Alright, so I'm mainly posting this out of boredom and to promote conversation, instead of any real need of advice or support. However, if you have any thoughts or suggestions after reading, feel free to leave a couple of lines.. (Note: Long Read.. It's cool if your nto up to reading it.. feel free to post since you did take the time to click on the thread..)

So I'm recently pursueing a new relationship, with a younger girl for once. It's not that I havent dated younger girls, but I have a tendency to date women around my age or a few years older. It's not really preference, but just how things have happened for me. Anyways.. She's a few years younger which is bad.. She's alot different than any other girl I have pursued. Oddly enough we met after I helped sneak her out of the house, and back to my friends place for a small party. The ideal was to sneak her out for my friends to hit on, but as time would have it, she was interested in me. We end up gong off to ourselves, and being an inexperienced drinker, she hits the bottle pretty hard and it isnt long before she feels it.

I think back on it now, and I knew at that time I could have easily had my way with the girl, but, thats really not the type of guy that I am. Instead I took the bottle away from her and we layed down on the bed.. which made for some great flirtation exchange.. She started to feel sick so she layed close to me nad I rubbed my finger through ehr hair.. w/e.. Even went as far as to carry her up the basement stairs to the bathroom, and back down. We talked alot, and it was really cool. She's one of these sweet innocent girls that you typically wouldnt imagine sneaking out to get drunk.. I mean she is good looking by all means.. ex-cheerleader if that says anything.. But she gave it up because she lost interest.. ect ect..

So for the msot part we lay there and talk.. Flirt quite a bit.. I give her enough time to get feel'n better, and to sober up a little bit.. Finally I know I have to take her home, and she was comfortable and really didnt want the night to end, but I did what I had to do.. lol.. Carried her out to the car.. Her friend was with her but not quite as drunk.. I take her home.. get a hug and a kiss goodnight. I wake up the next morning and find her cell phone in my pocket.. I took it that ngith prior because I didnt want her to break it. This leads to me sneaking her out again sunday night. We drive around and flirt.. have some meaningful conversation before dropping her back off at her place. I get her number and she insist i call her sometime this week and that hse would do the same. We also make plans to get together this upcoming friday night.

So a couple days pass, and she goes out of state with oen of her firends for two days. We keep in contact through email. Discuss how much she thanks me for taking care of her, and that she looked forward to friday night.. About how we'll get some alone time.. the conclusion that I made was more/less.. and this is jsut form my interpretation " Because I didnt take advantage of her.. in her mind.. proved I was a sweet caring guy.. and what I didnt take for myself.. would be given to me.. lol".. ok ok.. that sounds alot worse than I meant it to.. idealy.. but she more or less told me in non-exact words.. that she was interested in me.. liked how i had a different way of thinking.. called me good looking a couple times.. so.. I mean.. things are goin good

We talked on the phone tonight for about two hours.. She was hanging out with her sister thats in college, in her dorm. I'm much better with conversations in person then on the phone because I'm a physical person.. not an intrusive touchy feely kinda guy.. but I like being in the presence.. The conversation was kinda dull at first but it picked up before I let her go.. It's wierd because.. we are really different.. I'm a laid back.. plays guitar.. writes lyrics kinda guy.. listens to vintage led zeppelin "records".. and restores a 1980 trans am in my free time.. Here is this sweet.. intelligent.. (well book smart.. lacking in the comment sense).. cute.. funny girl.. who hasnt the slightest clue who or what led zeppelin is.. didn't know what a muscle car was.. and dreams of being a school teacher.. She just intrigues me for some reason or another.. She isnt like any other girl I've dated or even talked to, but I still have that sense of comfortability.. and idk.. I get enjoyment introducing her to the things I like that see doesnt know about.. I had shoudler length hair two days before meeting her.. and when my firends were giving me a hard tiem for cutting it at the party (they all ahve longish hair).. she comments she likes guys with short hair.. maybe karma paid off.. maybe she's just another girl that i'll soon forget.. but while it last.. she is something different.. and i like that about her.. wish me the best of luck.. as wish the same to you.. Take it easy everyone..

Just be carefull, it looks like shes got you wrapped around her little finger...
good luck.

It sounds like a good thing you've got going there.
She didnt turn into a raging whore when she got drunk, you didnt become a creepy bastard. It's great that you're talking so much and that she seems to appreciate you.

good luck.