We've been going out for 4-5 months but all that we've done is felt eachother up... finger, hj, etc. She hasn't even made out with any other guy before and isn't a very outgoing girl when it comes to sexual things we do until I do it first. The only thing she'll do without me mentioning anything is dry hump the shit out of me, and any guy knows that really isn't fun when she's crushing your stuff. Eventually she'd probably try to give me head, but that will probably take a long time for her to build the courage to even mention that, so I would like to. I'd go down on her, but she's extremely self concious about her legs and butt, so getting her pants off is not as easy as mine are. Any suggestions? I dont want to make her feel used, but I think she's just too shy to do anything assertively. She may really want to do more with me but is just too shy or scared that she's not good at it.

While making out with her, just kiss your way down her body while unbuttoning her pants..she WILL let you

And if she doesn't or she gets all nervous, say "Woman, if you don't like it I'll stop but give me a chance to show you what it's like."

I'm sure once you've given her the tongue twist, she'll be wanting it all the time man!

And if she doesn't or she gets all nervous, say "Woman, if you don't like it I'll stop but give me a chance to show you what it's like."

I'm sure once you've given her the tongue twist, she'll be wanting it all the time man!

Have the lights off too..
might help.

If she gets nervous, talk to her. Otherwise, you're just not pushing her as far as she's willing to go. A girl isn't gonna lead you unless you're a lot more fucked up than she is or your leading down a road that leads to you not being the one wearing the pants anymore.

Oh yeah! Social Psychology says: girls are more physically oriented in their expression (body language and such). It's easier to just do something at the right pace than talk to someone about it--that can make for awkward conversation.

Just lead up to it and work your way on down... and if she asks what your doing then put a hint out there for her. If she starts getting self conscious say something to shut her up, like psycho_8b said.

Also, be sure to reassure her that you don't mind her legs or buttocks one bit, infact, that you love them - you think they're the most gorgeous ham thighs you've ever seen.

...Don't call them ham thighs.

grow some balls

Umm... put your cock in her mouth.

Like, she's sitting watching TV or something, just walk up to her and put your cock in her mouth.

Hmm... I love that I can do that. :D

Actually, don't even mention about her legs/ass. If you tell her you love and all of that crap, she won't believe you. Just go down, and GET naked together.

Don't forget to pop your condom out and put it on, that will get the message across.

Update on the situation...
The past few times I was with her she has come extremely close. To the point where it seems like she's just being a tease, it's getting annoying. I know that's not something she would intentionally do, but if it were any other girl, I wouldn't doubt the possibility of her just messing with me. She's gotten to the point where she's pulling down my pants as far as they'll go without exposing my penis, and kisses/licks the area. What's up? She might be waiting for an affirmative "Yes, suck my penis", but I'm not going to say that. I've tried indirectly pushing her head further down and holding it at the spot she's kissing but that doesn't work either. I've done all I could with facial expressions and sounds. She's openly asked me is there anything she wants me to do, but I tell her to do whatever she wants, in a suggestive way, and she still hasn't done it. Advice? I highly respect this girl and don't want to make her feel like I'm rushing things.

that was your chance...when she asks something like that you say "well yes there is something you could do...but only if you're comfortable" etc

lol, pussy

I'm not a pussy, I just respect decent women and don't pressure them or make them feel obligated to suck my cock. Based on your judgement, I suggest you do the same.

She wants to suck your dick, just say something like "some head would be nice" while shes jerking you off. Try eating her out?

Well heres how it should go down....
Her: "what do you want me to do?"

you:"well umm..."

her: "what is it"

you: "id like you to lick my ass..."

her "ok slurp slurp"

you: "yea bitch lick my ass".


or you could just get her really in the mood by kissing touching whatever then take it from there, just depends if you want your ass licked or not i guess..

Her: "what do you want me to do?"

you:"well umm..."

her: "what is it"

you: "id like you to lick my ass..."

her "ok slurp slurp"

you: "yea bitch lick my ass".



Shakespeare

I'm not a pussy, I just respect decent women and don't pressure them or make them feel obligated to suck my cock. Based on your judgment, I suggest you do the same.

Dude you are a pussy. Asking a chick to give you head IS respectful. Its called "communication" or "honesty."

I've tried indirectly pushing her head further down and holding it at the spot she's kissing but that doesn't work either.

That is way more creepy than just asking for a blowjob. Creepy and disrespectful.

EDIT: Oh and if you break up with that chick she will give head to the next guy she likes that is MAN enough to ask for it.

Fortune favors the brave. Pussy.

: Wipes Tear's from eyes :



Thats soo beautiful man

Fucking LOL.

when a girl is jerking me, she'll either know to go down on me or i'd just say something along the lines of "wanna suck on it" and usually it happens, hassnt really failed for me...

but be sure you're both really into it.

hawt.

op, don't do this... yet.