I like one of my close friends at college, and like I explained in my last posts I think he likes me back. When we are one on one, there's a definite connection, but it's a little more undercover when we are with our other friends. I don't know if it's just because Halo 3 came out or what, but it's not really shown out in the open while we hang out with our other guy friends. But today, while I was walking back to my dorm from class he passed me, and there was just alot of smiling and talking. So I just want to know how I can make it a little more obvious that I like him back because, as you probably remember from my last post, I can flirt with guys that don't mean much but when they start meaning something to me I can't do it.

So, suggestions would be helpful. Thank you Totse.

Insert your finger into his butthole.

If they arent stupid they should be able to tell from one anothers Actions. The out of the ordinary actions will stand out........."ACTIONS"

II don't know if it's just because Halo 3 came out or what, . Lulz....

I had the same problem. Take him by the hand when your alone with him and get nice and drunk together just one on one. Make sure you drink most of the liquor so he's not so drunk. Then you kiss him out of nowhere when he does something you find "cute" or "hot" about him.

The kiss must be done overwhelmingly rough so he never ever forgets it. Loop your tounge around his and breathe hard, jump on him and don't let go.

He'll fall for you.

Wait a minute....Op is a man?????

Um...I'm out.

LOL!!!!!!!!!

yeah you should always specify if you're gay or not because i really thought the OP was a girl at first, too. But then again, i also thought to myself "well this is totse there's a lot of gay people" but it still confuses a lot of people.

To the OP, do u even know if the dude is gay?

ya i knew it was a guy....i mean how many girls use totse?? wow that might b hot if they do
anyway....umm if your friend is not gay or bi...i'd say dont do nething cuz if he finds out ur gay he might stop chillin wit you

anyway...that type of convo is waaayyyy out of my league
if it was a girl ppl will give u more advice (unless they're 14yr old shitheads who have no life other than totse)

There's actually quite a few girls on totse, but yeah I see your point, not a great ratio, totse is largely a sausage fest.

To OP, I'd make sure he swings your way first before going out on such a limb as Terror Alert is suggesting, I know if a guy tried to kiss me I'd be pretty angry, and creeped out.

I'm still not sure as to whether the OP is a guy or not... He/she has still not claimed male/female status.
Either way, though, as has been said before, it's not about the words said, but rather, how they are said, and the accompanying body language. Tone and gesture mean everything.

"Dude, funny story...I wanna give you my snake-like monument to manhood...You in?"

This threads gay....

Room for one more?

=x

Tell him you want to pursue a sexual relationship with him. Just blurt it out and see how he reacts.

Jesus fucking christ every time I post something I have to clarify that I am a girl. A GIRL

Sirlicksalot alot of people just cannot grasp the concept that females have a love of Halo too. It's a sick sad world we live in, but one we're stuck with.


Try to get to know him better, hang out more, see for deffinate if your beleif that he likes you is infact correct. See if you really like him as much as you feel.

Oh yeah, ok SIRLICKSALOT. Real obvious that one. You do know that you have the username every 12 year old male nerd wants? And your ambiguousness? Real helper too.

But yeah, if you've given him all the signals, been sensual without being overt, given him those bedroom eyes, have hung around him a while and he still is clearly not responding then I would just tell him straight out and as up front as possible. But be sweet and sexy of course.

Good luck!

LOL. Naturally we're going to assume you're male, look around you, this place isn't exactly a 1:1 gender ratio. sirlicksalot is another thing working against you. As was how you said: while we hang out with our other guy friends.