that youre flirting with them? and how long should i wait to know that he isnt interested...is there a sign or something?
hes kind of flirted back and suggested things but never actually asked me out or anything...

They're called IOIs (indicators of interest.) They're used by pick up artists, and they work pretty damn well. Well...for females. I can tell you that if a girl is fixing her clothes, playing with her hair, squeezing your hand, holding eye contact, or any number of various other things then she is attracted to you. I do not know if the same applies to males, however I think it would be fairly close.

I imagine it would be easier with guys.


Your best bet would probably be to make sure HE knows you're attracted to him.

WTF is up with all of this pick up artist shit.

I'd rather be shit at getting with women than read a book and worship some DeAngelo guy like he's your gay lover.

OP, it depends on if the guy is retarded or not. I play dumb sometimes when girls flirt with me because I don't want to start anything with them.

The fuck are you talking about? Being able to recognize when a girl is attracted to you is a bad thing?

I play dumb sometimes when girls flirt with me because I don't want to start anything with them.

You don't have to kid with us, we know you aren't playing.

Just grab his cock,wink and say "eh, eh?". :o

accidentally did that kind of?
was swinging my arms around in a pool and accidentally grabbed on to something...
funny funny
but anyway
ive been shotting pretty obvious flirting to him and he has shot a couple times back but i always have to start it off...does that mean he isnt interested?

I pick on it and flirt back real fast when I'm drunk. I'll pick up on it when I'm sober, but if I'm in a crowd I generally won't flirt back.

do you flirt when your one on one?
and how long does it take until you make a mood? like how much do i have to flirt before the guy realises i want to have da sexy time!?

One of the following is probably what it is:

1. You're below his standards physically.
2. He likes someone else or has a girlfriend.
3. He's afraid of commitment. (doesn't want a relationship)

It could be none of these, but, being a guy myself, I think it's probably one of these.

do you flirt when your one on one?
and how long does it take until you make a mood? like how much do i have to flirt before the guy realises i want to have da sexy time!?

yeah i'll totally flirt one on one. Sometimes I think a girl's just being flirty, but it usually doesn't take me more than half an hour if it's really heavy.

hes not in a relationship but he could like someone else
maybe i am below his standards :(
so hes just flirting back because hes bored?

He could also be too nervous to make a move, wait for things to escalate on their own (which, by the way, doesn't work). Why don't you try making the first move? If he's not interested, you'll scare him off; if he's mildly interested, you'll scare him off; if he's interested but too shy to make a move, you'll have him in the bag.

haha, i tend to be completely oblivious right up to the point where you can't help but notice she wants you to kiss her. :)

-F☺rd

Just say lets cut to the chase you want to fuck. I honestly had no clue my girlfried(Not at the time) was interested in me but her friend got me in the same bed in her and she said that to me. We have been going out for 6 months.

Get a dressed up as a young Hollywood Socialite for Halloween.

In a short dress with a mocked up car door around your neck. No underwear, under there & go around showing people your cooter with complete abandon.

Show it to him with total nonchalance, as if he were just another citizen. It's what Britney would do. "This is my cooter & this is my tit. Would you care to knock off a bit?"

>>>The above statement provided solely for the lols, such as they are. Car door prop & socialite outfit idea provided by The Winekone.

haha sounds familiar for some reason?

Do everyone a favour...Tell him you want to go for a drink and fuck his brains out afterwards.

Easiest way.

Put something in his drink.

Tell him looks over-pressurized & a bit tense. Offer to sooth, stroke & relieve his pressure. Ask if you could drain some of his fluids off orally. * Slurp Slurp Sluuuuurp *

hes not in a relationship but he could like someone else
maybe i am below his standards :(
so hes just flirting back because hes bored?

Do not let self doubt beat you before you've even tried.

For all you know he could be posting a similar thread on whatever the hell his equivalent to totse is.

Push it harder.Flirt more openly. Put the pressure on. Unless he's utterly retarded he'll get the idea. And then make his move, depending on what he feels. Hopefully he'll tell you if he doesent like you, hopefully he'll rip your clothes off and rub baby lotion all over you if he does like you.


Post pics.

He could also be too nervous to make a move, wait for things to escalate on their own (which, by the way, doesn't work). Why don't you try making the first move?

This.

WTF is up with all of this pick up artist shit.

I'd rather be shit at getting with women than read a book and worship some DeAngelo guy like he's your gay lover.

Also this x1000000

How bout don't ask Totse. some people will say what you want to hear, but you wont believe them. Then other's will say what you don't want to hear, and you'll latch onto it likes its truth. Just go flirt with him and if it goes anywhere then congrats. If not, then theres always other guys.

Btw, everyone is different. It's not like flirting is gender specific..

Moar details plz. It depends on the person tho, some people need it spelled out more than others. Do either of you have a bf or gf? How old are you guys? Is the guy outgoing or shy? Has he ever had a gf? Etc.

I was about to get on these terms ^^^ . Some guys just dont know, whatever the reason, scared,nervous, more caught up worrying what their next move is with the girl* thus missing her signals. Number of things that it could be.

Yeah, and it also just depends on the 2 people. Like right now I'm in about the exact situation with this girl I know, but she's had a bf now for quite some time. I almost pretend to be retarded and not understand what she's talking about because I'm so fucking nervous with her. I think it's more that I've developed such a close bond with her, and I love her so much that the idea of me actually spelling things out for her and her saying no is just so terrifying that it's almost impossible for me to do. And yet I can go to just about any other girl that I 'like' and be all about it without a care in the world. Very shitty situation because I know she likes me so if you really like him, sometimes you gotta just tell him straight up.


WOW after reading your posts you sound JUST like the girl I'm talking about. *is paranoid* thank god I faked my location :o

A guy will never know when your flirting with them, most men feel that it is their role to initiate, therefore, he will not intiate if you already have. Sure it's a sexist trait, but that is how people are raised. basically all you have to say in the situation is when it araises is yes or no, for now just sit back and look pretty.

^^ Bullshit. You have as much right to grab him as he does you... He knows you like him, garaunteed; it's the most obvious thing in the world. Whether he likes you or not he'll appreciate you coming out in the open with it.

moby_dick says: go for it!:)

How old are you, btw?

^^ Bullshit. You have as much right to grab him as he does you... He knows you like him, garaunteed; it's the most obvious thing in the world. Whether he likes you or not he'll appreciate you coming out in the open with it.

moby_dick says: go for it!:)

How old are you, btw?

I'm not talking about human rights, I'm talking about the times we live in, sure sometimes we caught on to when someone likes us, but then we usually fill as though they are trying to take over our role, and rebal against any other on comings.

How long does it take girls to realize? Anyone with a penis will fuck you if your even relativley attractive, stop playing mind games and sending little fucking signals and just make a move if you want him that bad, our heads are thick, we don't get it most of the time.

Why do we always gotta make the first move? That shit fucking pisses me off sometimes.

IDK man maybe cause its not the fucking red light district here?
It seems if people have tryed to change the process even though the rules and shit remain the same. Do you think back in the olden days, guys would sit around and swordfight with each other hoping to gain some girls attention. Fuck no, theyd be up on a female, calling the shots. Now guys sit back and let the woman take the drivers seat, and wonder why their bizness with women is soo shitty.

Bagel: As for the topic, if the dude isnt willing to talk to you or anything, hes either not interested or afraid/nervous. A quick trick, talk to him and see if he changes his tone of his voice when hes talking to you. If he does that means he could be nervous/intimidated by you, If you could provide more examples or any other information im sure we could help you.

Because we are MEN. We make dashing moves, brave the perils of sexual rejection, humiliation, and being laughed in our faces. Our large testicles mean these things hold no fear for us.

Women are supposed to be cute and pretty and wait for you to make a move. God I love it when chicks like that. When you can tell they're just so wet and want to bone you but don't make a move because they are ladies.

WTF is wrong with you that you want some DeAngelo reading he-woman to pick you up? Be a man!

i dont know his previous realtionships but i think he has had a gf
hes pretty outgoing but then shy at times? its weird hes not like the erson who wold stand out front and shout his opinions more mumble them quitely and make you laugh so hard you cry
i and are are friends i guess and he told me about some girl
so i guess thats it
:(
o well its probably for the best i shouldnt be seeing anyone after just recently breaking up...like
really recently

moby_dick says: go for it!:)

How old are you, btw?

thank you moby! :)
im 15...soon
but i was put up a grade so im the youngest in my year
which is so frustrating

Do not let self doubt beat you before you've even tried.

For all you know he could be posting a similar thread on whatever the hell his equivalent to totse is.

Push it harder.Flirt more openly. Put the pressure on. Unless he's utterly retarded he'll get the idea. And then make his move, depending on what he feels. Hopefully he'll tell you if he doesent like you, hopefully he'll rip your clothes off and rub baby lotion all over you if he does like you.


Post pics.

i hope so to!! :) thanks yoyo
but i guess this one is blown
its ok plenty o fish in the sea