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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-10-11, 01:37 |
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 Proving You Love Her
How do you prove you love a girl? Besides sex.
My girlfriend has told me before that I don't really love her, and won't believe me when I say I do. She told me some things I could do, but I can't for the love of god remember what those things were. It was all her fault, though. Before she told me what I could do, she said something like "...you don't have to have sex with me but..." and all I was thinking about was getting some. I regret not listening to her now, though.
So, what are some things I could do to prove to her I love her a lot?
I should probably mention we have only been dating for a few weeks, so I probably shouldn't go too overboard.
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2007-10-11, 01:40 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
let's see...
1) you can't remember what she told you when it was obviously important to her
2) you weren't paying attention to what she was saying because you were too worried about getting into her pants
3) you've only been together a few weeks.
you don't love her.
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#3
2007-10-11, 01:41 |
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Re: Proving You Love Her
You do have to listen to your girl son. End of discussion.
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#4
2007-10-11, 01:44 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
You've been together for a few weeks, of course you don't love her, durrrrrr. :\ Lousy kids these days.
On the flip side, it wouldn't hurt you to actually listen to her once in a while. 'Love' notwithstanding, paying attention is pretty damn important. DO IT.
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#5
2007-10-11, 01:52 |
ownanarchy
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Re: Proving You Love Her
Okay, I know it sounds bad... But there is really more to it than that post. I could tell you everything else she has said. I could go on and on for pages about what she has told me about herself. However, to be fair, I was drinking that night. Teenage male virgin + alcohol = horny mofo. And I had an opportunity to get with her before, but I care about her too much for her to think all I want is sex. I don't want her to think I'm just like every other guy that just wants to fuck her and leave her. I honestly could care less if we have sex right now or in 10 years. I'm happy enough just to be with her.
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2007-10-11, 01:53 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
If you want to prove to her that you care about her (I'm not saying love because you probably don't), you just need to make sure that not only are you making an effort to avoid fights and bad stuff in general but that you're also making a concerted effort to better your relationship and make her feel happy and desired. Little things on a daily basis, once and a while tell her how gorgeous she looks, and other times tell her how sexy she is and all the dirty things you want to do to her. Be proactive.
Also, you might want to listen when she talks sometimes.
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#7
2007-10-11, 01:58 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
Rape her.
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#8
2007-10-11, 02:50 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
You should never have to PROVE you love somebody. You just do. And either they love you back or they don't.
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#9
2007-10-11, 03:35 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
Fuck her hard. Finish on her face.
She will love you for it.
Don't prove shit.
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#10
2007-10-11, 07:52 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
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Originally Posted by star-lit
You should never have to PROVE you love somebody. You just do. And either they love you back or they don't.
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this. |
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#11
2007-10-11, 09:55 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
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Originally Posted by ownanarchy
How do you prove you love a girl? Besides sex.
My girlfriend has told me before that I don't really love her, and won't believe me when I say I do. She told me some things I could do, but I can't for the love of god remember what those things were. It was all her fault, though. Before she told me what I could do, she said something like "...you don't have to have sex with me but..." and all I was thinking about was getting some. I regret not listening to her now, though.
So, what are some things I could do to prove to her I love her a lot?
I should probably mention we have only been dating for a few weeks, so I probably shouldn't go too overboard.
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If you've only been dating a few weeks you probably DONT love her.
You shouldnt have to lie and say you do, and she shouldnt be pushing you so early on in the relationship.
I cant tell you how to 'prove' you love her because whatever you do it will be false, a lie. And not really a great idea. To lie and pretend to love someone is the most Sadistic thing you can do to a person. |
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#12
2007-10-11, 10:01 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
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Originally Posted by star-lit
You should never have to PROVE you love somebody. You just do. And either they love you back or they don't.
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True, but words can be full of shit. A paranoid loony like me knows that all too well. It's actions that show the truth behind things. Of course, if you truly trust someone, you should take their word for it anyway. But it's human nature to be mistrustful of these types of things. People who are too trusting are prone to getting heartbroken easier.
In short, actions do speak louder than words.
That aside, it depends. If you're relationship is really sexually based, then do something that's not. Goto a cafe or something. Something that she enjoys, but knows you don't really enjoy. That should do the trick.
Failing that, listen in future! |
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#13
2007-10-11, 10:06 |
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Re: Proving You Love Her
Dude...Do you love her?
If so, then show it how you want to show it. It should come naturally. That's how it works.
And I think you're a douche bag. You didn't listen to this chick and you come here asking that question trying to prove something to her that you probably don't know yourself.
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#14
2007-10-11, 10:26 |
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Originally Posted by xilikeeggs0
let's see...
1) you can't remember what she told you when it was obviously important to her
2) you weren't paying attention to what she was saying because you were too worried about getting into her pants
3) you've only been together a few weeks.
you don't love her.
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I agree with this.
You don't love her at all. |
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#15
2007-10-11, 20:07 |
ownanarchy
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Re: Proving You Love Her
Alright... How can I prove to her that I like her, care about her, and want to be with her?
I'm not asking, "tell me how I feel" or for any other comments. ...Then again, this is TotSE after all.
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