I have a question for all of you. Do you think it is better to give a girl multiple moderate orgasms, working up as you go stronger and stronger, or one explosive orgasm? My experience is that, well from the girls i have been with, is that multiple orgasms working up to one strong one is more enjoyable than one explosive orgasm. I don't know why, they just like it better.

What are your views on this?

I like to give them one huge explosive long lasting orgasm. If you can leave them breathless they will always come back for more.

Silly OP, girls can't have orgasms.

girls have better orgasms than us...

girls have better orgasms than us...


Damn right, we do. :D

I can't really choose which I'd rather have, it all depends on what else is going on.

Multiple explosive orgasms. At least 10. Anything else is failure.

Actually I never stated which gender I was asking. I would rather girl's input. I am going out with a girl on saturday and I am not sure, I was going to go with what the majority of girls said. It would be a bit awkward on a date, "What do you prefer in sex, orgasm wise?"

I'd rather have one explosive orgasm. It'd take wayyyy too long to have multiple orgasms, and I'm usually wiped out after the first one.

You know what I hate though? When girls, before you start a sexual relationship, tell you they've never had an orgasm. I'm not talking about little high school girls either, the last girl that said this was 21. They've had plenty of experienced boyfriends, and themselves, and still - nada.

Pretty much you feel fucked from the git-go.

The more orgasams the better, I think.

This.

Why would a girl tell a guy that before. During, or after, I can understand. But not before.

I would think if a girl does that it's because of past negative reations from her partners. So they are wanting to avoid that. But I think they're jumping the gun. Never assume that just because you haven't, that you won't.

I was well into my thirties before I had an orgasm from intercourse alone. It came as such a shock to me...I remember lying there thinking, "So this is what the fuss is all about." I was absolutely, positively, amazed and blown away by this man.

Now, I've always been orgasmic. But that was something I had never known before.

Ahhh...and he's my favorite memory. Actually, my only real memory of having sex with a man from my past.

Yeah, your still kinda looking down the barrel with a girl that says that though...

Any of the above, would be nice.

But, I never had one like that until much later in life.

Like around 12?

Err...how can you choose what you want to give your girl?