ok,

so it all started a few months ago when me, my best friend of 9 years and 2 girls named phuong and jessica go bowling. phuong has lived 4 houses away from me for about 5 years but we never really socialized until that day. so we continue to talk and become more than friends...but she gives me the excuse shes not ready for a relationship yet because of a previous break-up(which was fairly long ago id say). but i gave it time and waited and asked her after awhile and she said yes.

didnt even last a month because we fought too much so we decided to take a break to try to work out our problems(we come from complete opposite ends of the spectrum) but we ended up getting into a really big fight one night though and shit got real bad.

ok now i got to take it back a few weeks for the next part...but anyways about halfway through our relationship i was hanging out with nick at my house and she called me and wanted to talk to him for a second so i was like ok. then nick started acting strangely and said he cant tell me what she said. i just found out last week...a few days after we broke up that it was that phuong liked him. i got pissed at nick because he didnt tell me...because thats just bullshit that he didnt and so now were not friends...phuong said it happened for a reason...and believes in destiny and shit...and im thinking about a lot of things because we both lost our best friends in the time we knew eachother, and thats how it started out, 2 pairs of best friends.

i dont know what to do...forgive and forget, forgive and remain friends or exact revenge? if u need any more details just ask

You're fighting over a girl called "phuong"? Lmao.

im not fighting nick over her...im just pissed at him because he didnt tell me...which is what anybody in the right mind would do...so hes pissed that im pissed and doesnt want to talk to me again so im like whatever.

Your mate Nick sounds like a fag. Stop talking to him, and stop caring about the both of them. It's their loss. He's the one who has to put up with that chink anyway.

jr high/high school drama. move along and forget about it

i graduated...the others however have not...but nick shouldve....but hes good-for-nothing...i just dont know what to do about phuong, i still have feelings but im not sure if its a good idea for me emotionally to try to be anywhere from friends to a more again

i graduated...the others however have not...but nick shouldve....but hes good-for-nothing...i just dont know what to do about phuong, i still have feelings but im not sure if its a good idea for me emotionally to try to be anywhere from friends to a more again

graduation don't mean shit. people are still doing this high school drama bullshit a decade or more out of high school. it's still stupid and pointless. if you do nothing but argue with someone you're only friends with, why would you try for more?

the thing is we only argued like once...and there not even serious shes always joking and sarcastic but it gets kind of old so i just start to take it seriously. and why put up with it is because there are still feelings there. i just am not sure what to do, im very unfortunate when it comes to girls but of the few ive had...i was always too good for them or perfect or just some kind of unrealistic bullshit..i wont lie i am a pretty nice guy and caring and all that crap...but im just sick of being let down and walked on and am not sure what to believe...are all girls bad...its what im starting to think with as much of a failure i am

Nice guys finish last. You can still be nice, but don't give a shit about anything. If she wants to be an asshole to you, start ignoring her and forget her. If she likes you, she'll come crawling back.

yea true u got a point. but idk i have a hard time being a noncaring douche...its hard to be mean to people without a reason and whenever i do it i still get the short end of the stick. theres got to be something about me that just screams treat me like shit

I'm gonna go ahead and agree with Misfit on this one...Phuong...Hehehehehehehe!

Anyways...Did Nick do anything with this chick? Or did she just tell him that she liked him and he failed to tell you?

If he did something with her, he's broken a guy rule...
"You don't fuck around with the ex of a friend unless you are given full consent to do so."
And no feminazis, I'm not saying the girl is the property of the guy. I'm purely saying that a friend would not screw around with a girl who's been with his buddy unless his buddy is comfortable with the idea.
So yeah if he did do something with her, he needs punishment. Shoot his dog or something that will make him sad.

However, if he just didn't tell you the she liked him and continued to do nothing with her then buddy, you got a pal.
Would you want to know if a girl you obviously have feelings for likes your best friend? Not many guys would.
So to preserve your fragile little heart, he kept his gob shut.

Phuong...Hehehehehehehe!

i dont want to waste my time though if she likes my best friend...and whats so damn funny about the name...dont see many asians?

Please tell me she's not an Asian. Asian (women especially), are deceiving, back-stabbing, psycho little people. They are liars and will squish your kitten under their high-heel when given the chance.

75 vietnamese 25 black
strange combo i know but yea...
and shes a little different...shes got a lot of similar philosophies that i do, and i believe im a morally sound guy

Pics/Myspace.

Let me break this down for ya buddy....

Forget that bitch...She ain't worth shit if she's gonna go for your friend. She knows that could potentially ruin your friendship yet she does it anyway.
That is evil and reserved for people you hate.
So I'm gonna say she's a nasty piece of work who wants to be the attention whore caught in the middle of some excellent teenage drama or she hates you...Either way stay away for your own sake!

And you didn't answer my question...Did he do anything with her or did he just not tell you for a reason?

Also, I do see the name Phuong quite a bit at work...And Far Eastern names make me giggle all the time...Get over it.

well its not like she wanted to im sure because shes been crying and depressed because i got mad and shit and she hates drama because shes hated by everyone now...and he just didnt tell me...its just downright bullshit that u dont tell ur friend that kinda stuff

and her myspace is private...i cant even view it anymore lol and her dp isnt a great one...cant really tell shes part black...only sign is that her hair isnt completely str8 naturally

well its not like she wanted to im sure because shes been crying and depressed because i got mad and shit and she hates drama because shes hated by everyone now...and he just didnt tell me...its just downright bullshit that u dont tell ur friend that kinda stuff

So she's dumb then?
She's gotta be...Did she think she could tell your buddy she liked him, they'd get together and be happy and you'd NEVER find out?!
Or did she think you'd be all like "You two together?...That's cool...Nah I don't care that we broke up and you went straight for my best friend. As long as you're happy darling, my feelings will heal one day. Have fun you two! :D "

The more I learn about this chick the more I want to slap her across the head and tell her to stop being so fucking retarded!

And here's a life experience of mine that I hope will give you a perspective on you and Nick:

One of my brother's exes came onto me a few times a few years back...But as much as I wanted to bone her and could've gotten it so damn easily I kept away.
She dumped him because "they were just too different" but even though he played the tough guy routine, I know he still liked her. A lot.
I never told him about it...I know for a fact it would've hurt his feelings.

He found out about six months later from someone and asked me why I didn't tell him...I told him because I knew he still liked her and I didn't want to rub it in his face that this bitch was fucking around with his feelings and our relationship. He appreciated the sentiment so much he bought me a beer, called me an idiot for not getting in there with her, put his arm round me and said "Thanks little bro"

Very proud moment for me.

And here's a life experience of mine that I hope will give you a perspective on you and Nick:

One of my brother's exes came onto me a few times a few years back...But as much as I wanted to bone her and could've gotten it so damn easily I kept away.
She dumped him because "they were just too different" but even though he played the tough guy routine, I know he still liked her. A lot.
I never told him about it...I know for a fact it would've hurt his feelings.

He found out about six months later from someone and asked me why I didn't tell him...I told him because I knew he still liked her and I didn't want to rub it in his face that this bitch was fucking around with his feelings and our relationship. He appreciated the sentiment so much he bought me a beer, called me an idiot for not getting in there with her, put his arm round me and said "Thanks little bro"

Very proud moment for me.

psycho_8b, you're the man.

Revenge.
i once had a friend do something similar to me.
long story short i beat him senseless and havent talked to him since
i have the peace of mind that he wont do anything like that ever again.

yea the only difference though is she was still with me at the time...so it was like i was being lead on

And here's a life experience of mine that I hope will give you a perspective on you and Nick:

One of my brother's exes came onto me a few times a few years back...But as much as I wanted to bone her and could've gotten it so damn easily I kept away.
She dumped him because "they were just too different" but even though he played the tough guy routine, I know he still liked her. A lot.
I never told him about it...I know for a fact it would've hurt his feelings.

He found out about six months later from someone and asked me why I didn't tell him...I told him because I knew he still liked her and I didn't want to rub it in his face that this bitch was fucking around with his feelings and our relationship. He appreciated the sentiment so much he bought me a beer, called me an idiot for not getting in there with her, put his arm round me and said "Thanks little bro"

Very proud moment for me.

I'm crying inside. That was a beautiful story.

You are the man.