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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-10-11, 22:08
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sirlicksalot 
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Things are picking up... help
So I wrote a thread like two weeks ago telling everyone how I have started to have feelings for my friend of fourteen years. Since then, I hinted at him in a little saying that I liked him, and I think he may have got it because the next day he asked me to watch tv with him at his dorm. Also, after that he's broken the touch barrier twice, which he knows I don't like to be touched by most people. Obviously, I don't mind with him but like it's been the tap on the shoulder to get my attention instead of saying my name, or a friendly punch in the arm dealio. It's our fall break right now, but when we get back we said that we would hang out again just us. Any suggestions? I am horrible at this stuff and like I over think everything because I am so self conscious. It's harder to flirt with someone I like then someone I don't like.
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#2
 2007-10-11, 22:54
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Re: Things are picking up... help
Plenty of touching on your part will reinforce the message.
I can't be bothered writing a coherant paragraph so here's a list of some subtle and not so subtle ways to touch him.
Touch him loads when you're talking to him, laugh at his jokes even the bad ones.
The Sit down and edge closer teqnique is good. Basically if he's sitting on something eg a table or a sofa sit down next to him about a foot away or so and slowly edge closer until you're pressed up against him. Having done this, hand him something on a plate for him to tease you about. This is your cue to giggle too much, playfully punch him, etc.
If he's sitting on a chair select the chair next to him then a couple of minutes later shift the chair so it's facing more towards him than towards what you were facing before. Give it a couple more minutes and then put your legs up on his chair.
Find excuses to pick imaginary bits of lint off his clothes.
If you're walking or standing beside him let your hand gently brush his.
Watch a scary film with him. This will give you an excellent excuse to huddle up tight to him. If at any point you feel the need to cover your eyes, use his hand.
If you hand him something, let your hand brush his for about a second longer than it normally would when handing him something.
You have an itchy back. Get him to scratch it. Enjoy it just a bit too much and ask him to keep doing it when he stops.
A flirtatious nudge here and there is good.
And that's about all I can think of just now. Good luck. :)
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#3
 2007-10-12, 01:15
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Re: Things are picking up... help
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Originally Posted by mysterectomy
Plenty of touching on your part will reinforce the message.
I can't be bothered writing a coherant paragraph so here's a list of some subtle and not so subtle ways to touch him.
Touch him loads when you're talking to him, laugh at his jokes even the bad ones.
The Sit down and edge closer teqnique is good. Basically if he's sitting on something eg a table or a sofa sit down next to him about a foot away or so and slowly edge closer until you're pressed up against him. Having done this, hand him something on a plate for him to tease you about. This is your cue to giggle too much, playfully punch him, etc.
If he's sitting on a chair select the chair next to him then a couple of minutes later shift the chair so it's facing more towards him than towards what you were facing before. Give it a couple more minutes and then put your legs up on his chair.
Find excuses to pick imaginary bits of lint off his clothes.
If you're walking or standing beside him let your hand gently brush his.
Watch a scary film with him. This will give you an excellent excuse to huddle up tight to him. If at any point you feel the need to cover your eyes, use his hand.
If you hand him something, let your hand brush his for about a second longer than it normally would when handing him something.
You have an itchy back. Get him to scratch it. Enjoy it just a bit too much and ask him to keep doing it when he stops.
A flirtatious nudge here and there is good.
And that's about all I can think of just now. Good luck. :)
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This list gave me an erection.
ATTN ALL GIRLS: Do this.
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#4
 2007-10-12, 01:29
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sirlicksalot 
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Re: Things are picking up... help
Yeah some of this has already happened and I didn't notice it. Like when ever we playing video games with or friends he will pat the floor next to him so that I bring my chair closer lol. I like the things you gave me. Anyone else have any ideas?
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#5
 2007-10-12, 01:52
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Re: Things are picking up... help
Bite your lower lip. and try and look up at him. Excuses to massage are always good. show him birth marks/scars/freckles/moles in interesting places.
EDIT: try playing with his hair. find some excuse like "OMG LETS PUT GEL IN IT" or "OMG LETS BRAID IT" or something. Or maybe that would just turn me on because I have fucking great hair. hmm.
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