I just found out some shit so this is going to sound fucked up, bare with me please and help me.

I'm 16, and was a virgin 2 weeks ago. I met a girl, hung out with her 2 times and then we had sex. I pulled out (SIC possibly) and she left. she broke up with me 3 days later, on a friday.

She called me tonight, tuesday, acting like everything is OK. I begin talking to her and find out this is the 4th day after her period was supposed to start. It didn't start. She said it had been this late only 4 times, after much prying from me. She also told me she had a miscarrige before, and was really worried. She said she was scared, and opened up after awhile, saying she just didn't understand how this could happen. She said she didn't really expect me to stay in the relationship and that most guys didn't. I'm not really sure what to think now. She just tuned 17 a week ago and I turned 16 a month ago. My parents have never met her, I've waved at hers when I dropped her off at her house once. I'm poor, so is she. I can't support a baby, she said she would put it up for adoption if this shit does happen.

I don't know what to think right now. There's been too much input at once, and I'm lost right now.

Facts:

Has only been this late 4 times before
Has been 13 days since sex
Haven't talked for 4
Now find out she is 4 days off her period

God damn I just realized she broke up with me the day her period was supposed to be fuck fuck fuck

I really need some opinions/observations/possibilities at this point, since my brain doesn't seem to be working. I would appreciate help more than anything right now, but until then I'll be reading shit on google....

thanks if you help

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I'd check in with Planned Parenthood.

Tell her to take a pregnancy test, and if it is positive, I would highly suggest putting the kid up for adoption. Tell her that you would't be able to help support the baby so it would be unfair for the baby to keep it.

Don't listen to the pro-choice people because they're fucking crazy, also don't listen to the pro-life people because they're fucking crazy.

So...

She is pregnant?

HAHA U GOT HER PREGNATE LAWL..

Lucky me my beautiful porn store model looking sexy ass fuck buddy was on the pill when i would fuck her and cum all inside her about 4 times a day.

adopt it dont make her go through a abortion

Get that shit taken care of at the nearest abortion clinic. Last thing we need is another set of teenage parents to fuck another life.

So...

She is pregnant?

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it's called a pregnancy test you dumb cunt, get her to take one IN FRONT OF YOU.

this might be a case of her being a crazy bitch and lying for whatever crazy bitch reason she might have... you wouldn't think so, but girls can surprise you as to how far they will take things to get what they want.

if she is preggers, abort that shit. putting a baby up for adoption is fucked up, considering they'll probably jump from horrible foster home to horrible foster home until they're 18, and then eventually end up in prison.

Thanks for the response. Is 12 days long enough?

according to http://www.firstresponse.com/resourceCorner/ovulationCalc.asp?month=9&day=26&year=2006&cycle=12&action=SUBMIT

sex on the 18th would mean its possible?

its a trap run

Once my girl's period didnt come for about a month after the "pull-out" method... wow, talk about shitting bricks. Anyway, get a preggers test and LOTS of gatorade. (trust me on the gatorade thing)

Have her take the test right in front of you. I went as far to have her piss in a cup and do the test myself. (she WANTED to be pregnant... scary time, scary chick.)

The gatorade is in case she says she doesnt have to go. Have her drink as much as she can every 5 minutes. In about 30 minutes she should have to go, and you'll have your results.

PS. If she IS preggers... sigh... Well, personally I feel its better to destroy potential for life rather than bringing a ruined life into the world.

get your ass to Planned Parenthood (and her ass too).

Well said. :)

Abortion increases your risk of breast cancer, has serious side-effects (especially psychologically), and is completely disgusting. An innocent child shouldn't have to die for your mistake.

Well said. :)

Abortion increases your risk of breast cancer, has serious side-effects (especially psychologically), and is completely disgusting. An innocent child shouldn't have to die for your mistake.

It's not a child. It's a collection of cells. It has no thoughts, feelings, or personality. It only has psychological side-effects because people are brainwashed into thinking this particularly collection of cells was somehow more than just a parasite.

Umm, she is probably lying and or wishes she had you back.

Or she sounds easy so she got knocked up by another guy but actually likes him, so would rather dump it on you and stay with the guy she likes...

She knows a baby would scare him away, but you are a bitch, so you would want her to keep it.

Yo. Get rid of it. That child is going to grow up to be a piece of shit no matter what you do with it. Kill it now. I got my girlfriend pregnant last year so I started working out 6 times a day (only my arms). When I felt I was buff enough I punched her as hard as I could in the stomach. Yeah, yeah. She couldn't breathe and she cried and puked and I accidentally did it right before her parents walked into the house, but next fucking day: miscarriage. Fuck yeah.

It's not a child. It's a collection of cells. It has no thoughts, feelings, or personality. It only has psychological side-effects because people are brainwashed into thinking this particularly collection of cells was somehow more than just a parasite.

haha. I love you.

Lol can't you afford a condom?

He still could have used a crisp packet..

Form my point of view there are two possibilities. 1. She's lying or 2. She's not lying. Wether pregnant or not she might still be doing either of those two. Take the test with you present. If she's not pregnant, don't start yelling she lied because girls miss their periods for all sorts of reasons. Maybe she flipped out on this and the first thing she thought of was a pregancy. If she's pregnant you can either keep it or loose it. Keeping it means needing much money, which you do not have. Talk to her about abortion, if she doesn't want to, simply deny your the father and leave her alone with it. She'll have no choice but put it up for adoption. Good riddance. Don't be anxious about saying this, a law suit to make you take a DNA test costs lots of money, money she doesn't have.

The best Course of Action would be:

1. Take test:
a. Pregnant, stay with the girl (go to 2)
b. Not Pregnant, leave the girl

2. Get rid of it:
a. Take abortion, stay with the girl (go to 3)
or
b. Deny your the father, leave the girl

3. Leave girl
a. Wait a couple of month's so no trace of the pregnance can lead back to you. Then leave her.

And a bunch of evil annoying idiot fucks.

Adoption?

To parents: "I got a gurl preggerz bt its ok coz she puttin it up for adoption!!11 :)"

Abortion.

This is what I was worried about. My mom had me young, so she would be extremely disappointed. I told her about the pill someone posted, RU486, and she was scared of her dying. This girl is reallllly getting on my nerves, as soon as this is settled I'm gone. She's extremely selfish it seems, and doesn't understand that if she tries to raise it it will turn out like me, which isn't exactly a good thing. My mom had TONS of support, support which I know I wouldn't get, and it was still realy hard on her. I really don't know how to tell her to get an abortion without her going psycho on me and just going through with it just to piss me off. This girl is probably stupid enough to do that.

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seriously. she's a whore. go get tested.\

also, if she IS pregnant, get a DNA test. you can get them for like $100 here.

The morning after pill is effective up to 5 days after unprotected sex, though its effectiveness decreases as time goes on.

Get to a planned parenthood TODAY.

if she is preggers, abort that shit. putting a baby up for adoption is fucked up, considering they'll probably jump from horrible foster home to horrible foster home until they're 18, and then eventually end up in prison.

not really... there are TONS of people who want babies but can't have them. it's the kids that are 3-4 and older that end up in foster care because nobody wants them.

OP, there are people out there who will pay all of your girlfriend's medical bills, support her for the duration of the pregnancy, and buy her shit just so they can adopt her baby.

This is what I was worried about. My mom had me young, so she would be extremely disappointed. I told her about the pill someone posted, RU486, and she was scared of her dying. This girl is reallllly getting on my nerves, as soon as this is settled I'm gone. She's extremely selfish it seems, and doesn't understand that if she tries to raise it it will turn out like me, which isn't exactly a good thing. My mom had TONS of support, support which I know I wouldn't get, and it was still realy hard on her. I really don't know how to tell her to get an abortion without her going psycho on me and just going through with it just to piss me off. This girl is probably stupid enough to do that.

Another Idea, there are people out there that can't have children of their own and many of them are wealthy. Are you two both good looking? Strong? Healthy, like in not sick often? Preferably both caucasians with bleu eye's. Do you know how much a strong, healtyh aryan baby will bring you?

Just get an abortion pill thang.

Early abortion basically induces a period. Not the worst medical procedure in existence

And then you woke up and your sheets were wet.

Nothing says 'cheap nigger' better than 'the pull-out method'.

It's not a child. It's a collection of cells. It has no thoughts, feelings, or personality. It only has psychological side-effects because people are brainwashed into thinking this particularly collection of cells was somehow more than just a parasite.

Last I checked, everyone else is also a collection of cells, but with the thinking part.

At 16, neither of you can support or properly care for a child at all. Adoption is the 'kinder' option, but go ahead and try and find a non-suicidal, non screwup adopted child, of this generation. Abortion will mentally scar her, but maybe enough to make you put on a goddamn condom.

abort it dont make her go through pregnancy and childbirth at 16, then have to give it away

and use a rubber next time. Damn first time eh?