Is it right for my girlfriend to become all jealous and insecure, just because i met up with an ex of some time ago? i can only say that nothing happened so many times...

sorry if that makes no sense, i'm just venting.

*Slaps OP in the face*

*slaps war_lord in the face* ?

Is it right for my girlfriend to become all jealous and insecure, just because i met up with an ex of some time ago? i can only say that nothing happened so many times...



Of course it's fucking okay for her to be jealous if you meet up with an ex!.

Now if you were meeting up with a generic female friend, your girlfriend would be stupid to get jealous and insecure.

But an ex?
Why were you meeting up with an ex? What were your motives? And what were hers?
Your girlfriend may trust you, but she's sensible to not trust an ex of her boyfriend. Women can be dirty grabby cunts at times.




To summon up what I'm saying:




*Slaps OP in the face*

*slaps yoyo in the cunt*

yeah i see your point yoyo,

i met up with her because she's still a friend,

but nothing happened between us and my current girlfriend just wont seem to accept this. Is it too much of me to ask her to trust me?

My girlfriend's have never had a problem with it.

In fact, once I was at an after prom party with a girlfriend and called my ex to confess my drunken, undying love for her.

My girlfriend didn't have a problem at all!

Mainly 'cuz she never found out.

Do you see where your operation fell off the tracks?

Well actually...
Girls should be more jealous and insecure, its science.

They have higher oestrogen, which irc makes you directly or indirectly insecure and whatnot.

my ex used to tell me he was just friends with certain girls. turns out he cheated on me 6 times. oh instincts, i should have listened.
think about how you feel when she hangs out with guys...any jealousy there?

My point is, neither males nor females should be trusted. We're all dirty creatures trying to pull the wool over everyone's eyes. No one's fucking straight forward with anyone, and we're all just dancing around in a hideous mascarade. So, most people who are jealous and insecure have good reason to be. If you don't know about betrayals that have been directed at you in the past, then whoever perpetrated them probably was just quite good at covering it up

Jaded much? :(

Thing is, NOT all humans are scum!
Cheating is NOT human nature!




You may say your ex is just a 'friend' but...really? Truly?

I find it hard to beleive and I'm not even the one dating you.


Ex's are different. If you're 'friend' with an ex it's kind of taken that there's still some sort of chemistry between you, and there's the possibility you may end up back together, or atleast fucking.

Cheating is NOT human nature!


Yeah!
Its not like almost everyone does it and has done it throughout history!

Wait...

Jaded much? :(



You may say your ex is just a 'friend' but...really? Truly?

I find it hard to beleive and I'm not even the one dating you.


Ex's are different. If you're 'friend' with an ex it's kind of taken that there's still some sort of chemistry between you, and there's the possibility you may end up back together, or atleast fucking.

again, i see your point, but anything we had ended a while ago. We actually are just friends.

Of course it's fucking okay for her to be jealous if you meet up with an ex!.

Now if you were meeting up with a generic female friend, your girlfriend would be stupid to get jealous and insecure.

But an ex?
Why were you meeting up with an ex? What were your motives? And what were hers?
Your girlfriend may trust you, but she's sensible to not trust an ex of her boyfriend. Women can be dirty grabby cunts at times.




To summon up what I'm saying:




*Slaps OP in the face*


but nothing happened between us and my current girlfriend just wont seem to accept this. Is it too much of me to ask her to trust me?

I agree with Yoyo. Why do men find it so hard to swallow that women get jealous?

Don't do suspicious shit, and see the wonders of a calm, tranquil, loving girlfriend.

Now, the reason why I would suspect you of cheating and/or still housing feelings for your ex is because most guys are assholes that way, and my ex and I have our own fun every now and then and we broke up two years ago.

Also, if your current girlfriend doesn't trust you, then you need to send her on her way. If there's no trust in a relationship, it is safe to consider it fucked.

Cheers mate.

owned...

"Are all girls jealous and insecure?"

Yes

*Gives OP a beer and attempts to explain*

Yeah, I hear some cunts even call their ex girlfriends to confess their undying love when they're at a social with their girlfriend.

(my point being: maybe you're just untrustworthy, and birds of a feather flock together)