I'm used to flings, but I'm hoping to make this my real first relationship. Anyway, last night I took her out for the first time to the movies. This is also our first time really getting to know each other, like I've never really talked to her or done anything with her. It went great too; we flirted a lot, in the movie we would laugh at the jokes and look at each other every time with our faces close to each other, then on the way back we were more playful with each other, busting each others chops teasingly followed by a playful tap/hit or two.

I looked into her eyes a lot and she looked into mine. She also asked if I liked one of her old friends, which I found odd, but maybe she was concerned because she really was starting to like me to....idk.

So where does it go from here? Do I wait to hear from her or do I just call to chat it up or what happens from here?

Just give her a call and ask if she wants to go somewhere. It sounds like you're doing fine. A girl once asked me if I liked her friend, to make sure I didn't, just before she had her ungodly way with me.

First, go piss on her door to let other males know she's taken. Maybe not directly on the door in case it leaks under, but you know, like around the door jamb and stuff.

Second, find out where she works/matriculates and what time she gets off/out. Stake it out.

Third, attach one of these (http://www.pimall.com/nais/tracking.html) to her car/bike.

her asking about her friend to you is just a test, girls will do that.Either will ask you straight out about stuff or put out some hints of jealously towards yah which if your not retarded you should be able to pick up on.

Such as if your talking about another female in front of them, theyll drop a nice tone of hate towards the said subject. Yea give her a ring and see whats next on the agenda.

busting each others chops teasingly followed by a playful tap/hit or two.

Those are the beginning signs of an abusive relationship. It will only end in heartbreak and heavy drug use as an attempt to escape the constant torment as you try to ignore the effect it's all having on you both and the poor kids who are unable to concentrate at school because mommy and daddy are always fighting and dad is always drinking and cussing and throwing beer cans at mommy and calling his kids "accidents" before slapping mommy in the face and then pushing her into the dinner table causing such an awkward tension that no one can finish their dinner.

Is that the kind of environment you want to raise your kids in!? HUH!?

Tell her if she leaves you, you'll fucking kill her.

Kill her dog or something to let her know your not fucking around.

The two posts above me fucking cracked me up.

Thanks, guys.

nah son dont listen to any of that shit above me


dont let her know that you like her kid just play it cool for a while
and if your really serious about her then dont fuckin go and have sex the first day wait a week or two

^^ IF shes around by then, girls will lose effort unless you step out of the box letting her know whats up...If the time calls for it why not, but dont give her the on the knee, confessing ur feelings for her, "OH MY GOD I LOVE YOU" type shit. Just show her through some hints/actions. Do work

how long do you go before the first kiss?

My friend has a match up at the school tomorrow I was going to ask her to come watch with me since she would already be up there....or would that be too early to ask her to do something again?

I don't want to come off as a friend....but not come on too strong either cause I know girls like a game of subtley

Stick it in her ass.

Well, when you were both gazing in eachother's eyes would have been the perfect time to kiss her. I mean really, what's the worst that could have happened? Anyway it's obvious she likes you and you like her. So, call her up and tell her you're going to pick her up (dont ask) and take her to dinner or something. Don't go to the fucking match (whatever that is) with her, like she wants to go there. Also, women don't like subtlety. Bitches are supposed to be subtle, not men. Speak your mind and be assertive with what you think/feel. Women find that attractive. No bitch likes a timid loser. That'll get you stuck in the "friend zone" forever.

So I can just hold her hand and tell her I like her instead of up and out kissing her? That would be a lot easier for me to do! Then probably after that as a reassurence I would kiss her no problem!

Now where to take her out to....

Just be honest, it's not that difficult. Don't play it too cool or she'll think you're not interested, don't be over eager, and drop enough hints of wanting her sexually to make her think you don't want to be just friends. That doesn't mean suggesting you want to fuck her, just keep reminding her of your attraction to her with nice compliments, jokes, flirting so on so forth.