Ok, i currently have a girl stuck in my head and she wont leave. Shes been there on and off for about 2 years. I keep fooling myself into thinking she likes me even though i know she doesnt. I think shes looking at me even though i doubt she is. The hardest part is that I know I could have had her had I just grown some balls when we met. Ive spoken to her only several times.

Unforntunatly she has a boyfriend and theve been going out for over a year (2 in febuary). I can tell by the way she looks at him that I dont stand a chance. I feel as though she only went out with him because he was the only one who liked her, I just keep kicking myself for not making a move. She is shy, and so am I. Her current boyfriend is somewhat immature but she probably finds that cute.

I notice similarities between her and I everyday, the way we hold ourselves, our hobbies, there are so many coincidences its ridiculous. I feel as though we were meant to be together but i know thats impossible. I just keep wishing for the day that will never come. In fact, thats how my whole life feels, but im probably just depressed. I havent been feeling like myself lately (since i started obsessing over her again). I feel as though I'm stalking her and that only makes me feel worse.

I just don't know what to do, I know i cant make the first move but I also know that she wont either. I know Id be better to/for her than her current boyfriend but I am probably wrong.

Does anyone have any ideas on how i can get her out of my head other than time? Thanks for putting up with my pathetic rant. And before anyone says it, yes i know i need to grow some balls, im just too afraid of embarrassment/coming off the wrong way.

a vice. like booze, or another girl, or Both!

Unforntunatly she has a boyfriend.

[/thread] and you get her out of your head by finding another girl, preferably one without a boyfriend.

Or install Linux and say goodbye to social worries forever.

[/thread] and you get her out of your head by finding another girl, preferably one without a boyfriend.

Or install Linux and say goodbye to social worries forever.

lol true.

My advice is to murder the girl for ignoring you and her boyfriend for stealing her from you then kill yourself for being a bitch.

Heh, just a suggestion.

Find a new one, little buddy. Best way.

Or find something else to do that will take up your time and give you results.

It's just a mental fixation. So just find something or someone to fixate yourself on.

I had this problem for a while. Just some random girl i'de never talked to before. I stopped thinking about her though because i felt like a creep. That seemed to work a bit.

First off.....shut the fuck up, toughen up and buck up fucko. What you want is a lil step by step to get her outta da old noggin do ya? Well, read the following text because the answer is what follows next....

I can help you get her back. E-mail me at Havoc101@usa.com

First off.....shut the fuck up, toughen up and buck up fucko. What you want is a lil step by step to get her outta da old noggin do ya? Well, read the following text because the answer is what follows next....

I can help you get her back. E-mail me at Havoc101@usa.com

Once this guy tries to get you to meet him in an alleyway at night, you should probably call the cops.

Or am I the only one getting that creepy vibe?

Once this guy tries to get you to meet him in an alleyway at night, you should probably call the cops.

Or am I the only one getting that creepy vibe?

"All will become clear when you suck on this..."

Get a guinea pig instead, they tend to be great distractions and force you to love them to the extent you've none left for anyone else.
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those are some of the most foul smelling rodent-esque animals.

Guinea pigs are mean. They hate me, all of them hate me. For no reason at all. They just have a habit of randomly attacking me, maybe I smell funny or something.

Drink it away.

It gets knocked a lot, but it really works.