If this is confusing then you may wanna flick through the original post here (http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2045221).

Summary: Meet a cool girl, fell for her - we seemed really close, I got really attached. But she had a guy and thinks where sticky.

NOW: I got even closer to her last week, like she told me things that she'd never told anyone else.. ever.

We met up on Saturday, with my [old] friend.. who I have kinda lost touch with. They where quite close, well - really close - But I was feeling ill so I distanced myself a bit.

But when we where alone, just her and I, I felt so.. connected? Like all the eye contact, smiles and stuff.. It was awesome. She pulled me up on my hostilty towards my own friend, which I thought I had hidden really well.

I told her people drift apart, and that I didnt get on with him anymore. She agreed he spoke aload of bullshit.. Then she said out of the blue "I understand if it annoyed you to see us acting so close... I mean, Oh.. I hope I didnt sound vain". Basically she understands if I feel jealous?! Well, Yeah I did - But that didnt look smooth so I said "Oh, Hell no! Dont worry about anything like that..."

Then she apologised - "I'm soo sorry, I've brought you two together.. Oh shit. Sorry". So I told her not to worry about that either. But I cant connect when he's with me. And she seems to see us as a couple - i.e me AND him. So she doesnt arrange to see us individually.

When we did meet individually, as discussed in my last thread - there was lots of hand holding, eye contact and play wrestling.. all good signs? Yet since then we might've drifted a little.

But we where flirting via txt and MSN, Then she txt me "just so you know.. i cant stop thinking about you" so she must feel something for me, right?

So onto her boyfriend... She told me she wanted to dump him. But her ex-bf was kinda stalking her and it appeared as if he would ask her out as soon as he could. But she said "I have to dump him now.." - so shes going to be single soon. [Coincidentally, she only said this when we where alone. Not in front of our "friend"]

So basically I'm looking at where I should go from here? Get some alone time - Well, i've made my feelings regarding our "friend" clear, So that looks more likely. [But shes fully booked for like 2 weeks a time...] Maybe tell her how I feel?

I'm in need of advice/ideas or observations.. badly. Thanks in advance guys.

Dude, she said she can't stop thinking about you, what more do you need? Tell her how you feel.

Yeah, I suppose I need to get off my ass. Just seeing her acting close with my friend fucked my head about. Like - I dont know how to take her comment about me being annoyed either... What made her say that?!