OK so theres this girl ive been talking to. Shes pretty good cute and we used to hang out at school a year or two and she started talking to me again recently. And well last night we were talking about random stuff and I asked about sex stuff since thats all that was coming to mind. I figured she was a virgin but when she told me shes never had an orgasm, never had anyone touch her special place, hell never even played with it herself I didn't know what the fuck to say. She doesn't belive in sex before marraige either so yea. The question is how to I go about convincing her to let me play with her? Im not looking to be the asshole that fucks her and leaves no I don't care about sex with her although that would be nice im just looking to get her to let me play with it and show her WHY its so fun. Because i used to be the same way back in the day before i had sex"ehh fuck it ive not had sex yet who cares don't need it probably not that great" then my thoughts after wards"dude wtf was wrong with me this shit is bomb i need more". I just have to show her the light. But im not quite sure how to go about it obviously I need to take it slow and just work my way up but I haven't exactly had to go about this. My last ex was the same way sort of except she hadn't done anything because I was her first BF not because of moral issues so she was more then willing to try new things. Any one that has tips on how to show this poor hot young girl the light would be appreciated.

Eh, I wouldn't bother. Seems like a grand old waste of time to me. Then again, I don't have much tolerance or patience for immaturity.

I do have the patience because I mean its not like shes the only girl ive got my eyes on so if my time and patience doesn't work yea its not a complete waste.

This is tricky, she will most likely outright refuse if you bring it up in a conversation. Your best vet would be to get to know her better and have her over to watch movies every now and again. Build up trust between each other. Then go for a kiss, see what that leads to. Be assertive yes, but DON'T force her or it'll never happen.

Rope. A nondescript van. Secluded spot.

Chicks dig the romance.

Or you could just, you know, respect the fact that she's not reached the point in her life where she wants to knock boots like a GI on leave. Short of just being friendly with her and letting her work up to it in her own way I can't see you doing anything to change her mind anyway.

Dude, just let her believe what she believes. This is most likely going to back fire. She's going to think your an asshole or feel guilty and blame you. Just let her have her believes. If you can't live with that find someone else.

Im not trying to change her belives on sex. Im just trying to show her that theres other fun things aside from sex. She says shes just not interested but thats probably because shes never ever tried to play with it. Im thinking getting her trust up, us hanging out once we start making out a few times start getting bolder and working my magic I mean once I get towards a girls thighs usually they tend to just go with the flow. Im just looking for pointers incase anyone else has been in the position. I mean its not that I wanta try to fuck her or get her to suck me off I just like the idea of the challenge of showing her how great an orgasm feels or at least touching it feels. Shes never touched it and shes like 17 i think its because shes had a sheltered family from what I can see.

To be frank there ain't much you can do til she's discovered some 'feeling' down there for herself. I don't mean full masturbation but a felt a 'tingle'. ...a reason to rub..that kinda thang.

People awaken sexually in different ways and at different times. You could make a game out of it. Get into a heated debate with her about it and bet her that if she tries rubbing there every night before she falls asleep...? (obviously with the 'rule' that she needs to rub in a way that at least feels not bad and if she finds a sensation that she follows it)

RAPE!


Well if you get her really horny she might let you.