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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-10-17, 12:06 |
Pseud0nym 
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 Help a noob out, is she playing me?
Not cheating me, but toying around. The real short version is in bold at the bottom.
EDIT: Ohhhh fuck. I completely forgot what I was going to say. Stoner. Well here's the short version.
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we are going out, but she really doesn't seem eager to see me. This chick is a young teen and has had sex multiple times, but just doesn't seem like the same person around me. She says she hates parties but goes to one every week, and I'm not invited, even though I'm her fucking boyfriend. Totse may have jaded me but seems like this bitch is toying with me. If so, I already have ideas on what to do, no worries there, but I want your opinion on it
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#2
2007-10-17, 13:07 |
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Re: Help a noob out, is she playing me?
Heh if you note yourself as her "bf" and shes acting like that, ur getting smoked brotha.
My friend had a similar situation, he fucked himself up mentally with his girl. Shed go to parties, and say shes hanging with her EX there...but then my friend never went to the parties so he got super paranoid/jealous. She wouldnt listen to him and just go anyways...and who knows wtf really happened. I kno itd bother me but at the same time if i had a girl like that I 1 would be in that position with her in the first place and 2 would be outta some shit like that real quick
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#3
2007-10-17, 13:13 |
Pseud0nym
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Re: Help a noob out, is she playing me?
Yeah, I confronted her over txt and she said this one in particular was one of her best friends parties and she understands if I don't want to go out. Then she said in another txt, that "maybe we should just be friends until we meet" so while I won't be rooting this chick in the next week, she'll probably be there later.
I texted her back, acted blase and kind of played her. I'm not the desperate type, I know what I'm doing but when I'm actually going out with someone then I lose my dominance. Flirting is a lot easier than trying to out manipulate a bitch in a relationship.
I just fucking hate my age group. Relationships are generally stupid unless you really like somebody, and it's not like you can go and get laid every week. A few more years and I'm completely over this shit.
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#4
2007-10-17, 21:28 |
fat_people_suck
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Re: Help a noob out, is she playing me?
good rule of thumb, if you have to ask if you're gettin played then you are really gettin fucked in the a by a 12 inch black dildo move the fuck on find a better bitch
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#5
2007-10-17, 21:56 |
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Re: Help a noob out, is she playing me?
how old are you may i ask? I know its goofy in those younger ages as my friend had the totally wrong approach in his beginning stages.
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#6
2007-10-17, 22:30 |
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Re: Help a noob out, is she playing me?
Of course she's toying with you, but she is also lying to herself, she may actually think she doesn't like to party, but once she's out their she don't care no more.
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#7
2007-10-17, 22:50 |
stab
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Re: Help a noob out, is she playing me?
Yes, she is.
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#8
2007-10-18, 01:21 |
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Re: Help a noob out, is she playing me?
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Originally Posted by Pseud0nym
Yeah, I confronted her over txt and she said this one in particular was one of her best friends parties and she understands if I don't want to go out. Then she said in another txt, that "maybe we should just be friends until we meet" so while I won't be rooting this chick in the next week, she'll probably be there later.
I texted her back, acted blase and kind of played her. I'm not the desperate type, I know what I'm doing but when I'm actually going out with someone then I lose my dominance. Flirting is a lot easier than trying to out manipulate a bitch in a relationship.
I just fucking hate my age group. Relationships are generally stupid unless you really like somebody, and it's not like you can go and get laid every week. A few more years and I'm completely over this shit.
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A lot of girls voice opinions that aren't actually true, in order to be perceived in a particular way. Good luck, by the sound of "just be friends until we meet" - is that just an excuse for her to fuck someone else, and it not be cheating because you're just friends? You've got the right idea anyway by the looks of things, just accept that this could never be more to you than sex. |
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#9
2007-10-18, 04:42 |
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Re: Help a noob out, is she playing me?
Then she said in another txt, that "maybe we should just be friends until we meet".
Soo.....you guys never even met in person?
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2007-10-18, 05:43 |
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Re: Help a noob out, is she playing me?
Then she said in another txt, that "maybe we should just be friends until we meet"
This girl's not worth your time. Move on to someone who'll respect you.
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