When would you consider a girl a gold digger?

I've known this girl for about 2 weeks and we've been "going out" for a little over a week.

Any ways, she keeps asking me for cigarettes and pills, and I have no problem at all giving them to her. She's asked for money, and again, I have no problem.
So at this point, I've given her probably a carton of cigarettes, 40 or 60 Adderall, and either $40 or $60, (I can't remember shit anymore.) She said she isn't trying to be a gold digger or anything. She is still complaining about how she feels terrible about taking my money, and she wouldn't let me give her friend a pack of cigarettes when she asked. She also said she would pay me back and pay me for the pills, but I haven't seen the money yet.

Normally, I couldn't give a shit less. I am not poor, and I don't do a damn thing for the money I have, but it is still mine. But I've found out that she is giving out (she said she was selling them when I asked her about it, I don't know if it's true or not) the smokes and sharing the pills with her friends. I don't mind giving them to HER but I'm not suppling the damn school for free.

Do you think I'm getting played like a bitch or am I being paranoid? Should I talk to her about it or should I fuck her first?

Steal all the bitch's shit. If some whore had the nerve to do that shit to me, I'd tell her that she better pay up with sex.
Fuck, you've known her for two weeks? She's playing you for a fool. Tell her she better give you an orgasm for each of your cigarettes.

I'm getting played like a bitch. Should I talk to her about it or should I fuck her first?

You're already getting fucked, you just haven't realized it. Dude, she's using you to buy her things, quit letting her abuse it. Jeebus, I weep for the future if this is the youth.

smokes and adhd pills don't constitute "gold" so....no

Wait until you start fucking her before you give anything.

And keep track of how much you're giving her!

You probably shouldn't have given her as much as you did in such a short time, but at this point, the least you can do to save your own ass is to cut back on it.

All women are gold diggers to an extent. Some go a bit farther than others. Some only do it when they see an opportunity.

But once they start to get a taste of it, most will keep coming back for it. It's like that saying that money corrupts or whatever. If a woman sees a chance to extract an unlimited amount of money from someone, she will keep milking it until it's dry.

Yeah, that's what I thought.

"she will keep milking it until it's dry" If she isn't doing that by this weekend, bitch be gettin' back handed. My one friend told me that after one week, she starts fucking her boyfriends like rabbits, so that will tell if she actually likes me at all, I guess.

When girls are involved in pills/drugs just forget about them, they will fiend off you forever until you run out, then move on to someone else.

My friend was messing with this emo girl, and shed freak out everytime she came to his house and he didnt have weed.

you better tap that shit and video it for your own amusement then break it off she is playing you for a fucking fool and your falling for it

just like everything balance is key. Its not bad to help her out with shit like that everyonce and a while but you really have to draw the line after a certain point or you will get walked on. And once they realize that they can do that, they lose respect for you and the sky's pretty much the limit as to what theyll do.

put your foot down.

Heh... looks like you've got yourself a manipulative, shameless druggy

If she really felt bad about it, she wouldn't ask in the first place.

Nail on the head

waaaaaaait, steal her shit? (like from the toilet, nah jk).
just steal her money, or whatever then STICK IT IN HER POOPER

It's a shame. I mean, we had a lot in common. Stuff that I'd have to lie about to get other girls to like me. She's really damn hot, too. So I thought it was weird that she liked me. Especially since I've never had a real relationship before. I'm pretty much the complete opposite of her.

But next time she asks-
"Hey Baby... Would you mind giving me another pack? I love you."

"No, I'm sorry. I only have one pack left and I need to sell it so I can buy another carton. But maybe if you would want to do something for it?"

" :/ ... What were you thinking?"

...

I get laid, keep my stuff, and have a huge weight lifted off my shoulders.

The only thing that sucks is that a lot of people know I'm going out with her, and most of the girls at my school don't like her. Would that hurt any of the slim chance I had to get with anyone else?

She called me earlier...

Her: "Hey babe.."

Me: "What's up?"

Her: "My friend wants to buy some Adderall"

Me: "Alright cool"

Her: "Could you bring 15 tomorrow?"

Me: "Sure, that's not a problem. How much money?"

Her: "$15 for 15 pills..."

Me: "... okay"

Her: "And with that money... I'm buying make-up..."

Me: "...... Right on..."

Her: "I need to go... Peak minuets or something"

Me: "Alright"

Her: "I love you"

Me: "...I love you too"

Her: "Bye baby"
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I was wasn't happy before but that made me fucking furious. There is no way in hell that she likes me for me, right? I just want to make sure of that. Either I'm paronoid, or I'm finally understanding everything now. She's been playing me like a fool, as far as I am aware, since about Friday.

God damn... I hear girls bitching all the time about how their boyfriends treat them like shit, how they don't let them talk to other guys, how they have to spend all their time doing what their boyfriend wants to do, and if they don't, they get into an argument. I hear them bitch about how guys are jackasses and how much they hate them. I didn't understand why guys would treat their girl like that, but now I know why.
I tried to treat this girl like a fucking princess. I'd do everything, and would have done anything, I could to make her happy. She knew I would have jumped off a bridge just to make her smile. Fucking bitches...

I'm depressed now...

Get rid of her man.

okay, when you go on a date with her, bring like $20 and keep extra money in your other pocket. when she asks for money or pills be like, dam i got nothing on me but a $20. sooner or later, lets give this about a week or 2, we'll see her true colors.

I don't think she will stay with me that long.

We use to stay up all night on the phone, I mean 10 until school started. Then last night she didn't even call, and she's seemed to be less and less happy to see me. I think if I didn't have anything, she wouldn't talk to me at all.

Maybe she's on her period or something but I don't care, that's no fucking excuse.

Anyways, she knows my parents won't trust me with money anymore. (They found out I smoke weed.) So I never have more than $20, anyways. I'm going to tell her that I can't get any more smokes until I get paid back(other people owe me $, too) and I will "forget" "her" Addies tomorrow. And I'll tell her that she can stop by and pick them up, but she has to stay for a little while because my parents think I am dealing out of the house when people stop by for a minute(again, this is true.) Then I'll try to fuck her. If she doesn't, then I get her to break up with me. No one can blame me if she breaks up with me because I won't give her drugs.

how about this. for one whole weak, dont bring a lot of money, and when she asks you to buy something, just say youre out of money.

if she doesnt leave you or gets pissed, i would say shes not a gold digger.

If she does get pissed. slap and leave that bitch

Her: "$15 for 15 pills..."

Me: "... okay"

Her: "And with that money... I'm buying make-up..."

Holy fuck that is infuriating! That reminds me of this crack addicted homeless woman I had a brief thing with...

She just assumed that any money I made in front of her, or that she saw me holding was automatically hers.

Me: "...... Right on..."

And RIGHT THERE is where you messed up... You should have said something like... "With what money? Oh, my money!? From the adderall sale? Then how am I supposed to make any money to get more adderall? Let alone a small profit to keep me doing it!?"

But anyway, I can hypothesize and theorize all kinds of hypothetical responses you could have used. But the honest truth is that I probably wouldn't have said anything like it...

I have been in your situation before a few times (although not often, as it's rare that I have enough money to even speak of... :p )

But yeah, this chick is definitely a gold digger. If you aren't getting regular sex from her (and GOOD sex too, to at least make it worth it) then I would seriously ditch the bitch. Even then though, the sex would have to be absolutely AMAZING.

I tried to treat this girl like a fucking princess. I'd do everything, and would have done anything, I could to make her happy. She knew I would have jumped off a bridge just to make her smile. Fucking bitches...

Welcome to the beginning of becoming a jaded, cynical misogynist...

I didn't see her today, (thank god)

But I skipped 6th hour with a friend, and I saw this girl I thought I knew of. She asked my friend for a cigarette, and when I saw her, I handed her the rest of my pack(there were only two left and the pack was a couple weeks old.) Then we walked different ways. I asked my friend what her name was, and it was who I thought. This girl beat the shit out of my girlfriend(it feels like I'm lying typing that) three times at school. I smiled and said "Good- I'm glad I gave them to her. She deserves them. I like her!"

My friend laughed, told me that was mean, then he tells me about how she steals from his(maybe her's too, I'm not sure) friends. Now I understand why so many people hate her. Don't get me wrong, I don't have anything against stealing, but not from friends or even people who haven't done anything to me.

So, she's a liar, a thief and a slut (but not to me *angry face*)... But when I see her, I look past all that. She just has that look... It's impossible to stay mad at her when I look into her eyes. (Now) She says her obviously fake "I love you" and all I can say is "I love you, too." But at the same time, I knew from the start that it wouldn't last. And it's reassuring knowing that she won't find someone else who will take her bullshit. Not for a while anyways. But when she does, I won't be the only one who got played like a bitch by a pretty face.

It sucks, because I just got my car inspected, plated, and filled the gas tank... $100 gone just like that, and I have nothing to show for it. Not only that, but my dad found out I don't have any money, and he's given me $60 this week, and he's thinking I'm buying more weed... I wish I was a kid again. This shit's only going to get worse.

I'm sorry, this should really be in Half Baked or Bitch and Moan or whatever the hell it's called these days.

One good step there. If everyone hates her, there's 99.9% of the time a VERY good reason for that. Stay away from her, no matter what she says, or you'll be back into being screwed over again.

Get a job perhaps?

I'm going to get a job in December when I turn 16. I'll be damned to work 5 hours a week at less than minimal wage...

Anyways, she called me last night. It lasted about 1 minute, if that. All she said was to bring her the stuff on Monday.

How should I go about telling her I'm not going to play this fucking game anymore? I don't want to sound like a jerk or anything, since this is all my fault and inside I know I still have feelings for her. We only have about 1 minute between a couple classes to talk.

I was thinking- "Oh I'm sorry baby! I completely forgot!" something else, I'm not sure yet "Could you call me after school when you have a chance? I really need to talk to you."

Then when/if she calls- "Don't get me wrong, I love you and would do anything for you; you know that. Now, I'm not sure, I might be paronoid or something, but... I'm really getting the impression that you don't really like me anymore. I mean, the only time you talk to me is when you need something. I'm sorry, but that's not really the type of relationship I want." Or something like that.

Or maybe have the Addies on me, but before I give them to her- "What do I get out of this?" She'd say "What do you want?" or something like that since I have joked around and said that before when I gave her a pack but I said nothing. How should I tell her I want to fuck her without making it obvious?

My goal is to not get her to break up with me unless she really wants to. I just want her to know I'm not going to give her another damn thing for free. I want to see who she really is.

And they say guys are heartless fucks?

Fuck her, then dump her. She's probably just some whore who'll find another guy to drain money from, so what do you care?

She's a hot slut who likes a lot of the same stuff I do... That's why.

But I went to a party last night and I guess one of the girls that lived there said that I was hot to one of her friends before, and they both told me last night. The only time I saw her was when my friend was giving me a ride home and I was in the backseat behind a tinted window at night. I was only there for about 2 minutes, too. So I don't know what the hell she was basing that on. But think I could have a chance with her?

I don't understand I've always been under the impression I was an ugly fuck. Then I lost a lot of weight, then moved to a different state, and my ...soon to be ex(I think) said I'm "so fucking cute" and this other girl said I was hot. Before, girls saw me, had a gross look on their face, screamed "DAMN!" and ran away. Well, not exactly like that, but you get the point.

Well, even if she is a gold digger, I'm a sucker and can't say no to her. I'm giving her some more pills and she is getting some weed for it. She said she will smoke with me. And I'm 99% sure that I'm getting pussy.

I can't put a price on losing my virginity to someone hot that I actually love. Right now atleast. That and I have gone from smoking a quarter a day for months to not smoking at all for the last two weeks, so, it's really a win-win situation. Now, if I don't get either, I'm taking all your advice and leaving her. But she really seems cool again. Like she was when I first met her. She even said I didn't have to give the stuff to her and she didn't want me to be mad at her. She is always going on about how she doesn't want me to be mad at her and how she doesn't think I love her. Does that mean something?

God, I suck at life... :(

Fuck her, maybe that'll solve your problem

Well, tomorrow will be two weeks.

One of our friends asked her if we fucked yet, she said no, so he asked if we were going to, and she said no. She sure as hell better just be lying. She wanted to fuck me before we started dating, so I don't know if she really doesn't anymore, or just doesn't want people to know that she wants to anymore.

There really isn't a point for this thread anymore. It's pretty much just a journal now. If no one could care less, I'll let this die.

I think you are just shy of having sex and don't know how to begin or make it happen. Things don't happen unless you make it.

She was probably waiting for you to make a move, but she sees you not trying.

She probably feels bad for dating you just to get free stuff, but she wont admit it. She'll probably break up with you before you have sex, I don't think you'll break it off yourself.

If you want to turn this around quick, maybe just start touching her a lot and joking about sex.

Ask yourself, do you really like her, or do you just want to fuck her?

That makes sense... There's got to be a reason everyone calls her a whore and I haven't gotten shit. But I have only seen her outside of school twice, and once was before we started going out, the second time we were at the mall, and both times she was with her friend. So, I just don't feel right doing anything more than hugging her and holding her hand. I don't want her to think I'm only looking to get laid. Then again, I want her to know I'm willing to do more.

So, should I start kissing her and feeling her up in school? I mean, my friend grabbed my hand and made me touch her ass before. She smiled and said she it was okay. She also hit the other kid. I'm not sure if she's into that type of shit or not.

I really do like her. I don't know if I actually love her or not, even though she says she loves me and I tell her that too. But, I don't know if it's because I haven't smoked weed and pretty much lost all my... horniness(? read the end*) or if I honestly care about her enough that I don't care if I have sex with her or not.

But I've made a few jokes about sex with her before. Like-

Her: I like your dogs
Me: They like you too
Her: I can tell, the black one was up on my cooch!
Me: Haha, yeah he's lucky, I wish I was...

And some other stupid comments like that. I think she seems to like that stuff. She just acts... different. In a good way.

*I know it's probably too much information, but I use to beat off a couple times a day everyday for years, then I ran out of weed a couple weeks ago and I have only gotten hard once