I can't stand mixed signals from guys
we're cuddling one day
not talking the next
being asked out on a date one night
and not being called the next
WHAT THE HELL
I'm not prude, nor am I easy...(well I dont let on how easy I am haha)
and we get along well
and he tells me he loves being around me
and then he goes out to a movie with some co-worker
I'm not ugly but
seriously
what the hell!?
Stop fucking around and make up your mind, or I need to just move on.
Im so sick of being treated like this...

HELP

Stalk him

guys like that

*nods*

Creepy
no I'm not one for taking up stalking

it just kind of is pissing me off
and he also wont make the first move
of sort of getting fed up
damn it
I don't think most guys realize how much girls will appreciate them making the firts move,
I dont want to come off too strong like a molester
sheesh
but if he doesn't soon
I can't put up with him any longer

If you want this boy you are not even dating to only have eyes for you, we'll... he'll end up even more clingy and codependent than you are. And while it may be significant for a girl to not talk to a guy, maybe he just didn't have anything to say. Stop making this so complex.

But I almost feel sorry for him for telling you this. You two are gonna have issues already. Or you'll make them.


And if you really want anything, make the first move. Get over whatever it is tells you that you aren't allowed t, and do it.

haha u sound exactly like the one girl i was dating. Straight up confused her, cause obviously my signals were that of wanting her........but i never backed that up...soooooo SCH

Fine i'll be serious, you're acting crazy.

You want him to do things and hes not doing them, which pisses you off.

and you see him going to the movies with his co-worker, which makes you jealous.

Are you even officialy going out with him?

If not, you sound obsessed -_-

If you two aren't a couple he can go out with whoever he wants.

alright
I get what both of you are saying
and I wont come to my defence
I do sound like an over-protective bitch
but I don't act that way
I dont know
it just sucks
when I'm with him he's always saying to me "You're so fun", "I think you're beautiful...."
and all this other sort of bull shit
I'm probably just wasting my time
that's usually what happens to me
I just wish people wouldn't say shit that they don't mean
like, don't give me false hope
he's obviously not into me if he hasnt officially "asked me out" even though we've gone on dates
uhhhg

Look you're a fairly attractive girl, if thats really you in you're profile, so why are you settling down on one guy?

If you settle down on one guy, you'll get attached to him.

Go out, and meet new guys

or talk to that guy and ask him what his problem is, he sounds like hes trying to bang you and go off and do his own thing with other girls too.

if you really like him, sit him down, tell him you like him and want to be a couple, if he doesn't want to settle with you then hes not worth you're time.

Now you know how 99% of guys feel, because it is usually the girl that pulls this shit.

Thanks I guess
I think I just needed someone to tell me
to get the fuck over this
I think I need to
Im not up for this stupid cat and mouse game
it's bullshit
thankkssss
and yes that reall is me although it's from last winter and Im kind of pasty, I forgot I even had a profile pic on here, I barely post anymore.

You look fine, good luck!

Sorry if i came off as an asshole, long day today.