And no, this isn't about my girlfriend. At least not entirely. It's about me.

Her moods almost directly influence mine, and Im getting sick of it. Not because of her, but of my own damn self. Fuck, Im only 19, we've been going out for only 7 months, we aren't fucking married. Yet everything she does influences me.
I barely see her. Mainly because of our jobs, we usually just see each other a few times a day. 2-3, tops.
We rarely have alone, private time.
And things at her house aren't all too good, so that doesn't help.
I'm just fucking tired of my way of doing things, being so fucking clingy. I mean, I've canceled so many parties just to see her for a few hours. I'm not complaining, I love spending time with her, but I think I'm just being dumb.

I think its time to reevaluate my way of thinking and of making decisions. Fuck, I feel like I'm indirectly being manipulated...

Gah, anyone ever felt like this?

you are being controlled.

Gah, anyone ever felt like this?

Indeed. Schedule something with her? See if you two can have a dedicated time to be with each other. That way she won't have to worry about smothering her and you won't have to worry about her getting in the way of party time :)

-F☺rd

Hard to schedule anything.
Hell, today we were going to get together after I got out of work, you know, for a little bit. 2-3 hours. I'm there, waiting and she sends me an sms telling me that to forgive her, but she cant make it. That she'll explain when we see each other.

We're going to try and get together this Saturday and have a whole day for us.

Ask her to move in with you. :)

-F☺rd

Ask her to move in with you. :)

-F☺rd

To be honest, with myself and everyone else, I'm scared. I'm scared that she might be different when we're together more time. I'm scared of having a big fight because of it. I think I'll wait a bit for that....

To be honest, with myself and everyone else, I'm scared. I'm scared that she might be different when we're together more time. I'm scared of having a big fight because of it. I think I'll wait a bit for that....

Don't ask her in a serious way. Joke about it. Offer it as a suggestion, not a question. If she's not ready she'd laugh it off and if she is, she'd take you up on it.

You both work a lot, no? Would you really see her that much more if you both slept under the same roof?

-F☺rd

Don't ask her in a serious way. Joke about it. Offer it as a suggestion, not a question. If she's not ready she'd laugh it off and if she is, she'd take you up on it.

You both work a lot, no? Would you really see her that much more if you both slept under the same roof?

-F☺rd

Yeah. I guess you're right. Won't hurt to just play around.

And yeah, we wouldn't see each other THAT much more and we'd sleep together. *sigh*

Idk man, it doesn't sound bad at all...

Yeah. I guess you're right. Won't hurt to just play around.

And yeah, we wouldn't see each other THAT much more and we'd sleep together. *sigh*

Idk man, it doesn't sound bad at all...

HELL no, it doesn't. :D Get a place where you both can have a bit of space though if it's within your budget.

I would have loved to have lived with my last girlfriend. She moved for the summer and was going to come back and live with me. She couldn't move back though. :(

-F☺rd

Ill talk it out with her when we see each other. :)

Thanks. I guess all I needed was a bit of reassurance.

And sorry to hear about your girl, man. :(

Don't beat yourself up about it if she says no. Keep the whole conversation light-hearted, don't have an agenda or anything. Just see if you can convey that you'd totally want to live with her. ;)

Not that she'd actually say no though. :)


Eh, it's cool. They'll be others, I guess

-F☺rd

To be honest, with myself and everyone else, I'm scared. I'm scared that she might be different when we're together more time. I'm scared of having a big fight because of it. I think I'll wait a bit for that....

But then you can have make-up sex.

Saying "I have mood swings" is like saying "I have no self control".

It's just a nice way of saying it.