allright long story short my gf and i had a baby almost 9 months ago after we had thr baby we waited the standard 6 weeks ( which seemed like forever because we had sex 3 or 4 times a day before and during the pregnancy) after the 6 weeks she was supposed to be healed... never happened like i said still isnt better so about 6 weeks ago shes goes to the doctor and finds out she has a cut... the doc gives her some cream to put on it (its near the outside but small enough to not be visible i guess) anyway the cream was supposed to have worked by now and it didnt so shes gonna go back

anyways i dont really have anyone i feel comfortable telling this to who wont judge her you know so anyone heard of anything like this or anyone been through what were going through?? its so frustrating sleeping next to her every night without the sex and i cant get her off because of the cut and because shes so tense and pissed about this and she doesnt ever fell like doing shit for me because she cant get any in return ( i understand completely btw) anyway it feels good to get it off my chest any advice or anything at all would make me feel better

I'm happy I get to be the first one in on this thread.

Anal!

I had the same problem after I had my baby. It took MONTHS before I was healed and sex was at all enjoyable. My advice to you is just make out with her and stuff. Do it without the expectation of having sex and don't pressure her. She probably feels upset and scared about this and you acting all deprived is only going to make it worse. How old is she, BTW? I'm assuming she's an adult since you live together?

shes 19