Here's the story..

There's a girl that I've known for a couple of years. She was my ex, but we broke up and she moved away for about a year. So now she's back, and she just got out of a relationship and she was starting to show a liking to me (she always wanted to hang out with me and shit).

So later on, after we catch up on things, I told her I liked her and she said that she liked me. Keep in mind that I liked her A LOT. Anyway, she said that she's not quite ready for a relationship yet (like give her a little time, and it will eventually happen).

A couple days after we let each other know our feelings for each other, I took her to a movie. She was sitting on my lap, cuddling with me, basically just her showing affection.

This is where it turns for me.

Her ex boyfriend called, pissed off at her for going to a movie with another guy. I'm just sitting here thinking 'what the fuck..' while she's on the phone next to me. When he finally hangs up (on her), she's almost crying. She then tells me that she shouldn't have been cuddling with me and hugging me at the movies. Why? Because it made her ex mad. She said that for him to get mad like that, he must love her.

It went from fucking awesome to shit in (literally) a matter of 10 minutes.

They'll probably be getting back together (for about the 20th time)

Opiates.

Opiates.

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Opiates.

lulz, u r a kiwi.

Man, forget her. I know it sucks trying to forget a girl you really like, but you gotta remember how irrational your mind can act when it's chasing a girl.

It's not worth wasting your time on someone, who is going to be so indecisive and jump back to her ex at the drop of the hat. If you really like her that much, give her the ultimatum, either him or you. Tell her to make up her mind, and stop playing you like that, it's not fair on you!.

It's gonna suck. You're going to feel depressed and moody. But remember, there is always another girl you'll feel the same about in time, and hopefully, she ain't gonna be as dramatic as this one.

Good luck man:)

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Yeah sorry about that, I just answered based on the title.

Srs answr: Trying to hard when it comes to these things only leads to sadness and frustration. I have learned that it is much better in the long run to let these things go.

Women...They'll fuck you every time and not in the way you want.

Tell her that she's being dumb...She's single and out with you...She's not with the douchebag anymore so get over him and get on your cock.

Women...They'll fuck you every time and not in the way you want.

No shit. I've payed over 100K in child support to my ex. Can anyone match that?

she sounds like shes worth doing stuff for to keep her.

the hardest thing is helping her forget about her old boyfriend. i dont know what to do , but know that you shouldnt be the victim here. its clear that after their breakup, he shouldnt be doing anything anymore. instead, he yells at her for being living a normal life, something that isnt right.

so dont give up, help her get over her old boyfriend.

good luck

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You didn't even ask a question.

There's not much someone can say about a situation like this. It's becoming cliche nowadays.

Nieve lil girls crying back to their ex's, because they're crying. They reflect what they are doing because they think it's right.

Forget about her man. It's not all you can do, but it's simply what you should do.

Respect yourself.

I would've just walked out?

This confirms to me that getting angry at women makes them like you more.