-ambition, it sounds like it would be her.

Guys who read a David D'Angalo book and think theyre suddenly experts on women are hilarious.

im no expert and i dont say that i am...don't hate me for trying to make myself better at something that is very important to me.

i actually read david deangelo like 5 years ago and im now 19....i have had plenty of time to work on my game.....so nothing happened over night ibanez.

im sorry but the stuff worked for me.....it may not work for everybody but its whatever....the guy seemed like he had all the pieces there but he couldn't connect them.

the dating information helped me make that connection and i figured it might help him too....

i will admit this i never had to use the "kiss test". i just go for it when i feel the time is right and so far i haven't been wrong.

fixed it for ya you fuckin cock sucker.

Wow, you changed my post to make it look like I was insulting myself! I'm still hurting from how biting that wit was! Well done.

It's not my fault you made yourself look like a moron.

You regurgitated old and outdated advice as if you were quoting the bible. You were too stupid to reword it, so it's obvious to everyone where you copied it from.

Die in a fire.

yeah its outdated since women update their genetic make up every 5 years.

this would work the same way on your grandma as it would your mom...

all i had to do though was flip her a 20 dollar bill and i hit it WITHOUT TRYING
















you can call me papi

Attraction has a lot more to do with cultural and social expectations than genetic predispositions.

thats why alll women make decisions based on how they are feeling at the moment. its all based on how they feel. they want a guy that makes them feel good.

guys do everything with logic. they want hot bitches, if they see a hot bitch they assume she has a good personality, but this isnt always the case.

but yeah im sure in some countries you can just nail anyone with little effort. but im pretty sure this guy is either australian or american.

but im pretty sure this guy is either australian or american.

I'm pretty sure he's Australian because of his use of the word 'overseas'. At first I thought he was a New Zealander but he used the word 'SMS" instead of 'text'.

Walking up to a girl, pointing at your cock and saying 'suck' would probably work if you used it a few thousand times. But there are far better methods available to you.

By 'outdated' I mean that the whole field of knowledge has advanced from the DYD steam age. What you quoted is 6 years old.

You're still a moron.