iv had this friend for 5 years or so. recently we drunkenly hooked up and started sleeping together since then.
so does that mean he likes me in that way, or am i just somebody to fuck... this whole thing is very confusing

Yeah, it's confusing.

He's the last person to ask, though. He doesn't have any idea.

If you can't spell it you shouldn't be doing it.

This.

jesus its the internet! i dont have correct all my spelling
BENEFITS

A girl that calls themselves totsewhore and makes 29 posts in 11 months aint gonna be taken seriously when it comes to being taken advantage of, either way.

srsly, dude. how would he possibly know how he's feeling? op, definitely DON'T ask him. you'll just confuse him even more and make him feel bad.

I don't think it's all that confusing at all...

You got drunk and put out. Subsequently continued to put out sober.

Is there some other piece to the puzzle that you're keeping secret? Theres nothing there to even insinuate that he likes you.

Ok since theres only like 1.5 serious responses in here I'll be the one to make it 2.5.

If you've known this guy for 5 years and haven't hooked up with him already, then no I really doubt he has any feelings for you beyond good friends and fuck buddy. To him, I would guess that your probably one of his friends that he couldn't imagine dating but doesn't mind fucking.(hence the phrase "'friends' with benifits") Don't take it harshly or anything I'm sure he values your friendship over the sex if he's gone without it for 5 years.

This is all just from my POV because I've been the guy in this situation.

I agree. I've been in the same situation too. But it usually ends with the girl getting attached and then the guy has to put her down and she cries and gets all emo that you don't love her. So don't do that, I've seen it happen to myself and my friends to many times.

What? I thought girls were supposed to cry after sex?

Don't worry SilentMind, she just has a bit of a buffer period. She's about to realize that sex does not equate to love.... so hold on a bit longer.

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Ummmm.... He just sees you as........... a friend. With benefits. Benefits such as coitus, not such as "relationships."

I've also been the guy in almost the exact same situation. Hooked up with a long-time friend, then we became fuck buddies. A month of that, and now we've been dating a long time.

At the time we were just hooking up, I felt just that way though: she was a friend and i didn't like her as anything more. Things can change though. It's different with everybody.

All you people are saying not to ask him... why? I say go for it, shouldn't be any harm in just asking how he feels about it.

Well, he might be wondering the exact same thing. We can't tell you. You need to figure this out for yourself. This doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be direct about it.

But more importantly...

If you can't spell it you shouldn't be doing it.

Ask them

/me sighs

Ask them

/me sighs

/me sighs too...
Kids these days

Anyway, yeah, I'd say you're almost assuredly a troll, but for anyone else who might be having a confusing situation with another person, try talking with THAT PERSON, not every other e-person who will listen.

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