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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-09-22, 15:14
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Default Public Displays of Affection

How do you feel about PDA? Personally, if I'm with someone that I have strong feelings for, I tend not to care what others think. So I may show the occasional public display of affection. Even moreso if I'm intoxicated.

But on the other hand, I realize that it can be kind of annoying to other people. So I try to keep that in mind.

What I find really annoying though, is those couples (or even 2 people that just met that night) that sit on the main couch at a party, and just suck each others faces for hours. After the first 10 minutes or so, GET A ROOM!
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Old 2007-09-22, 15:19
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Yeah it's gross when people do that face sucking thing.
When I worked at a sandwich store there was once this couple kissing in the queue and when there turn came I asked "hi what can I get you?" the bitch gave me a hauty stare and went back to kissing her bloke, so I started serving the people behind them. The couple of course got angry about this, but I refused to serve them. They were clearly only queuing because they thought it was a line to get into a hotel or something so I thought it best to ignore the crazy people.

But likewise when I see a couple sharing a kiss, it makes me really angry when a bunch of fuck ugly horrible chavs start yelling and jeering at them.

I would like to hold hands more in public. That would be nice.
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Old 2007-09-22, 15:23
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Default Re: Public Displays of Affection

But likewise when I see a couple sharing a kiss, it makes me really angry when a bunch of fuck ugly horrible chavs start yelling and jeering at them.

WHAT!?!?!

Oh my... Lol, I just burst out laughing, because I have NEVER heard of that happening...

That happens...!?
 #4 
Old 2007-09-22, 15:28
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PDA's alright with me, but there's a limit. If we're infront of a group of girls, they're most likely eyeing him, so I just pull him closer and kiss him.

Holding hands is cute, as is brief kissing, but heavy petting and face sucking over does it.
 #5 
Old 2007-09-22, 15:31
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Default Re: Public Displays of Affection

Actually, my opinion on public displays of affection can change, depending on my mood.

Sometimes, if I see a couple kissing in the streets, it is kinda heartwarming.

But sometimes, I'm thinking: "Goddamn you sons of bitches, rubbing so assertively in my face that you have such a wonderful romantic connection that I lack!" Mad

But for the most part, I refrain, since I'd rather not affect anyone, than to affect someone negatively.
 #6 
Old 2007-09-22, 15:47
LazerViperMouth LazerViperMouth is offline
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Default Re: Public Displays of Affection

A quick peck is fine.
Eating somebody's face for an hour, is not.

As long as the 2 people aren't ugly it's not so bad.

BUT I AM SICK AND TIRED OF WATCHING UGLY PEOPLE MAKE OUT
 #7 
Old 2007-09-22, 16:19
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I don't have a problem with public affection, although there is a line that can be crossed.
 #8 
Old 2007-09-22, 16:41
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As long as they aren't 2 faggots, then I don't care what they are doing. Just don't get anything on ME....... if I'm sitting next to or walking by.
 #9 
Old 2007-09-22, 17:35
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Kissing/cuddling in public is fine.

Fucking on the bonnet of someone's car should be confined to an indoor car park.
 #10 
Old 2007-09-22, 17:40
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"Goddamn you sons of bitches, rubbing so assertively in my face that you have such a wonderful romantic connection that I lack!" Mad

This.
 #11 
Old 2007-09-22, 17:42
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Originally Posted by psycho_8b
Kissing/cuddling in public is fine.

Fucking on the bonnet of someone's car should be confined to an indoor car park.


I noticed that you didn't mention that the car necessarily had to belong to either party.
 #12 
Old 2007-09-22, 18:22
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I see nothing wrong with PDA. But of course, they have to be realistic about their looks.
In fact, they can have sex in public for all I care.

I'm quite open-minded.
 #13 
Old 2007-09-22, 18:30
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I noticed that you didn't mention that the car necessarily had to belong to either party.

Why would it? ;)
 #14 
Old 2007-09-22, 20:12
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Why would it? ;)

Do you have any idea what sort of damage two mindless fucking people could do to a nice bonnet? ESPECIALLY if you've had some work done on the car!
For one, it can dent the bonnet, which in of itself is bad enough, but if they're being vigorous enough they could push the bonnet down enough to the extent it starts pushing on the engine!


I dont currently have a car..or license... but when I re-aquire these lovely things I can assure you if I saw some bastards using my car as a bed/trampoline I'd castrate the man and insert a broken glass bottle into the womans cunt. Then I'd tie them together and throw them off a bridge.
You do not do that shit to someone elses car! Mad
 #15 
Old 2007-09-22, 20:34
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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I try to avoid too much PDA especially around friends... except when I'm drunk. But I try as much s possible to not make it seem like other people are a third wheel, or like we're just that couple that's ajoined at the hip.
 #16 
Old 2007-09-22, 21:47
SnapShot SnapShot is offline
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Some old gay guy hit on another old gay guy. On the bus. Really loud. It was so embarrasing it was almost funny. Everyone looked somewhere else and pretended they weren't paying attention.
 #17 
Old 2007-09-22, 22:20
Khepri Khepri is offline
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It seems like people only mind when they aren't with someone..

I don't really care about it. If it bothers you, stop looking and shut the fuck up about it.

You have eyelids and the ability to look in the other direction.
 #18 
Old 2007-09-22, 22:22
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Khepri
It seems like people only mind when they aren't with someone..

I don't really care about it. If it bothers you, stop looking and shut the fuck up about it.

You have eyelids and the ability to look in the other direction.


I absolutely agree.
It also applies to people who get upset when you show them goatse.
 #19 
Old 2007-09-22, 23:11
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I really don't like public displays of affection, even when I've had girllfriends. One sat on my lap at a party once..I remember she got upset when I politely told her to find a chair.
 #20 
Old 2007-09-23, 01:05
NoSkills NoSkills is offline
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because my boyfriend lives on the other side of the country and we don't get to spend that much time together, when we are together we always hold hands etc.

the occasional quick kiss in public is fine, but never with tongue or anything. if we're at a party and he's drinking, he tends to get a little more hands on, but there's no way i would make out with him in the middle of a crowded room.

i'm very aware that i get uncomfortable when i see couples making out in public, so i don't do it.

we are friends with another couple, however, and they NEVER touch each other in public. i've never seen them hold hands or anything. they really care for each other, and have been together for close to a year, but we always feel kind of guilty when we go see them because it makes us feel like we're really over the top with PDAs (only relatively).
 #21 
Old 2007-09-23, 01:25
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Can't say I enjoy watching face sucking (outside of it being done by 2 chicks), but I'm fine with a cinema blowjob. It can turn a shitty movie into the best movie you've seen this year so far.
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Old 2007-09-23, 01:39
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I hate them because it just reminds me of that I'm single and lonely. But if I had a boyfriend, then I would probably go as far as kissing. Not fully french kissing slobber, but a nice lengthy one is okay, just to be kind to others like me out there.
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Old 2007-09-23, 01:42
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Quote:
Originally Posted by some girl
I hate them because it just reminds me of that I'm single and lonely. But if I had a boyfriend, then I would probably go as far as kissing. Not fully french kissing slobber, but a nice lengthy one is okay, just to be kind to others like me out there.


Hypocrite.
 #24 
Old 2007-09-23, 01:43
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Hypocrite.

Yeap. That's me.
 #25 
Old 2007-09-23, 04:43
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Fuck it. Do what you must.

Threesome in the club ON the dance floor? Why not?
 #26 
Old 2007-09-23, 04:58
spindl3--chopper spindl3--chopper is offline
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Default Re: Public Displays of Affection

BUT I AM SICK AND TIRED OF WATCHING UGLY PEOPLE MAKE OUT


fucking eh i saw a ginge dude and an albino making out in the park, they shoud put that sorta shit on rotten.com ><
 #27 
Old 2007-09-23, 05:03
PossesedSmurf PossesedSmurf is offline
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Default Re: Public Displays of Affection

I hug, and kiss in public. When i say kiss i mean quick pecks 'hello' or 'goodbye' but it's usually just hugs. Now my exception is all the sexual things I've done at night in parks , on hills, or by river banks, which i see nothing wrong with.
 #28 
Old 2007-09-23, 05:16
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I don't really like PDA's unless I'm dating the girl. If I'm just fucking you don't expect me to hold your hand or kiss you in public or even hug you.

Then again I think when a girl tries to pull that shit, they don't have a chance in hell of me seeing them exclusively, because that kind of shit just pisses me off.

If I actually like the girl enough to see her exclusively, I'll hold her hand and kiss her goodbye and do all that stupid shit.
 #29 
Old 2007-09-23, 06:09
soro_one soro_one is offline
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I don't mind, unless it's two guys making out, because stubble on stubble man action isn't what I want to see while i'm walking around, unless of course I went to a gay club or something then it would be expected, which is why I don't tend to go to gay clubs.

I'm a hypocrite(if that's the right word..brain fart) I wouldn't mind watching some girls make out, unless they were butch ass lesbians that's nasty.
 #30 
Old 2007-09-23, 16:18
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I can't stand PDA, and I'm pretty sure I've ranted about it before somewhere. My boyfriend grabbed my ass yesterday while we were with his friends trying to find something to do, and I spazzed a little bit. Later on, I proceeded to make out with him so his friends would stop making fun of him. :p

Hypocrite? Yep. Crazy lady? Yep. Confused

Really though, holding hands, maybe some cuddling and a kiss is okay, but those people that have to be all over eachother alllllllll the time... go away, please. OH, and those people that go to a restaurant and get a giant booth, then squeeze into one teeny corner of it and proceed to make out and feed eachother the entire night, DEFINITELY shouldn't be allowed in public.
 #31 
Old 2007-09-23, 17:18
Isobutane Isobutane is offline
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providing there;s no sound effects, too muchg face eatinf and you're not in the middle of a door way or bus stop, then sure, go for it.
and the handsss, keep them somewhere respectable please.
 #32 
Old 2007-09-23, 21:13
Orange_Crusader Orange_Crusader is offline
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Default Re: Public Displays of Affection

Quick kisses, ok. Hugs, ok, handholding, ok. Etc.

Don't go getting intimate in front of random people, I find couples making out in public or feeling each other up kinda gross, some stuff should be kept private, srsly. I`ve told people to either stop or get a room if they do this for anything longer than 30 seconds in front of me. And I've been gone for a while, haven't seen jackketch around, though I expected he'd be all over this thread with everyone saying 'making out' so much.

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 #33 
Old 2007-09-23, 21:50
pengd0t pengd0t is offline
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Just do what you want. You're not hurting anybody.

I always forget people are so weird about this kind of thing...
 #34 
Old 2007-09-23, 22:01
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Quote:
Originally Posted by pengd0t
Just do what you want. You're not hurting anybody.

I always forget people are so weird about this kind of thing...


One would expect Totse to be a bit more open-minded, eh?
 #35 
Old 2007-09-23, 22:11
pengd0t pengd0t is offline
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One would expect Totse to be a bit more open-minded, eh?

I know, exactly.
 #36 
Old 2007-09-24, 11:20
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Allow me to expand upon what I said earlier...

I don't care if you fuck in a booth in a restaraunt at high fucking noon. Do whatever the fuck you want. Just be prepared for others to not take so kindly to it.

Seriously, is there some sort of rulebook I'm missing that says people HAVE to be offended by other people playing tonsil hockey in public?
 #37 
Old 2007-09-24, 19:46
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My girlfriend and I always hold hands if we're walking somewhere, it's common practise. Ya wouldn't see us sucking the face off each other in public, but I guess we would kiss occasionally... sitting at traffic lights or waiting to get onto a busy roundabout, we usually kiss.

I think it's funny when you see two people in a pub or a club, completely plastered, and all over each other. My immediate assumption is that the girl will get a taxi home with her mates and the guy will have a 3 hour drunken wank which he falls asleep during, pissed because he never got to fuck the drunk girl. Then again, sometimes I think too much.

Public affection has never been a problem for me... unless it's two males. Luckily Ive never had to see this in public, but even seeing two guys kiss on TV makes my stomach churn.
 
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