It was my girlfriends birthday and she suprised me by seeing me after work. I was going to go to her house after, we never have sex at her house, shes too scared with her parents there. I haven't seen her in 2 weeks.

Anyway we were laying in bed and I started fingering her, I usually finger her till she orgasms then we have sex cause she really likes it and I like the way she really gets into it.

She got up and started to kiss down all the way to my cock and started licking and sucking it, something she rarely does.

She then go on top of me and we started fucking. I had to put on a condom in the first 2 minutes cause I couldn't handle it. If I would let go I could probably blow in 2 minutes without a condom even trying to control myself.

After I put on the condom I had to pace myself cause I was going to blow. But after a few positions I started to get softer and something hit me that I didn't want to continue fucking cause I knew I probably couldn't come, and then soft it went. The whole process was about 20 minutes.

We sat in silence and I held her cause I feel like an asshole, apparently I know that this makes all girls feel like shit even if it's the guys problem.

Has this happened to anyone, you start losing interest in screwing and just stop cause you dont feel like doing it longer.

This happens every about once every 5 times we have sex

Yea dude I can relate to this sadly. I have had this problem the last few times I have had sex with my girlfriend. Usually when it happens I am super turned on but the feeling of the condom when knowing how good it actually feels without one on totally works me over and i go soft. However I have found a solution to keeping extremely hard erections. When me and my girlfriend first started having sex i was working out very often causing a good blood flow of the body. Well i stopped this summer and everything started going down hill for my erections. They got soft they were nearly as full and all sorts of other shit. It was quite embarrassing I felt shitty after every time I felt limp. I just recently started working out again and I can already notice the difference in a more full and longer lasting erection along witha shorter down time. Im not saying u even have to work out but just more of a healthy diet and active lifestyle should boost your stamina. Let me know if it works.

This happens every about once every 5 times we have sex

This pretty much happens to me every single time I have sex.

So consider yourself lucky.

This pretty much happens to me every single time I have sex.

So consider yourself lucky.

amen, fuck condoms

maybe try ultrathin and see how it goes

Don't fuck in terms of blowing your load, just fuck for the sake of fucking. If she's not enjoying it, and you're not, then fuck it, it's gone on too long... but if you're both enjoying it, why stop? Even you're not/she's not/no one's gonna cum?

I enjoy sex for the sake of sex myself, regardless of whether or not I bust one. It's better if whoever i'm with gets off, though.