totse, i dont come to you often, and i have a question about personal habits of internet usage and ...just read. or not.
i met this guy last week...yes i am a homosexual (fucking shoot me)...hanging out at a friends dorm, and met him..he was hanging out with four chicks and i nonchantly ended up somehow hangning out with them that night..however, the only reason i hung out with them in the first place is cuz this guy was incredibly attractive. later i found out it was not only for his phyiscal features (very tall and skinny), but that he was obsesed with music (piano, sax, jazz) and basically a really...innocent...character. the kind of person you wanna be around.
anyways, we sorta hit it off i guess...or im not sure. we talked the whole time, laughing and kidding around and what not, and when the group 'moved' to go on a walk it was me and him talking basically ignoring everyone else. at some point though, while i'm being passed a joint by another girl in the front we separate for like 2 minutes, im deep in conversation with the girl in the frotn, and veers off shouting, 'bye..bye..BYE (i turn around)..nice meeting you egodknevil!' and im to stoned to really do anything but wave.
so yea, thats the first and only time i've met him. problem is, i dont know if he's gay or if i'll ever see him.. he has my phone number, but i was stupid enough not to get his.
but...i decided to facebook stalk him. pretty hard at first because i forgot the name of every girl there that night, coudl only remember his name, but found it..and lo and behold, under 'who im interested in' it says 'women AND men'. and i scroll down to find out hes a bioengineering major, and im pretty much head over heels at this point (being a neuroscience major myself).
so my first question is...do you add somebody if its pretty much a known fact that you face book stalked them, and actively searched from them (without knowing their last name? and having few friends in common)?
i went ahead and added him after 3 days and adding a few more mutual friends...
but i still feel weird. and today on my news feed, it notified me that he'd changed his 'looking for' from 'womeon AND men' to just women...

this change couldnt be because of me..if i havent seen or talked to him. he doesnt somehow know that im madly in love with him?
im just confused. any response would be apprecieated. id even enjoy a few flames or something fun, just to get me away from this fucking physics problem set.

fucking faggot kill yourself

I myself would say you've got nothing there mate. Sorry to say but that's what I'm seeing.

You guys had a great time talking about stuff...Then you add him to facebook...Now I'm guessing yours says "interested in: Men"...So he's realised you're gay and doesn't want anything with you other than friendship.

That's my interpretation anyway.

I dunno...Talk to him about it.

just send him (and a bunch of other people, if you want) a message saying how much fun you had hanging out, and ask if he wants to do it again sometime.

i dont think guys care as much as girls when it comes to random out of the blue contact from people. but who the hell cares? go for it.

Doesn't seem too weird to me. I've definitely experienced weirder. If he's at all into you, he might be hoping you contact him.