It looks like when I was with my girlfriend, I had some random girls flirting with me all the time. Now that I broke up with her, seems like it's harder to find somebody.

I believe that girls like that fact that you are with someone and makes them want you more. My buddy tried putting a ring on his finger to look like he was married, and he got at least 3 phone numbers in one night.

What do girls here think about guys that are "committed" and why do you find them more attractive that guys that are single?

If another girl wants the guy, then he's probably worth it. If a guy is single there could be a reason, such as he sucks a sex or has a habbit of treating his gf like ass. If he has a girlfriend, odds are he's good material and girls are more attracted to him.

It works both ways. You're more desirable because you're already taken, and she's more desirable because you can't have her if you're in a relationship.

It's because they're all skanky hoes. I thought everybody knew this?

'Cuz you already know some girl wants your dick and can act however you want. Real confidence > textbook (the game) committed.

QFT!

Seriously... Females are so fucking scandalous when it comes to things like this. It's that whole 'forbidden fruit' thing. Women want want they can't have. Plain and simple.

I even conducted my own social/psychological experiment on this and posted about it on Totse a couple years ago:

Want to Get Laid By Lots of Chicks? Just Get a Girlfriend! (http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=1500219)

I have observed this phenomenon and a girl explained it to me that when alone we tend to put off a "lonely vibe" that keeps others at a distance.

I've always heard that the wedding ring is a chick magnet - the above theory doesn't account for that.

Everyone wants some car: car becomes more desireable : even more people (yes, more than everyone) wants said car.

Noone wants said car? car must suck. Looks alright to me, but something must be wrong.


Now combine the above with the "safety" of you being taken, so that it's all just fun, teeheehee, he knows that, silly, of course it's just for fun.

Thats why you build a ring of girls you talk to or hang with in public areas, keep it casual you know, nothing serious...then from there you use this ring of girls to pick up others. And unless your a chump, when your seen with these girls itll seem as theres something between you two and the other girls should pick up on this. If your a chump youll act "far" from these girls and theyll know instead of you being desirable that your just probably annoying these girls.

Cause girls assume son, theyll take the most obvious sign, even if its the opposite of the truth, and assume thats your position.

It's fairly simple really,

1)Your behavior changes around other girls. Generally you're no longer trying to "impress" or put on an act to make them like you.

2) If they know you're taken they will be more comfortable around you because they don't expect to be hit on.


That "lonely vibe" Bs only makes sense if you're some sad pathetic sod when not in a relationship.

It's fairly simple really,

2) If they know you're taken they will be more comfortable around you because they don't expect to be hit on.




Thats another key, single guys roll up girls hitting on them obviously, coming from the wrong direction...Thats why if you come across to them that your not there to pick up on them, congrats, you on your way player.