Weird title. Um...

Well recently me and my wicked awesome lady friend were messing around a bit and me, though enthusiastic, being the virgin that I am was relatively inexperienced when my hand was between her legs. She on the other hand had quite a...well placed hand on things. Note, she had clothes on since we were kind of in a public place and we both had a wonderful time its just...I felt I kinda sucked in terms of being able to tease and play with her pussy. She was awesome, twas an awesome night.

I know when making out, foreplay, and getting hot n'heavy and such you shouldnt just try to bury your hands between a womans legs from the get go. There is so much to explore as far as the senses go and tasting, touching, smelling etc. all of a womans parts is half the fun but in terms of teasing well and trying to stay seductive and passionate instead of overtly and lamely sexual hows some good ways to go about getting her wetter and playing with her pussy?

Sigh...yes, serious post. I guess just run with it if possible.

Can't help you. All you can do is practice. And if you're getting such good handjobs, that shouldn't be too much of a chore.

No narrative explanations then?

hmm...

Thanks stab, that was a very common sensical and concise post.

1) Practice
2) Communicate
3) Read her body language

And that's about it.

Hard to tell if you're being sarcastic, this is totse, but I'll take that as a compliment. No narrative because everybody rides a bike a bit differently.

Ah sure man sure but...dang. Theres a kind of consistent flow of sexiness and teasing that you have to keep up. I want her so horny that shes practically coming before I directly start stimulating her. Ah damn.

lol nah man but I was concerned I came off that way.

Hmm...mods can someone delete this thread? I suddenly realized she might be looking at my posts....

Ah sure man sure but...dang. Theres a kind of consistent flow of sexiness and teasing that you have to keep up. I want her so horny that shes practically coming before I directly start stimulating her. Ah damn.

Ok, fine. You should know that every woman is different, so, yeah..

Just start off kissing, touching, caressing, etc..
Rub around her pussy, but don't touch. Tease her. Make her feel like you're going for it, but pull back. Keep kissing, maybe now play with her breast? Circles around her areolas, slowly closing the circle to get to her nipples. Keep playing around, keep kissing, maybe a few kisses on her belly?
Move a bit down. Keep teasting her.
When you actually get to her pussy(make sure your hands aren't completely dry. It hurts them), try inserting your finger, but BARELY. Like.. say not even a cm, maybe 50mm, idk, just a tad. Make circles with this finger, rubbing the 'walls'(forlack of a better term), keep doing this, kissing, etc.

When you see her that she's really enjoying it, pull back. Play with her clit. Most woman will enjoy this alot, but from what I have learned from my girlfriend, not all are the same, so she might react differently. Anyways, try rubbing it. Softly, obviously. In small circles. Or maybe side to side? Find out what shes likes more.
When you see that she's REALLY enjoying it. Pull back. :D
Do this once more maybe, her vagina, then her clit.

Then, well, you take it from there.

What if she is? I hope that doesn't mean what you said happened between you two would come off as a mystery to her if she read your post.

I guess that means you don't want advice.

Hmm...mods can someone delete this thread? I suddenly realized she might be looking at my posts....

I think this thread calls for a STICKY


Honestly you should talk to her about it, if you suck as much as you think you do, then she's already realized that you have less experience, so the worst part is over.

Hmm? I'm not quite sure what you mean man. The advice is appreciated, yes please, I mean....sorry, Im just kinda indecisive.

...its just making me lol that at one point where I happened to be on my knees she said something to the effect of "Oh hey, you gonna tell all your little friends on totse about this? *wink*"

Hmm? I'm not quite sure what you mean man. The advice is appreciated, yes please, I mean....sorry, Im just kinda indecisive.

...its just making me lol that at one point where I happened to be on my knees she said something to the effect of "Oh hey, you gonna tell all your little friends on totse about this? *wink*"

Totse and RL aren't supposed to mix.

Totse and RL aren't supposed to mix.

sorry man, Im a sucker and shes rocks my socks.

Trust me, you would have found it funny though.

Hmm? I'm not quite sure what you mean man. The advice is appreciated, yes please, I mean....sorry, Im just kinda indecisive.

...its just making me lol that at one point where I happened to be on my knees she said something to the effect of "Oh hey, you gonna tell all your little friends on totse about this? *wink*"

I thought maybe I'd caught you trolling.

Before you work yourself up trying to become a don juan overnight, make sure she is of a ready mind to get kinky with you again. Girls can be weird about that shit.

As for the hand issue, I'd just go with "ask her", but in the case that you're too shy or something then I would suggest rubbing your middle and ring finger between her legs [assuming you guys are still in clothes]. Depending on whether or not she's devilishly horny, or just being romantically intimate would determine how rough you go about the rubbing.

Cheers mate.