Alright sometimes when I have sex w/ my girlfriend I have trouble keeping it up, simple as that.

The last time it was so bad that we actually stopped having sex...

It doesn't go completely flat but it is not hard enough to efficiently put in her vag and have comfortable sex.

What the fuck is wrong? I'm very young and this shouldn't be happening.

I'm wondering if it has to do w/ prior drug use.. but I kind of doubt that.

What can I do if I am going flat to get it hard again?

What drugs/herbs/supplements are you using? How ugly is your girlfriend? How much stress/duress are you under lately?

Do you use tobacco? It's bad for erections.

Lots of guys, even in schoolzors, say that they need some head to get properly hard.

Are you physically active & fit? That helps. I find that the herb Golden Seal helps me too. You can buy it cheap in caps at any herb section in a health food/drug store.

You eating right? Omega3's & fruits?

Probably arent stimulated enough mentally, do u just go at it, thrusting away or do u play around before hand(foreplay).

Rubber or bare?

I had that problem too for a while and it will still happen every so often.

Usually it's because I'm just too damn distracted. Like if I've had a bad day and have a lot of shit on my mind. Before sex just try to get as completely comfortable and relaxed as possible. Just try and clear your mind out of anything annoying.

At least you can get it up in the first place, just dont take that for granted. For a while there, I couldn't even get my dick hard just because of anxiety. I'd be fine and horny as hell one minute and then when it came down to fucking her my dick would just hide. Most embarrassing thing ever. Big ego bruiser too.

Nervous?

That's usually it. Used to happen to me. Also, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. :)

It happens to us all big guy, it happens to us all. :(

The Melty Man is the arch-enemy of trouser confidence, causing men to lose their erections when they are in bed with a woman, by making them think too much about what they are doing and if they are doing it right.



The Melty Man is the arch enemy of trouser confidence, Professor Moriarty in groin form, Darth Vader... without the helmet.


You can't say his name, or even think about him, without him coming to do his evil work inside your terrified pants.

I've used a fair abount of meth, cocaine, ecstasy and oxycontin. I've done excess amounts of marijuana and tobacco.

I havn't done any drug aside from marijuana for about 2 weeks now, though, but I still smoke a pack a day.

I have sex w/o a condom.

I look like im in phsyical shape but havn't worked out in a while.

I'm not nervous about sex but I do tend to be an anxious person in general.

I think we foreplay...maybe not enough could I get some suggestions?

Oh ya I fogot to write this:

I will be fucking her and then I will feel the need to bust my nut. I don't want to "cum quick" so I pull out and start eating her pussy so I can reload. During this time I notice I loose my erection.

My girlfriend is better then decent, but not hot.

I have eggs in the morning, a sandwhich at lunch and then something at dinner.

What can I mentally do to stay hard, and what drugs (if I need to take that route) are effective. My father has viagra but I don't know if it is bad for me to take that at my age..

Thanks.

No viagra. No drugs. Maybe alcohol to loosen you up just a tad. Kiss alot, touch alot, don't take off your clothes too soon. ETC..

I knew all those years I spent at medical college would be useful someday [/sarcasm]