We went out for over a year, gave each other virginities, etc. Both lost virginity to the other, the whole 9 yards. Anyways, we broke up a week before school started. It was mutual, no hard feelings, etc. We decided to stay good friends, and thus far it has worked out. We are both 17.

But since then she's been turning into a total whore: fucking random guys, partying every weekend, getting baked/drunk all the time, trying drugs she never would have done before, started acting kind of bitchy, etc. The fact that she fools around with other guys feels even worse because I'm just naturally jealous (it's a curse). I have no right to get mad, but it really pisses me off when she does that. I don't get mad at her, I just get really jealous and mad without actually being like, "I'm so jealous and mad. Don't ever talk to me again" kind of thing.

But when I do talk to her/see her, I feel amazing. She is still a fun person to hang out with, and she is really understanding of me, and she helps me through a lot.

Question is: How do I deal with all of this. I want to get over her, still be friends, and stop myself from being a bitch-pussy about her partying/drugs/sex life? Please totse, is this even possible? If so, what can I do?

I feel like my whole life has gone to shit in a way...

Send her my phone number.

That's rough man but a lot of guys go through it, you've just got to accept it and get used to it. At least you know that you made the right decision breaking up. I hate when women change that much just because they're not with a guy, happens all the time though.

you could easily tell her you're worried she'll hurt herself and she needs to slow the fuck down.

I had almost the same jealousy problem with a girl before.

We startet of by dating behind fucking behind her current boyfriends back. At first it was just sex. We had a great time. I thought it was like a "Fuck friend relationship", but after a while. She started admiting that she actually had feelings for me and I open my eyes and realized what a nice girl she was. We keept it going for about 2-3 months. She broke up with her boyfriend and everthing was good, but then all the drama started. Cuz she found out that i had been fooling around with several girls while we were at "Fuck friend status" and she took an ex at this party. And I promised i wouldn't tell anyone about (While i was drunk). I didn't rember that so I told a friend about it the next the day. Whats the big deal i any way... At this point I loved her. She might be the only girl I have every loved. (I never told her that,only while i was wasted and she didn't take it serious). She told me she loved me after about three weeks. I belive she really ment it, cuz she told me all of her depest secrets. Secrets about her family and some personal issues she was dealing with. She had been through a rough time latly.

After I told my friend about the dope and she found out the things about the girls, she felt like she couldn't trust me. :/

So she went back with her old boyfriend(Wich is a total whipped pussy.) When I saw her kissing again with her old boyfriend. I felt ill. I relly felt like sliting her throat.

I have learned to deal with it now, my advice to you is to try as hard as you can to stop careing for that girl.

It might be hard if you still wanna be her friend. It was quite easy for me cuz she started talking to my mates and told that we only fucked once, that terrible in bed and was short. While the truth was that she had never ever had as good sex as we had together. Her boyfriend was a virgin when they started of, and she spent 6 months on teaching him how to give her an orgasm, while I did the first night. She even called me "magicfingers" for pet name.

I GUESS I SHOULD REALLY SLIT HER THROUT! >____<