So girl I saw first day of school here, never met her, I see her the odd time in the halls, or the lunch room or library or whatever, caught her eye once or twice..... and I feel unexplicably attracted to her.
I don't know why, maybe it's something I've seen in her personality while she's with her friends or something, but is this natural?
I'm probably just setting myself up for heartbreak, cause she'll probably already have a bf, or just shut me down like mad, but will I really be setting myself up?
My question to you, Totse, is it really possible to have an attraction to someone before you've met them?

happens all the time. theres this chick who works at a market every sunday that i really like. i always find excuses to buy stuff from there

I don't know.

I fell in love with Nicole Richie after her heroin arrest a few years back, does that count?

yeah sure it is, it happened to me a while back. try and get her myspace or msn? see where it goes from there.

but yeah it might end up in heartbreak...

Yea done it before, started from total scratch(myspace pickup) with this girl, never even met her before, or seen her in person, and yet she worked only 2 mins down the road at the corner restaurant(never seen her there either). Somehow just looking at her pics and making mental connections to stuff made me want to talk to this girl. Decided what do i have to lose, went in and that situation was literally one of the smoothest/perfect excursions ive been on. Couldnt have asked for more.....

Might I ask how you went about doing it?

What you mean? Approach wise?

mmyesss, i would say it's a bit silly if you like reallyyyyy into her from just that, but just attraction? sure, why not!
i found myself rather attracted to a boy in my math class who i hadn't even noticed for the first week of lessons. lots of eye contact and one free period later, he came over and made friends (: now i know he likes me and i am going overrrrrrr and ladida lots of giggling school girl stuff

Yes. I have some (read one) ideas, but since yours worked, care to share?

Oh, and Iso, how did he come and make friends?
It isn't that I'm *really* into her, it's just that I notice her, even if I just catch a glimpse of her in her class or something, I know I saw her and it makes me happy.
I wouldn't particularly describe her as "hot" (although she is) but "cute" would be much more appropriate. She's just so gorgeous to look at, yesterday I was playing a game in the lunchroom with a couple of friends, and I couldn't even concentrate on it due to her sitting a table away from me.
She isn't in my program, so it would be hard to use lessons as a starter.

Yes. I have some (read one) ideas, but since yours worked, care to share?

Idk nothing special really, besides having the fact that she worked down the street from me. I think my first comment was like Hey whats up? then i said something about bothering her at work and if she could get me free food. Then from there, like a few weeks talking via myspace, changed up numbers then it was just continuing uphill with no peak in site. Phone calls every night after she got off of work, half of the calls we talked until one of us was tired of talking(usually me) even on weekends she call or text. All i can say looking at the situation as a whole was ridiculous. My conscious sort of got a hold of me midway and i just eventually took off all my game and such and she lost interest(wouldnt blame her after several dates and me not making a move). Short answer was i wasnt really looking for a lock and she was. Like during our 2nd date, i realized that this girl just submitted to me, then thats when im like psscch wheres the challenge at?

Idk what i was thinking i shouldve taken it to the next level...cant really come up with a legit excuse to cover my ass to make myself not look like a dousche on the whole ordeal. On a serious point i was just looking to see if a myspace pickup could be accomplished and to see if my game was tuned up enough. On the other hand, i gave up a seriously legit girl because of my need for greed.

we were sitting with our seperate friends in a block at college. kept looking over, then i rolled a cigarette and went outside to smoke it and he followed with one too. i slowed down walking a bit and he caught up and was like "ladida you're aimée from math, yeh? been meaning to catch you on your own since the first lesson" and we had a chat over a few smokes and then onn.
get her when she's on her own, like soon after you've seen her around school or something so you're still fresh in her head as someone she recognises.

that happened to me back in HS, it was an average looking girl nothing great about her but once I got to know her she was a complete nut-job in conclusion...proceed with extreme caution

I like people I dont know too well. The post lady, the vet, the woman in the pharmacy who sells me my kandy, and so on.
Or is that not the 'like' you mean?

So I had this attraction to a girl without meeting her..

..is this possible

joking aside.. hells yeah.

..its probably her fitting a mold that you developed internally, causing a reaction. some of us more hopeful/stupid/lovey dovey romantic types might like to attribute this shiz to something metaphysical.