Aright so about a week ago at a barnes and noble, me and a friend of mine (were both 16) meet these girls. There were like 8, but only two were interested in us, more me than my friend. So we leave that night, he gets once girls number (jamie) , i dont bother asking because i really didnt care about these girls.

Anyway i got home and they all found my dA, and were commenting everything and sayign they wanted to hang out, i wind up getting close with the girl whos # my friend got, and than we started talking, and not going out but being close (which is lame).

So my friend gets pissed, that i "stole" her from him, but she didnt like him from the start (not to many girls do, he comes on as too outgoing). Also, let me mention that i am not physicly attracted to this girl, shes not that good looking. Shes just cool in some ways.

Today were hanging out and we walk to her school and theres a girls volleyball game, and she knows most of the girls. One girl comes up to her and starts talking and than introduces herself to me. Than she starts whispering in Jamie (the girl i was with) ear. I didnt care to know what it was, but was than told later today.

Looking at this girl, she was much better looking and just as if not cooler than Jamie. So i dont say anything, and i start walking home and Jamie gets picked up.

She than texts me saying "Gina wants to hook up with you, dont do it". THis is what caused me to post this thread. I realy like this other girl, but i think that Jamie and her are friends. ALso i think they have similar friends. So, i dont want to be with Jamie anymore, and want to get with this other girl, so Totse, please give me some ideas.

First, I thought you said the girls you met were 8 years old.

Second, fuck them both. Duh...get with the one you want to leave and then go pursue whatever sort of relationship you want with the other. Don't try and be a coniving bitch about it...just do it.

Haha yeah I thought you said they were 8 years old also for a minute, had to re-read.

Uh, well I'd ask why she doesn't want you to hook up with Gina? On the bright side, you could explain to your mate that you were only using Jamie as a spring board to her hot mate, which if you did end up hookin up with Gina would be somewhat true.

If you want Gina, just play it cool with Jamie, don't be nasty to her, if you end up pursuing Gina then Jamie has no reason to get shitty at you, just try to put it across that you'd rather be mates?

Keep it macking my man.

see thing is, Jamie think i like her so i suck at telling people "Uh yeah i dont really like you" And i esp cant do this because i may have been a "drunk dialer" and called her and told her i liked her.

Are you willing to possibly sacrifice a friendship (and that is all it's ever going to be. You're not attracted to her.) for a hookup?

I say go for it.

-F☺rd

Edit: Why the fuck would you tell Jamie you liked her if you don't? That's just cruel...