I had a 4 day weekend since I had to have my wisdom teeth pulled. Almost the entire time, I was thinking about my girlfriend. About how much I really love her, what I want to do with her, what to get her for our anniversary, ect. I was supposed to hang out with her Thursday when she got out of detention, but she never called. She didn't call me all weekend for that matter.
So, I wake up Tuesday morning, "Fuck yes! I get to see Candice today!" When I get to school, I walk to where I always chill, and she's standing there and one kid yells "There's Silence!" She turned around and I could tell something was wrong by her face and how she hugged me and my friend who was standing next to her yells "She found a better guy while you were gone!" She got mad at him and told me something like "...I needed to have a long conversation with you... I'll write you a note and give it to you at the end of the day... I don't want you to be mad at me."
I didn't see her after that, but I saw her after school today. She acted like nothing happened, didn't say a word, but gave me a hug like she does to all her friends. I was just thinking "What the fuck are you doing? Get off me!" and she just carried on.

So, she broke up with me, didn't tell me why, shit, she didn't even tell me herself that she didn't want to be with me. And now she wants to be friends. From what friends have told me, she broke up with me because we didn't talk enough(Which I feel would be her fault, I couldn't call her because she doesn't have a cell and is never at home, and I kept trying to hang out with her) and she has a boyfriend that is in college (she's 15.)

What should I make of this? I still care about her, but at the same time I want to be there when she gets the shit beat out of her by a group of pissed of her friends(long story.) I feel like I got hit by a god damn train and it's dragging my conscious self down the track. And like I lost my wallet with my life savings in it. It doesn't matter if I get it back or not, nothing is going to be there.

I don't know, I think when/if she ever gives me the note, I'll just tell her it's fine, and to call me if she wants rebound sex then leave.
/rant

Would you stay friends with someone you dated?

First off NEVER listen to friends, neither hers or yours. Until you talk to her then you don't know whats going on in her tiny mind.

And yeah its called 'heartbreak', get used to it son. You're gonna be spending your whole life dealing with it off and on.

Oh and the pain don't fade...even after 20 years.

Wow that's a kick in the balls.

My only suggestion would be to sneak into her place of sanctuary (eg. brothel) while she's sleeping, cut off her balls, and use them as bouncey balls.

Sell them to 6 year olds for $2.99 a pop.

She's a whore who fucked someone else, and a coward too pathetic to tell you the truth.

Not Worth Your Time.

I'm a whore who fucked someone else, and a coward too pathetic to tell you the truth.

Not Worth Your Time.

Fixed.

Nah hahaha just joking

But seriously.

Everyone calls her a whore. Shit, I could have fucked her before I could even recognize her in the halls. But aside from that, I'm first hand experience that she isn't a whore. I wish I fucked her when I could have now. :( Actually, I wish I did everything different- One night stand and never giving her a damn thing. I need to start drug dealing to make back the money I lost from this girl.

I hope the guy she's with isn't as big of a loser as I am... Then again, I don't really care.

I need to start drug dealing to make back the money I lost from this girl.


You lost my sympathy there, right there.

Would you stay friends with someone you dated?

After going through pretty much the same thing, no. You may have loved her though, who knows. I say just give it some time, don't think about her, and focus on other girls.

Best of luck.