I've been having some issues. My gf has the nicest pussy, its tight, good and perfect. Yes I'll admit that haha, on a forum. Anyways, everytime I have sex, its for some reason not fun for me. In fact, I almost go limp after the first 10 minutes. I have no reasons why, I don't have ED, and I am 19.

It makes my gf upset because she thinks I am not getting any enjoyment out of it. In which, her pussy just doesn't feel good to me. Its tighter than hell, and I know she lost it to me.


Any suggestions to make it better for me?. I really have a rough and unfun time every time we have sex. It upsets me and her.

HAHA you are gay!

Try some ed meds or other drugs though.

It`s a mental thing. You know what you like, try and mix it into your relationship/sex part of it so you enjoy it as well.

Train up?

ya, I mean I almost do worry, such as above said, I might be gay. I mean, why can't I get any enjoyment out of sex.

Perhaps you are in fact gay. I mean, a 19 year old heterosexual male should be getting an immense amount of enjoyment out of fucking.

But if that's not the case, then it's her. For whatever reason subconciously you have some problem with her.

Is she the first person you've had sex with?
or
Is this the first person this has happened with?

If it's the first, then you've probably just got to give it a little while for you to learn to relax and just go with it. Maybe you're leaping straight to sex when you guys should foreplaying a bit before, if not, then just keep going with it, there's no time limit.
Eventually you'll want to rape one another.


If it's the second option, then yeah, it's probably her.
Which I guess could also mean that it's her because she's not a man, but probably not unless you don't find girls as attractive as you do guys.

In your case close your eyes and picture a guys ass.:D

If you don't think you're gay, its gotta be mental. You are probably psyching yourself out worrying about your girl, or if you are doing it right, etc...

If you can get past the mental block, just lose yourself in the pussy, you'll pull out of this with flying colors. Its just a small bump in the road, nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about.

My friend finally got the chance to be with a girl he was into for awhile, and he couldn't get it up when the time came. He's healthy, young, experienced, but he psyched himself out of it. He put the "pussy on a pedestal", if you will. Don't do that.

i've got a few 50mg viagra's you can have if you want...

eat her out first. make her pussy drip. when she's soaking wet, you won't go down. trust me.

Maybe the mental scarring from when Uncle Best Friend touched you on the insides is coming through and destroying your boner the way it destroyed your sphincter control?

you guys have it all wrong.

it was my pastor that fucked me.

Oh, well Jesus wouldn't let that be a bad thing, would he?

Given your screen name, I can't believe nobody has asked this yet:

Are you sober?

The reason I ask is because things that are capable of rendering your consciousness "altered" are clearly doing something powerfully enough to your body to trick your mind. From E-gasms, to whisky dick; these things are real, and have real sources.

Many intoxicants (alcohol, speed, coke...) restrict blood vessels, in a way, and since your dick is pretty much a fleshy blood sponge, this could cause a problem.

also i've heard that when people have sex while on extacy it can pretty much ruin normal sex from there on out just because the intensity of sex while on E is so great compared to sober sex.

Well, I have a similar problem, in that I can't really keep it up during sex.

I ALWAYS have to stop at some point to get myself hard again. Then I get right back to business as soon as I can (IF I can... sometimes I can't).

But as far as the cause of it goes, that could be different.

My point? You're not alone. My advice? No idea. I still haven't figured out a solution for myself yet.

Same. It happened every time when I first started sexing. Constant and rhythmic stimulation of the head and a hand on the girl's tits usually keeps it at bay though. :)

-F☺rd

Same. It happened every time when I first started sexing. Constant and rhythmic stimulation of the head and a hand on the girl's tits usually keeps it at bay though. :)

Actually it's funny you should mention that, because that the only thing that almost worked for me.

Actually, it did work sometimes, but usually, it only delayed the inevitable.. :(

Actually it's funny you should mention that, because that the only thing that almost worked for me.

Actually, it did work sometimes, but usually, it only delayed the inevitable.. :(

I've never gone soft if I'm sucking on a gal's tits.

Otherwise... :/

I donno.

-F☺rd

I've never gone soft if I'm sucking on a gal's tits.

I have... :( Maybe I'm a lost cause... :p

I have... :( Maybe I'm a lost cause... :p
Impotence is a serious issue. You should talk to your local police officer or primary school teacher IMMEDIATELY!

Impotence is a serious issue. You should talk to your local police officer or primary school teacher IMMEDIATELY!

The local police and local primary school teachers know of my situation. They all kinda ended up involved in the same incident...

Heh, I can just imagine the headline in the local paper...

It was pretty bad... ;)