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 #1 
Old 2007-10-29, 15:03
isTHATso isTHATso is offline
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Ok, Most of yous read my thread about my gf kinda cheating on me. Well I started going to the party with her, ANd I go and get high and drunk, THen someone started all this shit, And THe guy conrad told me and everyone else he wouldn't want to break me and my gf apart,

then everyone at the house wants my gf to move in there so they started yelling at conrad saying all this shit, So at 3 o'clock in the morning on thursday, Me and my gf broke up, Well kind of,

SHe told me to give her a couple of days to see where her emotions are for conrad, So she kinda moved out of my house, but told me to keep all her stuff here that she would be back in no time.

I took off work most of the week this week and she told me she is going to come over most of the days, and most likely move in again next weekend,

All is good, but when I went over to the party last night, SHe would hardly talk to me, becuz of conrad. And SHe wasn't aloud to talk to me alone. So I really don't know what to do,

She told me 2 days ago she has already found out he is an asshole. and that she would be back, 2 days later she won't talk to me becuz he won't let her or some shit.

So WHat would you do if you were me? I need some advice. I started drinking and doing drugs alot more the past couple days becuz of this.
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Old 2007-10-29, 15:25
TeckGuru TeckGuru is offline
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If i were you, id dump her. Good thing you found out that shes emotionally immature / retarded now instead of lets say 5 years wasted.

Respect yourself.
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Old 2007-10-29, 15:33
Tommy Lund Tommy Lund is offline
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Can someone say yardsale?
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Old 2007-10-29, 15:35
isTHATso isTHATso is offline
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Originally Posted by TeckGuru
If i were you, id dump her. Good thing you found out that shes emotionally immature / retarded now instead of lets say 5 years wasted.

Respect yourself.


I wish I could just forget about her, but I can't this is being so hard on my head. I'm not one to cry, and I've cried everyday for the past 4 days.

I just hope that she tells him to fuck off. Or I could always make a "phone call" not sure if you know what that means. But yea, basically have him "dealt with"
 #5 
Old 2007-10-29, 15:35
isTHATso isTHATso is offline
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Can someone say yardsale?

lol..
 #6 
Old 2007-10-29, 15:50
nau06248 nau06248 is offline
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Mature a bit?

You are living with someone, and all of a sudden you are not aloud to speak to her alone! WHAT THE HELL!!!

Who made this rule, because they need a punch...
 #7 
Old 2007-10-29, 15:53
TeckGuru TeckGuru is offline
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I wish I could just forget about her, but I can't this is being so hard on my head. I'm not one to cry, and I've cried everyday for the past 4 days.

I just hope that she tells him to fuck off. Or I could always make a "phone call" not sure if you know what that means. But yea, basically have him "dealt with"

Shes a bitch. How can you be ready to go forward with her if she changes her mind? For her to create this situation for you speaks a lot about her personality. How can you trust her now? Shes listing to some random guy who tells her to not talk to her boyfriend of 2 years! Shes pathetic. And if she loves you, she would never hurt you and be this careless. You don't need that shit. You're better off being sad a few days/weeks compared to her being a total bitch towards you. At this time, back up and look at the fuller picture.
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Old 2007-10-29, 15:54
isTHATso isTHATso is offline
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exactly, SHe kinda moved out for a few days, It's all bullshit, But I really need her back, So bad, She kept me in line, and these past few days, I've been drinking ALOT, everyday, And I know It's bad, Because my dad is an alcoholic, And I so afraid that is what i'm becoming.
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Old 2007-10-29, 16:58
isTHATso isTHATso is offline
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I'm so confused. My heart and mind is with my gf. But I can't just forget about her, God,

this is depressing
 #10 
Old 2007-10-29, 17:25
Drug-Demon Drug-Demon is offline
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SHe told me to give her a couple of days to see where her emotions are for conrad, So she kinda moved out of my house, but told me to keep all her stuff here that she would be back in no time.

Dude your FUCKING STUPID. I mean, you really are fucking PATHETIC, nuff said!
 #11 
Old 2007-10-29, 18:01
TeckGuru TeckGuru is offline
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Dude your FUCKING STUPID. I mean, you really are fucking PATHETIC, nuff said!

gtfo.
 #12 
Old 2007-10-29, 18:01
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FUCKING STUPID PATHETIC

To let someone shop around for other people and want them so bad you're willing to let someone do that to you, to show that kind of lack of concern, is more than disgusting. Go stick your head in a bucket of icewater and live somewhere else for a few weeks, maybe you'll get some perspective.
 #13 
Old 2007-10-29, 18:04
TeckGuru TeckGuru is offline
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To let someone shop around for other people and want them so bad you're willing to let someone do that to you, to show that kind of lack of concern, is more than disgusting. Go stick your head in a bucket of icewater and live somewhere else for a few weeks, maybe you'll get some perspective.

hhahah
The guy just needs to get on teh google and look up 'How to get over a girl'.
 #14 
Old 2007-10-29, 18:10
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Originally Posted by isTHATso
Ok, Most of yous read my thread about my gf kinda cheating on me. Well I started going to the party with her, ANd I go and get high and drunk, THen someone started all this shit, And THe guy conrad told me and everyone else he wouldn't want to break me and my gf apart,

then everyone at the house wants my gf to move in there so they started yelling at conrad saying all this shit, So at 3 o'clock in the morning on thursday, Me and my gf broke up, Well kind of,

SHe told me to give her a couple of days to see where her emotions are for conrad, So she kinda moved out of my house, but told me to keep all her stuff here that she would be back in no time.

I took off work most of the week this week and she told me she is going to come over most of the days, and most likely move in again next weekend,

All is good, but when I went over to the party last night, SHe would hardly talk to me, becuz of conrad. And SHe wasn't aloud to talk to me alone. So I really don't know what to do,

She told me 2 days ago she has already found out he is an asshole. and that she would be back, 2 days later she won't talk to me becuz he won't let her or some shit.

So WHat would you do if you were me? I need some advice. I started drinking and doing drugs alot more the past couple days becuz of this.


Yeah, DUMP THE MOTHER FUCKING BITCH!
 #15 
Old 2007-10-29, 18:49
jca- jca- is offline
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It always hurts like a bitch at first mate, but cut your losses now. Think of it as 2 years learnin not 2 years wasted. The way she's been treating you is not right and not respectful. Letting her treat you this way shows you're not respecting yourself, and NOBODY RESPECTS A PERSON WHO HAS NO SELF-RESPECT. Think of that last bit, again and again. Respect yourself, and others will respect you - cut her out of your life, however hard that seems. Be strong man.
 #16 
Old 2007-10-29, 19:25
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and how is drinkin gana get rid of ur problems again??

dump all ur booze if ur really afraid of becoming ur father
 #17 
Old 2007-10-29, 19:46
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Please please please cut her out of your life or at least give her an ultimatum.

There are SO many girls out there that will respect you so much more than she does. Trust me, if you keep on letting her walk all over you you WILL start hating yourself for it.

:(
 #18 
Old 2007-10-29, 21:03
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yeah dude thats fucking bullshit, shes stupid, ditch her.
 #19 
Old 2007-10-29, 21:18
Running Free Running Free is offline
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I'm surprised no one has said this yet so,
Murder/suicide.

In all seriousness though, these guys know what they are talking about.
At least it didn't happen later. If she is *insert appropriate word here* enough to listen to some guy telling her she ISN'T ALLOWED to talk to you, then trust me, she's way too immature for someone you want to be in a relationship with.

My (ex)friend (who's sister he thinks I had sex with) was listening to his fucking girlfriend who was telling him shit about that incident, despite the fact that neither of them were there.
This is my example of pathetic immaturity, and you don't want that in your life, much less in your girlfriend. Forget about her, kick his ass, all is well with the world.
 #20 
Old 2007-10-30, 01:33
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She's letting some other guy control her. She's got doubts about your relationship. She practically moved the fuck out.

But you've spent two years with her, why spend two more just cause you don't wanna know that you've wasted that time?
 #21 
Old 2007-10-30, 02:16
mikehunt1 mikehunt1 is offline
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Throw her ass out of your house, if you have to fight over your own lady while shes living in your house then she need to go. find another girl, she isnt worth it man. She is obviously fucking this conrad faget.
 #22 
Old 2007-10-30, 03:00
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To let someone shop around for other people and want them so bad you're willing to let someone do that to you, to show that kind of lack of concern, is more than disgusting. Go stick your head in a bucket of icewater and live somewhere else for a few weeks, maybe you'll get some perspective.

Pretty much sums it up.


Poor OP :\
 #23 
Old 2007-10-30, 07:02
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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So I'm kind of stoned, bear with me... But when did it click in your mind that it would be acceptable to let some girl that was going to go fuck around with some other guy to see if she likes him enough to break up with you leave allll her shit at your place so that if she wanted to bail she could come sobbing back to her faithfully devoted lapdog? At the risk of sounding hypocritical, of course.
 #24 
Old 2007-10-30, 13:49
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Dont be a dumbfuck. Dump her and sell her shit
 
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