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An update

I"m now with one of the two girls that I was talking about in my other thread. Things are going really well, and I think I've really found my match, I dare say. But there's still the other girl that's in a different state for the time being. I just got another letter from her, and in it she talks about how much she misses me, and wants to spend time with me when I go up to visit her. She says that while we're up there, we can go out to dinner and to a club and whatnot. She's even offered to help pay for my expenses( which I wouldn't let her do). She's such a really sweet girl, and I don't know what to do. I mean, I love the relationship I'm currently in, but I'm still in a bit of a pickle. I still like both girls equally, and both seem really into me. I don't want to hurt anyone if it can be avoided, so how can I let this girl down easily? I mean, I still want to go up and see her, but I simply must tell her what's going on. I don't think she's go all crazy and kill herself or anything, but if I were in her shoes, I'd be pretty pissed off.
Any suggestions?
Thanks.

Tell her the straight up truth.

That is, if you do want to remain friends with her and whatnot. Otherwise, just stop talking to her. I mean, not all abruptly. Don't be rude. But just slowly cut down your contact with her.

Truth. Honesty.


I know these things are a little over-rated at times but really, dont you think it would solve alot of your problems if you just used some right now?

Also,I'd make it clear to the girl you did chose that you *arent* doing anything with the other girl. If she found that letter she might be pissed!