Basically this really cute girl i met is very self conscious about her looks. We started going out and its been like 5-6 months. She has small breasts (not anywhere near a flat chested girl but smaller than average) and she recently told me that she always thinks about it and how she wants plastic surgery when she gets enough money (freshman in college, 18 yrs old).

I really like her the way she is. She won't let me see her naked because she feels too "self conscious", and I really don't know what to say... I'm not the type of guy who would encourage a breast augmentation.. I mean she is my gf and I am the only guy that is going to see her naked anyway. She just wants to make herself feel better. I think it had something to do with clothes not fitting because she has nice big thighs and usually those dresses accommodate for bigger breast size as well.

so totse.. I really don't know what to say or do? I like small breasts just fine.. and I'm not in this relationship for that aspect anyway.

Should i just make her feel comfortable and less self conscious and try to get her to be open to me, or should i just move on..

(I really love this girl, everything I could ask for)

She will always be self conscious. However it is almost definite that if you make her feel desired and attractive that she will open up and become more comfortable letting you see her body. You'll never totally change the way she feels about herself but you can make it alot better. So just compliment her loads and be careful not to make any comments she may misinterpret and good luck.

As you go through life you will realise that 99.99999 recurring % of all women have 'issues' with their appearance.

Women ARE genetically incapable of looking in a mirror and seeing the truth. Something about reflections is just too much for their little brains to cope with.

Its your job , if you love her, to make her KNOW she is the most desirable women on God's good Earth.

Let your eyes be her mirror.

http://www.theherbdoc.com/products/Comparisons/Cleavage6Bloussant.jpg

Give her these. And close your eyes whenever you have sex. Guaranteed confidence-boosters.

Yeah, I have trouble spelling conscious too. Actually, that right there was the first time I've spelled it right on the first try.

Mine was the same way. I literally had to undress her myself on our first time, you just have to ease her into it. Show her yours, talk dirty to her. Make her feel comfortable about it. Rip her clothes off her and pounce on her.

Don't try to compliment her with "I think you're beautiful the way you are"...That's not gonna work.

Try the dirty talk like Hoboh said.

Like when she walks into the room or something, put your arms around her and tell her something like "Baby, I can't wait to get under them covers tonight...I'm gonna be doing all sorts of terrible shit to that hot body of yours...We'll be screaming all night, beautiful!" But you gotta say it with a filthy look in your eyes...Like you wanna fucking rip her clothes off right there.

It works.

I think all you really can do is wait for her to possibly grow out of it. No amount of compliments or dirty talk can really change how she feels about herself. It might help a bit, but not much. I can't condone breast implants (gross gross GROSS) but if she's dead set on it, and she's doing it for herself, then all you can do is be supportive. You can, of course, disagree with her decision, but always be supportive. Girls are fragile, even the ones that pretend they're not. What jack says is true. (Did I just say that? )

All girls are. I know some chicks who have a little chubby stomach and they freak out claiming they are fat and ugly and how men have it so easy. I get pissed off because they fucking weigh 100-120 pounds and are no where near getting fat. Its bullshit. Women cant accept that they arent perfect. ZOMG a pimple! Im ugly. Oh no, 1 mm leg hair! Gross! Fuck off already.

Why cant women use logic?! WHY?!

Why do they have to be inferior?

Lifes mysteries.