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 #1 
Old 2007-09-19, 22:59
Craddock Craddock is offline
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Ok, I'm 20 and in college, and my gf is 16 and a junior in high school. Long story short, we broke a condom about 3 weeks ago :(, and I got a few more strokes in, and realized it was broke. Promptly pulled out and put on a new one. Went ahead and finished. I'm only the second guy she's been with and she only did it twice with number one, so she's freaking out over it. She didn't freak out over it when it happened, but she did starting like a week before when she should have started. So now she's 2 days late, and I've been in this situation before with different girls, so I'm hoping it's probably stress that's postponing her.

What's the chances? Really I'm looking for some "No, she's most likely not for (enter reason or similar happily ending story here)"

BTW, I'll answer any questions I need to answer to clarify situation.
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Old 2007-09-19, 23:08
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Originally Posted by Craddock
Ok, I'm 20 and in college, and my gf is 16 and a junior in high school. Long story short, we broke a condom about 3 weeks ago :(, and I got a few more strokes in, and realized it was broke. Promptly pulled out and put on a new one. Went ahead and finished. I'm only the second guy she's been with and she only did it twice with number one, so she's freaking out over it. She didn't freak out over it when it happened, but she did starting like a week before when she should have started. So now she's 2 days late, and I've been in this situation before with different girls, so I'm hoping it's probably stress that's postponing her.

What's the chances? Really I'm looking for some "No, she's most likely not for (enter reason or similar happily ending story here)"

BTW, I'll answer any questions I need to answer to clarify situation.


20 and your girlfriend is 16? Your not a Marine are you?

Anyway i know how ya feel. However jesus could be punishing you for dating someone so young.



((On a SERIOUS NOTE...Sorry bro, dont stress too much, and if she is pregnant I dont have to tell you your options. I think you know them, and whatever you are comfortable with is the direction you should go. I hope the best you you!))
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Old 2007-09-19, 23:36
weirdlittlepotsmoker weirdlittlepotsmoker is offline
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hahahaha Im sorry, but I dated a girl for 3 years and she had an irregular period. Being an emotional girl you could imagine how many times Ive been in this same exact situation.

Seriously man, I wouldnt sweat it untill you get a pregnancy test. Go get a cheap test from your local pharmacy and if she becomes positive, then you have a reason to worry. Honestly though, I have busted my load inside a girl plenty of times, and have never impregnated a woman.

Get a pregnancy test. Untill then, dont fucking worry about it man.
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Old 2007-09-19, 23:44
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hum, what would i do if i was shitting myself that my underage girlfriend MIGHT be pregnant?
oh yeah, i'd get a pregnancy test!

why do people not think of this?
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Old 2007-09-19, 23:51
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hahahaha Im sorry, but I dated a girl for 3 years and she had an irregular period. Being an emotional girl you could imagine how many times Ive been in this same exact situation.

Seriously man, I wouldnt sweat it untill you get a pregnancy test. Go get a cheap test from your local pharmacy and if she becomes positive, then you have a reason to worry. Honestly though, I have busted my load inside a girl plenty of times, and have never impregnated a woman.

Get a pregnancy test. Untill then, dont fucking worry about it man.


That awsome because my girl friend has irregular periods two, but she started few days ago so i am good
OP.... that sucks for you, really it does.
but you know what when you do se that fucking - it will be your best day ever, i gerafuckinteat.
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Old 2007-09-19, 23:59
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Default Re: Freaking out (gf possible pregnant)

Actually, I was a Marine, but got hurt in a car wreck and got medically discharged. I just turned 20 two days ago too.

Anyway, aren't you supposed to wait till she's a week late to take the test?
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Old 2007-09-20, 00:01
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Actually, I was a Marine, but got hurt in a car wreck and got medically discharged. I just turned 20 two days ago too.

Anyway, aren't you supposed to wait till she's a week late to take the test?


no. who told you that?
you can take the test four days before a period with these high tech digital things
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Old 2007-09-20, 00:04
Craddock Craddock is offline
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Had previous gf take it before and give a false positive because she took it too early.
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Old 2007-09-20, 00:22
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Uhm, no offence, but you were stupid...

When my girlfriend and I were just together, I noticed -afterwards- that there was hole in the condom. Literally a production mistake... The hole was a perfect circle.

We got out of bed immediatly, duh, the mood was kind of killed, and went to a doctor. He prescribed the day-after pill, we went to a pharmacist and got it...

This all in a time span of an hour.

I hope that your girl is not pregnant, but keep this in mind for the next time: there is no embarassement in having sex and breaking a condom. And either way, doctor-patient confidentiality... Better be embarassed, then to get a kid you are not ready for.
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Old 2007-09-20, 00:24
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i was in the exact same situation as u man
but the best way is to check with a preg test kit
if it turns negative, do it the 2nd time the week after
 #11 
Old 2007-09-20, 00:27
Craddock Craddock is offline
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Yeah I'm going to buy some Plan B as soon as she starts (if by the grace of God she does).

I had a buddy hit it constantly for over a year with his gf bareback and she didn't have BC, but she didn't, so I think I'm just letting her freak me out.
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Old 2007-09-20, 01:25
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As long as you didn't cum, and you didn't have an orgasm 30 minutes before you started fucking her with the broken condom your fine. There really is little to no sperm in pre cum, and unless you CAME then there is little to worry about. When ever you do cum always piss after to clean your urethra of sperm. Hence why when you do that it burns.

However if you fucked her, came (inside her in a condom or outside of her) and DIDN'T piss then there's the chance that there MAY be a few sperm left in your dick. Which then, they would come out with your precum. But AFAIK Sperm usually die within 30 minutes.

Anyways, be a good boy and piss.
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Old 2007-09-20, 01:31
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The poster above me is a fucking idiot.

Dude, just get the pregnancy test, it'll set your mind at ease. My ex was two weeks late once and we were freaking the fuck out. We were too scared to even buy the test. It was two weeks of sleepless nights that could have been avoided had we just bought one.
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Old 2007-09-20, 01:59
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no. who told you that?
you can take the test four days before a period with these high tech digital things

but until the first day that the period is supposed to come, they're only like 50% accurate. it jumps up to 99% the first day she's supposed to get her period.
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Old 2007-09-20, 02:45
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Whats the name of the shot a girl can get so she doesnt get pregnant, like it fucks up the females mentrual periods preventing the bitch to get pregnant, the only thing you gotta do is go back and get her to take the shot every couple months??

Just wanna know whats it called so that when me and my women go to the doc we can tell him straight up what we want.
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Old 2007-09-20, 03:10
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Default Re: Freaking out (gf possible pregnant)

Sometimes I wonder what cheap-shit condoms (Trojans?) you guys use. I've never known a condom rip unless used contrary to the makers instructions which,btw, you READ.

Reliable makers test each condom before it goes out. I mean, can you imagine the damages if it was proved a faulty condom led to a pregnancy?

If a condom rips during sex then you get out of bed and you go get her the MAP.

Firstly because this is one game you don't play the odds on and secondly it means she will be relaxed about having sex with you again.

Do you think the OP is going to get laid or at least laid well , the next few weeks?

OP, chances are very very slim but you still go get a really good pregnancy test ..if only for her peace of mind.
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Old 2007-09-20, 05:13
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Reliable makers test each condom before it goes out. I mean, can you imagine the damages if it was proved a faulty condom led to a pregnancy?


Thinking bout this made me lol
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Old 2007-09-20, 05:48
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Reliable makers test each condom before it goes out.

lol
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 #19 
Old 2007-09-20, 05:52
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Molotov the baby.
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Old 2007-09-20, 06:09
IAmMrPositive IAmMrPositive is offline
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I hope it goes well for you... I've had friends in that same situation and the girl always ended up not being pregnant.

If she is pregnant, do you think she would be willing to get an abortion?

I got my girlfriend pregnant a little over a year ago and I am in no way qualified to be a father, nor is she ready to be a mother. We both hate kids. I remember the horrible feeling I had when she called me and told me that she was definitely pregnant. She was late so she got a test, then when it told her she was pregnant she went to the doctor, and sure enough...

Then there was a period of hell. God it was awful. But I scraped up 300 dollars and split the cost of an abortion with her mom. :D

I was so relieved. I wouldn't wish that shit upon anyone, but it happens all the time.

Good luck buddy. Don't lose sleep over it yet. Oh, and I'm pretty sure you can go ahead and get a pregnancy test tomorrow.
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Old 2007-09-20, 06:10
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Your bare penis was exposed to her vagina for no more than a few seconds? And you hadn't even ejaculated yet? I guess it's pre-cum you're worried about..?

There are people who blow their load au naturel inside their partner on a regular basis without getting pregnant.

The chances are fucking MINIMAL that she's pregnant.
 #22 
Old 2007-09-20, 06:26
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Your bare penis was exposed to her vagina for no more than a few seconds? And you hadn't even ejaculated yet? I guess it's pre-cum you're worried about..?

There are people who blow their load au naturel inside their partner on a regular basis without getting pregnant.

The chances are fucking MINIMAL that she's pregnant.


It happened to me... I didn't think it would, but it did. It was definitely precum that got my girlfriend pregnant. It depends on how potent your sperm is and how fertile she is. And yeah, you probably have no idea about either of those things. I didn't know that my boys were such good swimmers until it was too late. And my girlfriend had told me before that she didn't think she was very fertile at all and even went as far as to say that she didn't think there was really any chance for her to get pregnant.

It scarred the shit out of me, too. She got on birth control shortly after it happened, and still, we have only had actual sex ONCE since then and we went and got a morning after pill the next day. lol

::shrug:: Whatever... I'm just glad she had no problem with aborting that little hellspawn.
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Old 2007-09-20, 07:22
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Ok, I'm 20 and in college, and my gf is 16 and a junior in high school. Long story short, we broke a condom about 3 weeks ago :(, and I got a few more strokes in, and realized it was broke. Promptly pulled out and put on a new one. Went ahead and finished. I'm only the second guy she's been with and she only did it twice with number one, so she's freaking out over it. She didn't freak out over it when it happened, but she did starting like a week before when she should have started. So now she's 2 days late, and I've been in this situation before with different girls, so I'm hoping it's probably stress that's postponing her.

What's the chances? Really I'm looking for some "No, she's most likely not for (enter reason or similar happily ending story here)"

BTW, I'll answer any questions I need to answer to clarify situation.


ugh jesus, i had a situtation like that this summer. and she was like a fucking week late and had almost ALL of the first few week symptoms. after a late period, we realized it was just mostly our paranoia.

your case really sounds like nothing to worry about to be honest. i mean precum does have that potential but thats only if youve gotten off and havent pissed in the mean time(MOST of the time).
 #24 
Old 2007-09-20, 11:37
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I'm going to stop and buy an absolute Yes or No test on the way home from school tomorrow :(. That's a three hour drive, with nothing to do but think, so it's going to be horrible. I'm not sure how many times we went before this one, but I do use a new condom everytime.

Since the possible upcoming tragedy, she decided to tell her mom that we're "having fun" last night. Apparently she's cool with it cause her mom loves me. She actually tells me she loves me before I leave to go back to college. Now I dread going back this weekend even more though, because even if her mom is cool with it, it's going to be awkward.
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Old 2007-09-20, 16:54
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Sometimes I wonder what cheap-shit condoms (Trojans?) you guys use. I've never known a condom rip unless used contrary to the makers instructions which,btw, you READ.

I use trojan condoms and i've never had one break. i don't understand how it happens either. knock on wood, hopefully it will never happen to me.
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Old 2007-09-20, 17:27
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Plastic wrap does NOT count as a condom.
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Old 2007-09-20, 18:03
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Reliable makers test each condom before it goes out. I mean, can you imagine the damages if it was proved a faulty condom led to a pregnancy?


There are people that go to drugstores and poke holes in condoms with long, thin, needles.

Because, that's your punishment for not practicing abstinence or not wanting a child to result from sex.
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Old 2007-09-20, 22:59
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Yeah I'm going to buy some Plan B as soon as she starts (if by the grace of God she does).

I had a buddy hit it constantly for over a year with his gf bareback and she didn't have BC, but she didn't, so I think I'm just letting her freak me out.


Bare back is unprotected anal sex, you know this right? Can't get a girl pregnant back there.
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Old 2007-09-20, 23:05
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Whats the name of the shot a girl can get so she doesnt get pregnant, like it fucks up the females mentrual periods preventing the bitch to get pregnant, the only thing you gotta do is go back and get her to take the shot every couple months??

Just wanna know whats it called so that when me and my women go to the doc we can tell him straight up what we want.


Idk if this is what your talking about but theres something that they can inject under the skin(not a shot) and she can't get pregnant when it's in there, and she can when they take it out.
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Old 2007-09-20, 23:52
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dude, dont worry about it, its highly unlikely that she is actually pregnant... then again, my friend got pregnant from what we think was a broken condom but we're really not sure coz it was like 12 weeks ago... and she aborted last saturday so i guess it doesnt matter anymore... but still, if you didnt come in her then it should be alright, but as other people have said, go buy a pregnancy test and when it comes up negative then everything will be back to normal and you can both go back to having sex... albeit somewhat carefully
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Old 2007-09-21, 20:24
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dude, dont worry about it, its highly unlikely that she is actually pregnant... then again, my mom got pregnant from what we think was a broken condom but we're really not sure coz it was like 12 weeks ago... and she aborted last saturday so i guess it doesnt matter anymore... but still, if you didnt come in her then it should be alright, but as other people have said, go buy a pregnancy test and when it comes up negative then everything will be back to normal and you can both go back to having sex... albeit somewhat carefully

fixed, i had to do it.
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Old 2007-09-21, 20:30
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Honestly though, I have busted my load inside a girl plenty of times, and have never impregnated a woman.

Sterile.
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Old 2007-09-22, 07:39
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Freaking out (gf possible pregnant)

hahahahaha

- ijsmlb :(
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Old 2007-09-22, 07:39
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hahaha
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Old 2007-09-22, 10:12
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It happened to me... I didn't think it would, but it did. It was definitely precum that got my girlfriend pregnant.

...hence your username?
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Old 2007-09-22, 10:40
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...hence your username?

PWNED!!

Sorry OP, couldn't help meself.
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Old 2007-09-22, 15:25
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Hehe. Yeah, well...

That fetus is in little baby heaven now. I didn't mind it. I mean, how else would you get to directly fund a death and get away with it?
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Old 2007-09-26, 19:37
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Hehe. Yeah, well...

That fetus is in little baby heaven now. I didn't mind it. I mean, how else would you get to directly fund a death and get away with it?


Its not in heaven, it's in a vacuum.
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Old 2007-09-26, 20:53
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Its not in heaven, it's in a vacuum.

It's not on Earth.
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Old 2007-09-29, 02:57
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It's not on Earth.

Ohh ItS TeH SpAcE BaBy
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Old 2007-09-29, 03:41
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Ohh ItS TeH SpAcE BaBy

Hahahahaha
 
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