I got this problem. I'll start at the beginning. So a few years back I was dating this awesome girl we'll call her girl A, Pretty hot, down to earth and actually nice. And one day she just quite talking to me and it was towards the end of the relationship so I just said fuck it and let her go. So for a year I fucked around with a few different girls and dated a few different girls but they were all fucking nuts drama queens.

So after that year of hunting around for different girls I finally got sick of there drama and games and started thinking about girl A again so one day I just called her up out of the blue and started talking to her. She said she missed me and all this shit and I know she didn't see anyone else in that time so i said we should do something sometime.

So we started hanging out again but we didn't make it official that we were dating. Although we basically were it was basically a "no strings" relationship even though i wanted more but she said she didn't want a relationship. So that lasted for a few months and all was going good and then out of the blue she just quite talking to me again. And I really want to make this work so this time i kept after her. the seeing each other and then not talking to me has been going on for about 6 months now. I see her maybe once every month. And when she quites talking to me I get lonely and depressed and then right about the time i've gotten over her bam she wants to do something. And the cycle just repeats.

So anyways today i'm sitting at home and I haven't seen or heard from her in 2 months and i'm over her and i've been getting out and looking for a new fling lately. And i get a text from her asking what i'm doing and then we go out and do something. I just got home and now i'm sitting here thinking about her again. What the fucks her deal? I don't get it i mean is she just toying with me or what i'm getting so frustrated from this i'm about ready to freak out. Because now i know whats going to happen, we'll go do something next week like we have planned and then after that it'll be the same old thing in a month when i'm over her there will be that phone call.

What should I do? I care about her too much to just blow her off but yet I can't keep going through all of this. Advice?

Pick up the phone and tell her exactly how you feel about her.

I'm such an idiot for thinking that I would be able to be the first to say this.

Oh, and ask her what's up with the on again off again stuff. There's got to be a reason for that, don't let her dance around the issue.

i've told her so many times before. And she's told me she love's me and i believe her i just don't understand why she keeps doing this. and i know she's not seeing anyone else. Also after i typed this all out i remembered to that every relationship she's ever been in was very bad with abusive boyfriends. one of them put her head through the side window of his truck and they were all like that. but me on the other hand i'm a very nice carring mellow guy towards her. she's seen me get into numerous fights (a few with ex's of hers) but i've always been good to her so whats the deal?

I'm such an idiot for thinking that I would be able to be the first to say this.

Oh, and ask her what's up with the on again off again stuff. There's got to be a reason for that, don't let her dance around the issue.

she just says she was busy with work and stuff

Cleanse your thoughts of her. Make yourself hate her. When she comes around again, use her for her body. Stick it in her backside, and if she comes back she either really loves you or is just a kinky slut. That's pure Science.

i can't do that i care about her too much and i'd like to make something out of this because she's the only girl i've ever dated that didn't use me or take advantage of me one way or the other. she's one of those girls thats rare to find, one of the one's that doesn't play games... well except for whats going on right now but i haven't figured out if its a game yet or not.

Say you're busy too...Keep away from her man.

Let's look at the facts:

1. She doesn't want a relationship but you do.
2. She will get you high and leave you dry. Regularly.
3. You keep making such progress in moving on but you keep going back with her.

Dude...Look at the facts...This ain't no good for you...She wants nothing like a relationship but won't hesitate to call you when she's bored and wants somone to hang about with. She is probably aware that she is doing it, which is why she keeps blanking you afterwards until she's bored enough to call you.

Dude...Think of all the progress you make between those times and how much more you could make if you just cut her out.

Next time just say no thanks and go find something else to do. It's for the better in the long run mate.

Quit putting her on a pedestal.

She's already failed by telling you she loves you and then she goes and does all this. One of these days you'll find out she's either not that rare of a find, or she has a fatal flaw and is probably carrying around baggage from past relationships, and projecting it onto others. She may be toying with you without knowing it.

Either fuck her senseless the next time you meet her and go from there, or do it and then lose interest. Or lose interest completely, whatever. See how she likes it for a change.

thanks guys, I now know what i'm going to do. i'm going to go out with her on tuesday as planned then at the end of the night i'm just going to flat out tell her i either need more from her or i'm moving on and if i move on i can't see her anymore at all.

Nice decision. Good luck.

Tell her to take it in the ass if she really loves you. If she doesnt like you, tell her she has to suck your dick.

When shes sucking you off, and this is very important. You have to be really quick. When her mouth is around your tiny cock, use your hands and snap her jaw(this will prevent her from biting off your 12 year old limp dick. Then using both hands, put them around her head. Ram your cock down her throat as far as you can go. Keep on ramming. Make her choke on it until she dies. Luckily for you, she will pass out around the minute mark which should be enough time seeing as your a 2 minute boy. Cum...or wait....your balls havnt dropped yet. You cant. Hmm...spit on her dead corpse. Rape it for that extra minute you have. Post vid on youtube and put the link in this thread. Then do a live suicide you pussyass bitch faggot queer tree humping hippy.

wtf's your deal dude?

This thread makes me sentimental.

I would recommend not dating her again. But hey, like every other answer you can get that doesn't build off the others, that's a subjective opinion. As life occurs to you, you'll learn to figure shit out by yourself.

Nice one. Be hard and unforgiving.

She's a succubus!