Well these seeds, will grow any-way
but the outcome, we cannot say.


What do you do when you love someone, and you have already made your love clear, but she is putting up her wall.

I am trying to talk to this girl, and i make her laugh, but when we aren't talking face to face, she pulls bitch.

Could it be that she loves me, I really doubt this, cuz we are cool when we hang out, but when we talk on msn, she shafts me hard.

I dont know what to do. We bullshit on msn, but it seems shes uninterested, but at the same time, she talks all the time, and seems to have something that she is shy about.

I have tried talking to her. one on one, and she builds her wall higher. She never wants to talk real with me ( maybe she doesnt like me at all, but is trying to be polite. ? )

It is quite obvious that she isnt crazy about me, but how can one tell if he has a chance?

women love confidence, and that may be whats fucking me up. I tell her whats up, and she seems to give replies, that are not typical, of someone who likes someone.

basically totse, i am asking what i have to do to gain her friendship/respect.
she is much better looking then me, and she prolly knows it.

anyway, any help i greatly appreciated... i am thinkin of giving up, on dating her. but at the same time, i know that ppl who give up never get who they want......

i am torn between being completely real with her. and weather i should be more honest.

I have not told her the true feelings i have for her, but she seems so cold, being fucked over by her 'hot' bf's from b4.


I dont know how to reach her really. I am playing the friend, but she knows i like her , and she isnt biting. basically.

any help is greatly appreciated.

(BTW- this girl is my age, but way better looking then me. I have some acne, and she is way outta my league. )

Tell her about this great girl you met and how well things seem to be going between you guys...Play the jealousy card.

Or if you just want her friendship and respect, that takes some time dude...Just keep talking to her...It'll bloom sooner or later.

Do it like this:
Tell her about this great girl you met, and how you feel about her, and how cool she is (keep in mind your telling her about HERSELF but just PRETEND its another girl) If she gets all jealous and asks who it is, be all "it's you" and shit.

do this, but dont tell her its her. just keep goin on with the story, and to help out your story, actually go out and meet a great girl whos really cool, and then get laid. the other girl will be so jealous, shell have to have sex with you.

I disagree with this so much.

When I was in my "romantic comedy plans work" phase years ago...Shit...I can't count how many times it worked as well as a chocolate teapot!

do this, but dont tell her its her. just keep goin on with the story, and to help out your story, actually go out and meet a great girl whos really cool, and then get laid. the other girl will be so jealous, shell have to have sex with you.

This.

thanks for your replies. I am not doing to bad talking to her, but she still seems so cold. I think her ex-bfs are treating her like shit, and she seems to take it to heart.

lately shes been giving me these eyes, that can only convey one message.

either she wants me, but is scared of what her friends might think, or she is just teasing.

psycho_8b i appreciate your comment. ( the second part)


basically, that what I've been doing. Im not trying to fuck her, i want to build a relationship. ( i would love to have her, but ... hey.. that takes time.)

im sure she would fuck me, but i dont want to pussy foot around, i am impatient. I need more patience damnit.
I am sick of fucking around with girls for a night, i am looking for more.

"
Tell her about this great girl you met and how well things seem to be going between you guys...Play the jealousy card.

Or if you just want her friendship and respect, that takes some time dude...Just keep talking to her...It'll bloom sooner or later.
"



i dunno tho, some chick at the bar last night started wackin me off in the smoking patio, and she was just playing me.
it was so weird, she just wakled up to me and started giving me some tounge. i was all for it, but this dude was watching, and was like "youre her 2nd tonight " and i was ignoring him.

but basically, this chick reached down my pants while we were makin out, and she quit , like 3/4 through the job.

I ended up gettin some big wood, and it was poking out of the top of my jeans, and then someone was like, you should put that away.... i felt so dumb, walking around for like 20-30 seconds, with a big hard on, poking out of the top of my jeans....


yeah, that is sorta off-topic.... i get drunk too much//too often.... =(