So there is this girl, right?

She is two years my junior.

I've known her for over three years. We've hung out every once in awhile with friends of friends. We were never really close, just mostly casual acquaintances.

I just recently got out of a serious, three year, long-distance relationship. I mean very long-distance, one coast to the other. We only saw each other twice and spent time together for about three weeks total. But that's besides the point.

It ended badly and it was really tough for me, it was what I'd imagine divorice to be like.

But I'm over it. Back to the girl, I have interests in her aside from just fucking her. She's an extremely gorgeous individual on the inside and the out. She has her problems like everyone else. I like that though. I always seem to go after the damsels in distress, which I know could fuck me over because it did last time.

But anyway, we've been talking a lot and being really up front and honest with each other for about a month now. We both really like each other but we don't think that it's time to go out yet. But she wants to fuck the shit out of me. Now my better judgement tells me not to. I don't want to mess anything up and I want it to be meaningful when we do have sex. I could have a great selection of girls to fuck but that isn't what I'm interested in at all. I'd only fuck her and no one else as of right now. But should I?

She said that it'd make her trust me more. But from the way I was raised you have to earn the trust to get sex, not the other way around.

I feel like it could fuck things up. I feel like it could ruin us somehow. I want to spend a lot of time with this girl. Long-term is all that I want. She's telling me that it's all that she wants too. She has been in love before and it lasted a few months. I've been in love too though, and it lasted years. Maybe I just got lucky? Or is it more than that?

She has the reputation for not really being a commitment kind of girl, which might explain why we're not going out.
But I don't know that firsthand, yet. So I have to give everyone a chance.

But I'm looking for something very serious. I admire a lot of her qualities and I can see us being together for a long time and having a good time. That's pretty much what I need, right? After what I've just gone through I can't see myself expecting real love or caring out of anyone anymore for a long while.

Another issue is the age. She's two years younger than me. Now disregard any legal issues that may arise because they are not my point of interest. But her age could cause problems. She says that she's ready for something long-term, but is she really? Now to be honest she is much more mature than the other girls her age. She is much smarter and I'm thankful for that. But I don't know if she's ready for what I am.

So, considering all things. If I suppose that she isn't ready for the kind of relationship that I am then I should just fuck the shit out of her while I have the chance. Because she is extremely attractive. Almost everyone in my circle of friends has attempted to get in on her but all of them have miserably failed but me. I don't want to use her. She is the one what wants sex, not me so much. I want more but if sex is all I can get, then should I?

So in short. Should I wait or should I fuck her and hope for the best?

You need to ask this already?! :P

The fact that you even have to ask means you probably won't do it.

Come on, it's a no-brainer.

If you don't hit it, someone else will...

I just recently got out of a serious, three year, long-distance relationship. I mean very long-distance, one coast to the other. We only saw each other twice and spent time together for about three weeks total. But that's besides the point.

It ended badly and it was really tough for me, it was what I'd imagine divorice to be like.

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It's fucking mindblowingly stupid AND ignorant on so, so many levels, I just fucking love it. Thank you for this. Sincerely, thank you ever so much.

Few serious points:

If you don't fuck her soon, chance is very high that someone else will.
Fucking her might bring you closer together and reward you with the seriousness you want as many people struggle to seperate sex and love, especially younger ages.
With a lot of modern, hedonistic girls, no man really earns any right to fuck her, she'll just give it to them anyway. Get out of that mind set and enjoy yourself.

I didn't read your stupid post but, yes you should fuck her

You should have to build trust to fuck her? When does that matter, its the spur of the moment type thing. I may not trust a girl i recently met after say a month of knowing her, but we end up fucking the hell out of each other ? did we sign permission slips for each other to do so? NO!!

Respecting a girl and worrying about trust will just get you owned, my buddy found out the hard way...some girls want it, and if ur serious about the girl, dont act like a fuck and say "nah shes special i cant do it". WTF else are u there for? And assuming she doesnt have aids or any std's, use protection anyways, what do u have to fucking lose?

/Jesus christ

Go for it. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. How old are you anyways? By the way, the times i've heard people espouse how some chick is way mature for her age.... It's usually 'cuz they feel bad about fucking some easy fifteen or sixteen year old chick and are trying to make it up to themselves.

That said, I've been rebounding and fucked a good friend who was younger than I was, shit didn't end well.

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Nice..