Long story short, got with this girl who's super easy. The sex was great, and she likes it rough (which I'm more than happy to oblige). But, i'm not actually attracted enough to her to have a relationship with her... Now, I wanna keep fucking her, but I really don't want to be tied down. I bet she'd be down with just being fuck buddies, but y'all got any ideas?

This isn't really how I usually operate, if you can't tell.

Also, is it wrong that I still tell my ex I love her (she feels the same way) amidst all this? She lives halfway across the country, is the thing, or we wouldn't be exes...

So basically, i'm looking for moral and practical guidance.

If it makes you happy being with her, and the sex is good, why not try an open relationship? Just give it a shot.

And ex's are skanks.

Nah man it's not like I want a relationship right now. I don't even really want to fuck that bad, it's just easy and convenient. I really don't need another attachment. Never ends well for me. And she's too much of a cokehead anyways (don't get me wrong, I love coke).

Dude just keep fucking her and if she gets uber attached then don't talk to her anymore. Not that complicated.

Actually, if she starts calling more than just for sex, that's when you need to stop talking her. And sure it's ok to tell your ex you love her, just don't let her find out about Miss Skank you're fucking on the side.

And she's too much of a cokehead anyways (don't get me wrong, I love coke).

Who doesn't?

But yeah, I get your drift. Just relax about the whole situation, if chick A wants to keep the open sex going, then go for it. If she's getting more attached than you, give her some space. If you feel like giving chick B another shot, go for it. Just keep it relaxed, don't dive back into a relationship with her.

wow! lovely pickle you've got yourself into. If the girl you are fucking was easy, shes only probably in it for the sex aswell. break up with her... but you know, break up sex and that sorta shit... just keep it going.

thats all i can think of

Ugh, I was in the exact same situation not more that a week back. :(

I had to end the fucking because I kept wishing it was my ex.

Do what feels right. If you want to keep fucking her, keep fucking her. Tell your ex in the midst of it all if you think you could pull if off.

I don't have much advice. My ex found out about the girl and everything turned to shit. She said she would have taken me back too.

... fuck

Okay, so I guess my advice would be to break it off with your current girl until you figure out things with your ex.

Best of luck.

Your ex lives half way across the country, telling her that you love her is only going to make it harder on yourself, especially if she doesn't say it back... I'd say keep taxin' that skanks ass like you're the government.

She does say it back to me. And I'm not really in love with her... more like, extremely fond of her. But she's never been loved before so it makes her feel special and such.