this girl that has liked me for a while, gave me her number, like two weeks ago this friday (i think). anyway, i called her friday night, at like 11, and woke her dad up, and he said he would tell her i called. so she never called, and then i called her that monday at 11am, and she answered, and we talked, and i was sick at the time so i told her she couldn't come over. she said her dad didn't tell her, and said if he did she definately would have called me. i told her to call me back at 11 that night, and she said she would but she didnt. she hasn't called since then. i dont really care, she's alright, but im not going out of my way to talk to her or anything else. she has caller id, and said she had my number, but i thought her dad could have erased it or something. i just thought he might not like me or something, and he didn't tell her i called because of that. if i thought it was that i would call her back, but if it's not, i really dont care. so what do you think?

and she's an adult, it's not like she's a highschooler, and i couldn't imagine her dad considering me to be worse than most of her boyfriends, but i dont know =/ i forgot how old she said she was. she's like 23 i think.

Why not?

because i dont really care either way. if she isn't calling me back because she doesn't want to, then thats fine, but if it was something like that, then i would kind of feel bad not calling her back. and thats the thing, i never even asked for her number, she just gave it to me, and then she doesn't return my calls? how much sense does that make? thats why i kind of just think her dad doesn't like me. but judging by her other boyfriends, thats really really bad, and also doesn't make much sense.

I really didn't care when she gave me her number, and i didn't have to call her back then. so if she's just doing it to be stupid, fuck her. i'll see her anyway in a week or so probably, or atleast be around her house.

Then I dunno what to say. I think I'd phone, but I have no particular reason for saying that.

But ultimately, if your not bothered either way, then it doesn't really matter.

I wouldn't ring her back, unless I was drunk and horny.

It seems weird that she would give you her dad's house phone number.

It's not really her dad - it is her middle age husband. They want a threesome with you, and if you are down with the reach around call her back.

she doesn't have a cell phone. her parents aren't home during the day, and she doesn't work now. so i mean, if she forgot to call that night, it seems like she would have called during the day. but im not going to call her. because it doesn't matter to me, and if she chose not to call back, and i called her, it would look like i did care.

Just fucking call her, screw her in her house during the day so she cant stick around your house bothering you then leave. End of thought process.

Haha the good ol calling back and forth situation. Her dad probably forgot to just tell her..my fucking dad forgets 24/7 if someone calls for me, never tells me until like 2 days later or not at all. As for her, she probably made the same mistake. I have like never once myself called anyone back unless i do so within the 1st 10minutes of saying so. I doubt shes choosing not to call you, just forgets.

Just call her again and see whats up, otherwise just make sure she has your number and if she wants to talk have her call you instead of you looking desperate calling her.

If it's her house number why did you call at 11 pm? Why did you then call at 11 am? If she isn't worth talking to why are you making this post? Why are you insecure?

yeah, i'll make sure whenever im around. but the thing was, like when i woke her dad up, we know each other, and he seemed ok with me, but i told him to tell her i called, and he said ok. and i know he smokes alot of weed, so i was like "you sure you'll remember", and he said yeah, in a way that kind of sounded like he thought something was wrong with me for asking him that. =/ maybe he was cool with me until it came to his daughter, but like i said, i cant imagine him viewing me as worse than most of her boyfriends. i'll make sure she has my number when i see her though.

i called at 11pm, because i figured nobody would be asleep at that time on a friday night. then at 11 that monday, because i was thinking the same thing i posted. i dont care because im not insecure, and feel like i have a girlfriend, or always talking about "yeah i fucked her and her bla bla". i prefer to spend time by myself as opposed to with other people, and every girl who comes around (my sisters friends) usually like me. it's not hard for me to get girls, and i stay home most of the time, that and the fact that i really dont need anyone around, makes me not care. she's easy, and i dont not want her around so...

she isn't a nazi with a penis so it's kind of a waste of time for you...

This is just my thought, but maybe when you woke up her dad he just didn't remember that you called for her because you woke him up. I would call her and just mention that you never heard from here to see what happened. If I were you though I would deff give her a call. What do you have to lose?