So, i went out with this girl last year, broke up (it was a bad time for her, and i know this for a fact). Now this year were good friends and still talk every minute we can about nothing peticular. I still like her... but id like to know if i should just ask her how she feels(or tell her how i do) or dont because:

1 we already went out and didnt work
2 i would still want to talk to her if we broke up again

Everyone that knows me allready thinks we are going out again, and her friends arent telling her to stay away from me.

To sum it all up, I can:
stay friends, talk and blah blah untill she goes out with someone else

---------or-------------

go out with her again, and risk breaking up and not being friends afterwards.

To sum it all up, I can:
stay friends, talk and blah blah untill she goes out with someone else

Dude, you don't have to break up a friendship just because you're her ex and she's seeing another dude. Sure, it might get a bit awkward, but just don't pull the macho "you fuck with her and I'll kill you" bullshit and you and her will get along just fine. Also, don't keep trying to get back together with her, just be happy you're friends.

Dude, you don't have to break up a friendship just because you're her ex and she's seeing another dude. Sure, it might get a bit awkward, but just don't pull the macho "you fuck with her and I'll kill you" bullshit and you and her will get along just fine. Also, don't keep trying to get back together with her, just be happy you're friends.

wasnt what he was talking about...

really in my opinion you should go for it again if its been a while and youre different/her circumstances are different etc... MOST friendships cant function well if one persons thinking of dating/getting backtogether with the other anyway so asking her out this time around might not be so bad of a risk.

good luck with whichever you choose.

It's pretty much a toss-up, you know the 2 options and I'm sure deep down you know which you'd prefer and which you're gonna go with. I'm sure you've through both through and thought about the consequences of each, so just go with what you truly want. If I was you, I'd go for asking her out again every time.

You broke up last time because she was going through shit...And remained friends.

Surely this can give you some hope that if it didn't work this time around you could hang onto the friendship.

I say go for it mate...Tell her that you never stopped having feelings for her and you would like to try again seeing as things are calm for her now.

You might want to add some bullshit about having faith in your friendship remaining even if all goes tits up again or something.

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Thanks for the advice, much easier to do something when i ask here. But i still gotta think about it. Again Ty.

When you said that, I just cracked up!

I dunno why...I think it's the guinea pig thing!