Okay, I feel like a loser posting this but here it goes...

I just got out of a pretty serious relationship. The girl moved or else we'd still be together. I was pretty heartbroken, rebounded a bit, but nothing more than just fucking around.

Now, it's been about two months since I last saw my ex- and I want to start getting back into the dating scene and whatnot, though I've been taken for so long I've kinda forgot what to do. I did met a girl. Extremely cute, a year younger, kinda scene-ish but well meaning.

According to her friend she was interested in me. This was about a month ago though, she had a boyfriend and I wasn't ready for anything (not that I'd make a move while she had a boy). I'm not sure if she's still interested, though she is single now. We talk a bit at school, and a bit online. She seems like she'd be up for hanging out although she's always busy.

Thing is though, I've never actually pursued a girl. I've had girlfriends, I'm certainly not a virgin, but I always been in situations where the girl'd make the first move (not physically, but she'd show interest and I'll follow up on that). But yeah, I'm not sure exactly what to do.

Sorry for the ridiculously long rant, but I'm feeling kinda clueless. Any help would be awesome! Thanks.

Ask her out

Getting back on the horse (longer than I thought it'd be)

Well, duh. Where do you think the phrase, "hung like a horse" came from?

Note: being as this post is of no help to you, I'll read the thread, and try to give my thoughts. :)

'Yeah, hi. river_of_ash, here, calling back about your situation.
'I've been good, thank's, how about--
'Ah, I see. That's great.
'Haha, yeah I know how that goes.
'Well, yeah, anyway, my thoughts:

Pursuing a girl isn't that hard.
Show interest.
You can act like a tool/idiot, and she'd probably find it charming.
Ask her out.

As for specific "game"/tactics. :) You're on your own.

Was I the only one expecting some h4wt equestrian bestiality?

Lol. I know; thoroughly disappointing, is it not?

Lol. I know; thoroughly disappointing, is it not?

I tried to make the thread title ambiguous to get this thread a little more action ;)

Annnyways, I asked her if she wanted to hang out this weekend but she's busy. I think she's actually busy and not blowing me off though. Hopefully

I'm not worried "game" or tactics-wise, though should I just ask her to coffee for the first time we hang out as opposed to having her over at my place?

Thaaanks...