for all you guys out there that worry if you 'size up' or if you really will be able to please a woman sexually, i'll tell you it is all about turning her on before you even touch her. granted, to be able to do that takes confidence, but i think if you realize size doesnt matter and that you have what it takes can really boost a guy's confidence.

example: two nights ago i spent almost 9 hours straight (1 hour of napping and 1/2 bubble bath in the middle) of absolutly amazing sex. the guy i was with was nearly twice my age, a little heavy set, hairy, and had a 5 1/2 inch penis. i dont even know how many times i orgasmed. and i am going to keep cumming (haha) back for more.

what made it so amazing isn't that we are 'soulmates' or even really good friends; he knew one simple fact: sex isn't all about just getting in and out as soon as you can. he knows sex isnt all about the orgasm. if you do it right, the whole thing is fucking amazing [and (at least for women) orgasms can lead into one after the other].

i think a lot of guys dont realize the power of sensuality...not just 'wining and dining'...but caressing a girl and trying to connect on a different level than just 'i was to put my dick in you'. granted, you usually have to have personalities that 'mesh' well, but i believe that if you really give someone a chance you may find that you can do this with a lot of people.

but when you are speaking to a woman, especially if the topic of sex comes up, just confidently say that you know how to please a woman. don't be a douche saying 'oh yeah baby i can fuck you all day and night blah blah blah'...just state it like it is the truth. tell her what you would do to her if you had her in your bed for a whole night. tell her that after she was exhausted and had to take a nap she would wake up to you kissing her neck and getting her ready for another go.

if you are worried that you still cant please a woman all night...do your homework to prepare for the test! start masturbating with the intent of prolonging your orgams, dont just jerk as fast as you can and force a nut to bust. if you learn to control yourself it will make for much better time with a partner.

just realize there is a fine line between confidence and cockiness...learn the difference. girls tend to like confidence in guys, infact it can often be one of the things that females see as the difference between 'boys and men'


i know there are a lot of you out there that think this is a load of shit, but try it out. try it especially if you already have a girlfriend or 'friend'...it really can make for a wonderful, amazing night...or hopefully nights ;)

just my once in a blue moon ramble, i really hope that some you put this mindset to good use. and sorry if i have a bunch of mistakes or am not being clear, its 3:30 and im sleepy :)

The mind being the most powerful sex organ explains all the casual sex on college campuses. Power corrupts.

the guy i was with was nearly twice my age, a little heavy set, hairy, and had a 5 1/2 inch penis.
I don't remember a thing. I'm sorry, I must've been drunk. :(


:p

Thanks Oral Fixation. Im sure most of us guys will keep that in mind

no, that's just alcohol. most people on college campuses (perhaps exculding 'very good' schools) are complete fucking morons. everyone goes to college these days, even the dumb. and of the dumb people most of the women are education majors...i weep for the the next few generations...

I make my girl cum, but not because Im any good in bed. Shes is just so into me, shes always ready, just a little kissing and she is creamin her jeans. Go me!

plus one

I agree/nice read. My gf is always telling me how I do things to her, and don't even seem to notice. Like the way I'll touch her, or hold her. She talks about how she gets shivers down her spine, or shivers all across her body when I touch her. It's nothing I'm doing intentionally, but I just really love being around and with her, and I suppose it shows it more ways than one. When we do eventually have sex, I hope that it's more than the same old cum and go. Only time...
But again, good read.

My boyfriend really should read this... Lol =P

tl/dr

I did imagine a penis shaped brain though.

Hahaha, you're going to just rely on that?

wow, you've changed a lot in the past year or so.

Hahaha, you're going to just rely on that?

No, its easy right now though. Ill have to work at it in a few weeks. : (

Five and a half inches is hardly miniscule, do you have some sort of grand canyon vagina or something?

Curb your enthusiasm

BIIIIG vagina

Holy shit....


Oral Fixation are you serious???


What happened to your husband? lol. Damn I KNEW he just didnt have the love, sensuality, or effort to please you right. Im so glad that youve started orgasming and having awesome sex. GO YOU! I'm a dude and all but damn I feel glad for you. Good thing you dumped that loser.

xilikeeggsx:
how have i changed? i know i have, but i don't see it reflecting in what i write here...im just curious :)

rabbitweed:
haha, no, trust me it more than filled me up...just a lot of guys here seem to be embarassed if they aren't at least 6. and even when they are 6 they seem to be 'ah, well, i guess im ok'....i am just trying to get the point across that it really isn't all about having a 9 inch penis.

truthwielder:
he WAS NOT my husband, i am 19 and not thinking about marriage anytime soon. and yes, he and i really were not a good match.

just realize there is a fine line between confidence and cockiness...learn the difference. girls tend to like confidence in guys, infact it can often be one of the things that females see as the difference between 'boys and men'


...+1

xilikeeggsx:
how have i changed? i know i have, but i don't see it reflecting in what i write here...im just curious :)

i remember when you used to talk about how you couldn't picture yourself with anyone but the guy you were with at the time and how you could never have sex with anyone you weren't in love with/in a relationship with.

unless i'm confusing you with someone else, but i'm 99% sure i'm not.

well xilikeeggs0, i guess you are right! and now i realize what being young and stupid is. youth is annoying, we think we know everything and once we realize how much we don't konw it just makes life all that more daunting.

What if mine's only 3 1/2 inches?

Please insert penis into vacuum cleaner. Hey presto, you've tripled its length :D.


Yes i completely agree with the OP and it's good to see SOMEONE is getting good sex at least. Girls my age just don't seem to know what they want, most of them have never even fingered themselves. It's truly exasperating.