Friday I'm supposedly staying at my boyfriend's friend's apartment, and by the looks of it I'll be losing my virginity.

What shall I expect? Any advice/tips? How awkward will it be afterwards? How should I go about initiating this and what should I bring aside from condoms and lube? (I'm sure he'll atleast bring condoms, but just in case.)

I know that it's different for everyone but a general consensus will do.

Lol, why would you bring lube? Is he going to be putting it in your ass? Is that what you mean by virginity? Anal virginity?

I mean seriously...you are over thinking the whole thing. If dogs can accomplish the act of sex, why couldn't you? I hope you don't need 12 beers to fuck this guy either, lol.

yea i agree^^

expect to get laid, and expect it to suck because it's your first time.

that's about it.

I don't see what's wrong with bringing lube. your own natural lubrication will stop eventually no matter how turned on you are, and some girls like to be fingered alot before sex, etc etc, better to be safe than sorry/sore:p

From a guys perspective....

1. Don't get upset and angry if he has erection issues. he's just nervous and making a big deal about it will accomplish nothing. if it's not going to happen that night it just won't happen. Chill out and don't make him feel any more shit than he already is.

It happened to me before. My first attempt at losing it I was nervous and under pressure, The bitch actually got really angry at me and didn't talk to me for like an hour.

2. Don't get all upset if he doesn't come. It's probably not because you're hideous or suck in bed or whatever. Some guys just can't come at the drop of a hat...though if you've fooled around with him you should already have a decent idea.

3. communicate. suggest what you'd like him to do, if somethings uncomfortable and you want to swap around, have a rest, etc. let him know what feels good. ask him what feels good, etc.

is he a virgin btw?

is he a virgin btw?

No, but he's only had (really, or so he says) drunken sex once. He's not insecure and is infact quite the opposite, if that has anything to do with becoming erect.

Thanks for the advice, btw. :)

Do y'all go to Bishop Grimes Catholic School?

It wasn't awkward for me at all. But, we were a couple madly in love. It was just painful the first few times.

Just wanted to wish you the best.. It'll hurt like hell no doubt.. pain before pleasure.. take it easy and have fun.. dont over analyze after it's over.. sex is sex.. it's the first time so it isnt going to be perfect.. takes practice

Nope, but we live pretty damn close to it.

Anywho, thanks to everyone for the advice. <3