ok So I really like(d) this girl. I can't seem to get her out of my head. The only, and ONLY reason we broke up was because I was more or less holding her back in terms of religion (I'll address in another thread, not here of course). Anyway, I'm the kinda guy who focuses on work and school, and rarely parties or blows stuff up, or anything. I just never had the time. But, low and behold, I happen across this girl, and *wince* fall in love. I guess it more or less would be my "first" true love, but then again it could've just been gas or something. Anyways, I seem to be suffering from the broken heart blues. And she apparently is unaffected. I mean, seriously, I really like this girl. I was never one to settle down or anything, but dudes, if I ever did decide to, she would be the one. Heck, I even weird myself out by thinking/saying stuff like that. But again, I'm still thinking about her, no matter how much I try to tell myself that it's been done, and to move on. What I absolutely don't want to turn into is one of those possessive stalker guys that harasses their ex and crap. My younger sister went through that with her ex, and he even today, is still acting up ( I say he needs a good 'ol fashioned a** whipin). It's funny to imagine that the very thing I try not to be...I end up becoming. But I'm sure I wouldn't take things that far. I still have her pics on my computer, and every so often, I'll look at them. She really wants us to be friends and whatnot, but I'm like....uuhhh ok?? I really miss talking to her like I used to, ya know? Never thought I'd be one to fall in love, much less, get hurt :(
Eh, I guess I just need some feedback or something.
Thanks for reading btw.

I'm pretty sure that's normal.

Otherwise, I am definitely a weird-ass MF...

Perfectly normal buddy...You'll get over it much quicker if you don't be friends with her.

Delete her number, delete the pics, stay away from her Myspace and let the healing begin.

Trust me man...It's best in the long run.

QFT. .

Yeeeaaaaah. Creepy. This post sounds like someting i could have posted like. 6 months ago.

What i'll say, is. Dont get into the trap of idealising your relationship and thinking about it like a movie one. Dont pine and wait for her to come back. Realise that it's over and all that, and get over her.

Like Psycho said. Forget her, find someone else, move on.

these people are right. just let it go man, it will all be better.