So I've been friends with this girl for like 3 years now (she's 19, and I'm 18). She's engaged, has a kid, and is in an "open relationship". I...am a year younger and still a virgin, so she offered to help. Well, she said she wants to fuck me, but...same thing.
Anyway, what is your take on this? I'm not going to change my plans based on what y'all say, I'm just curious. She's clean, had the implant birth control thing and we're using a condom, so no worries. I've wanted to fuck her for the longest time now, besides the fact I just want to lose my virginity already.

Well, may as well share the plan. Saturday I'm driving about an hour down to where she lives. Her fiance is going to be out of town for the day, and her mother in law is watching their son. We're having a picnic at a park, playing in the mud it sounds like (guessing by her telling me to bring extra clothes since I'll get muddy). Then somewhere in there we're going to do the deed.

We're having a picnic at a park, playing in the mud it sounds like (guessing by her telling me to bring extra clothes since I'll get muddy).

Lol @ "playing in the mud."

Oh, yeah, and it sounds like you've got it made in the shade. As long as her fiance really doesn't care, that is.

Fuck her brains out...

Lol @ "playing in the mud."

Oh, yeah, and it sounds like you've got it made in the shade. As long as her fiance really doesn't care, that is.

Haha, yeah. She's a total Tom boy, and likes that kind of thing. Ironically enough though, I'm the one who prefers to stay clean, mostly since I don't usually have clean clothes in my truck to change into, and don't want to mess up my boots.

Actually, her fiance is the one who suggested having an open relationship. So, I guess I'm a lucky little bastard.

Dedicate a thrust to totse man.

Be careful, it might be entrapment. She could turn it around and have you owe her one... it could hang over your head for awhile and could make your friendship strained.

That's kinda how I lost my virginity.

Actually, a female friend of mine found another girl to do it instead.

It was done as a favor. But I really don't care. I got laid, and then from then on my life was totally different. I actually started getting laid with some frequency after that.

I guess all I needed to do was get the ball rolling. It's funny how that works.

Seriously man, I would really find out her fiance's views on this, directly from him.

You don't want to fuck up a relationship, although it seems that it may be inevitable even without your input.

You - virgin.

Woman - wants to fuck you.

...

By the time you read this response you'd better have nailed her already, because let me tell you - you need to. If you're reading this and still haven't done it, give her a call and go do it right now.

Forget her fiance. Forget your friendship. Forget everything. You're a virgin and an older chick who you find attractive wants to make you a man. You are about to receive what could be the greatest gift anyone could ever receive. Go take it!

the idea of fucking a chick in an open relation is hot. wrong enough to be hot but you're not technically doing anything wrong so you don't have to feel bad.

See now here's what you need to do. Pack two or three changes of clothes in your truck, make the back seat nice and comfy (just in case), and then set up a hidden camera somewhere for the benefit of your Totse friends.

Seriously dude, she's ready and willing, all you need to do is give it to her. So what're you waiting for?

I don't think I'd want to lose it to someone who was getting married to someone else, has a kid and is pretty much only using me.

How is she using him? That doesn't make any sense at all. She is doing him a huge favor. No one is being used here.

What would a woman with a fiance need a virgin for? It's purely for his benefit.

Nail her mate

(guessing by her telling me to bring extra clothes since I'll get muddy).
yay for anal!

Lost mine to a female friend. It was worth it.

i agree

How is she using him? That doesn't make any sense at all. She is doing him a huge favor. No one is being used here.

What would a woman with a fiance need a virgin for? It's purely for his benefit.

It makes sense, it's not written in Arabic.

I doubt it's all for his benefit, I'd fuck a virgin just to see what it was like, which would be mainly for mine, partly for his.

It's not like you can fully say it's for him. It's not like we've heard her thoughts, so how do you know?

And, why would you fuck someone out of a favour? How sad is that, and if the only way he can get laid is out of a favour then fuck that, I'd still rather so someone who wanted to because they wanted to not as a pissin' favour.

And just because she's got a fiance doesn't mean she doesn't just want sex with random people (not forgetting they're in an open relationship) and didn't he say she told him she wanted to fuck him?

And, why would you fuck someone out of a favour? How sad is that, and if the only way he can get laid is out of a favour then fuck that, I'd still rather so someone who wanted to because they wanted to not as a pissin' favour.

First of all, I lost my virginity as a favor for me, and it was awesome. It was something I needed. It taught me things I needed to know. And it had a strange effect on me in that it lead to me getting laid many times after. I don't know how that works, but it did. Maybe I just needed that little bit of experience to raise my confidence.

Secondly, of course I'm not saying that pity sex is all you need. I'm just saying that it has it's place.

And about a girl using a guy to take his virginity... I didn't even know there was any appeal in that...!? That is news to me. Maybe the girl who took my virginity actually had some kind of fetish for deflowering virgin males.. But you know what? I don't care! Because it had no negative effect on me whatsoever, only positive.

I think you just have a skewed outlook on it all because you're a female.

Fuck her dude, I lost mine to a co-worker, not a friend, not in a relationship just a co-worker, nice as hell.

This sounds like an excellent opportunity, but once, again, be absolutely positive that her fiance is down with this. You don't want to fuck anyone's shit up, they got their thing going.

Other than that, go for it. Also, dedicate a thrust to me since I haven't been laid in so long.

..and...don't fall for her.

Oh fuck, yes! Very important.

I failed horribly with that part... :(

she said she wants to fuck me,

You should get her pregnant, na just kidding, but seriously as a few others stated; make sure he's down with it because thats just low.

fuck her you pussy

Come on. If she's offering you to have sex with her, then her relationship is already ruinned. You're not responsible and won't be for anything you do with her.

Ok, you guys got me really psyched up for this now. At first I was a bit apprehensive because of the situation, but now I'm not the least bit worried. There was never any doubt I was going to fuck her though. I'd have tapped that ass before if I knew she was into that.

I'm going down to see her Saturday. Yes, I'm waiting until then because I have had to work every day prior to that, and have to do shit Friday. Plus, it's an hour drive there, and I don't want to look like an ass just fucking her and then running off.

There isn't going to be any anal. The comment about playing in the mud means exactly what I wrote, we're probably going to end up playing in the lake and getting muddy. Told y'all she was a Tom boy.

ya it's called a joke....anyway....pics or it didn't happen. good luck little fella!

Well, today was the day. Im going to skip a few boring, mundane details just since they aren't important. We decided to meet at Farm King in Monmouth, and then got lunch. Then we went to this park later on. Well, there's a wooded area with a creek running through it that you aren't really supposed to be in...but we obviously didn't care. Neither of us cared about getting wet, so we were walking in the creek bed. I splashed her, she splashed me, I tackled her (playfully of course) and got her a little wet, I slipped away and then she tackled me. So I pulled her in with me, and we ended up wreastling around. In the process I ended up on top of her, and I guess one thing lead to another. We just started kissing, she started taking off my pants after a few minutes, and then we were getting cold and had to move somewhere in the sun, since at the time we were in about 1ft deep water that was kinda chilly. There was a sunny place on the shore, so we just went there. I was on her, so she started trying to undo my pants, but couldn't figure out my belt. So I undo it, and she immediately undoes my pants and pulls my cock ouf of my underwear, and then I just take them off and throw them aside. I got on her again, and she reached down, grabbed my dick and guided it into her. At that time, we didn't really care about the burs getting in our hair, and all the mud getting on us until afterwards. She called later, but I didn't ask how she explained that one. I'm not sure who had more fun. She uh, seemed to be having a good time, guessing from the moaning and shaking. Apparently she thinks I'm not "proportional" and asked me if I'm sure it was only my first time, so I'm on a bit of an ego trip now. I enjoyed watching her moaning and just kinda shaking as much as the rest of it. We were both having a good time playing in the creek though, just getting wet and dirty.

And you know what? I had a great time, I don't regret it at all.

To the guy asking about pictures...not going to happen. I expected to get wet, so I left my phone in my truck. Plus, she doesn't like having pictures taken of her.

Well, pics or not, it's a nice story. Good on ya kiddo

The water got her wet LOL

Hey, I was lucky to get the opportunity to mess around with her, so even if I wasn't worried about fucking up my phone, I wouldn't have taken pictures. After all, she is like my best friend, and I respect her. If it was just some random drunk chick at a party or something, then I probably would have.

And yeah, the water technically did get her wet. But, when a girl is the first one to make a move by kissing you, pulling off your pants, grabbing your dick and sticking it in her, I would think she would be pretty into it. Don't 'cha thing?

So was it all you hoped it would be then?

It wasn't exactly the way I expected, but yeah, it was all I expected. It kicked ass. The only thing is I have other feelings for her now, although I always kinda did.

18 y/o virgin? are you sure you don't like cock?

I call bullshit.

Vids or it didn't happen.

Yeah, 18 y/o. Needless to say, I have relationship problems.
And no, I don't like t3h cock. If I did, it would have been easier to lose it though.

And again, I didn't video tape it. We talked about doing this, but for multiple reasons I didn't video tape it. First, I didn't know it was actually going to happen, or that it would happen in the woods in a creek. Also, she said she doesn't like being videotaped. Besides, she's like my best friend. I'm not going to disrespect her and risk losing her just so you guys can see her naked. If all you want is porn, there's plenty of it on the internet.

good for you bro!

free stuff = good

gogogogogo

Heeey, I lost it at 18 :(

Great story, mate. Glad you had fun :P

Its ok, but make sure you film it second time round, theres no where near enough porn on the internet

Word to you're ________

Heeey, I lost it at 18 :(

Great story, mate. Glad you had fun :P

Don't worry, only 12 year olds loose it at 14 on the intraweb.

It's officially over now. Delete, lock or do whatever you please with it now, mods.

What feelings exactly do you have for her now?

What feelings exactly do you have for her now?

Actually I'm curious about this too.

I lost my virginity in a very similar manner. As a favor from a female friend. And when I was 18.

But the problem for me was that I completely fell for her. It's as if I felt that just because we had sex, we shared some kind of special bond, and that it meant that she actually shared the same feelings for me.

Obviously, in hindsight, with several more years of experience now, it was pretty naive of me to even assume such things. But back then, I didn't know any better.

I was a very naive teenager in general.